Comments on: Competing With Porn http://www.erosblog.com/2003/11/05/competing-with-porn/ Sex Blogging, Gratuitous Nudity, Kinky Sex, Sundry Sensuality Wed, 17 Mar 2010 06:23:08 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Dr.Whiplash http://www.erosblog.com/2003/11/05/competing-with-porn/#comment-119443 Dr.Whiplash Tue, 16 Mar 2010 12:18:44 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=605#comment-119443 A link back to this posting has caused me to revisit the aboved mentioned link to Naomi Wolf's antiporn article. I have to disagree with her premiss that competition is bad for sex. Females expect males to compete for sex, why shouldn't females suffer the same scrutiny? Male peacocks have to have the biggest fan, male deer the biggest antlers, male humans have to have the biggest penises, or the biggest houses, or the biggest cars, or the biggest paychecks with which to buy the biggest diamonds... I can however agree with her on two points that she has made in other writings. One, that women need to shatter this polarizing view that they are either virgins or whores, and two, that women need to agressively pursue publishing accounts of their own personal sexual coming-of-age stories. Accomplishing these two goals would greatly enrich the sex lives of BOTH sexes, and ultimately bring women and men closer together. However, in the article referred to above, she seems to contradict this, when she laments the loss of "mystery" in sex today. Methinks what she really misses might be a women's ability to control a man with a mere flash of her naked ankle. Perhaps her own personal ability to command a room in her youth, being as she wrote the above cited article when she was passing the age of forty. Ms. Wolf certainly has nothing personally to fear from today's access to pornography. Six and a half years after Bacchus first published this article, she is still a MAJOR M.I.L.F. at the age of 47, and if porn indeed deadens the male libido, I would not have said such, trust me! A link back to this posting has caused me to revisit the aboved mentioned link to Naomi Wolf’s antiporn article. I have to disagree with her premiss that competition is bad for sex. Females expect males to compete for sex, why shouldn’t females suffer the same scrutiny? Male peacocks have to have the biggest fan, male deer the biggest antlers, male humans have to have the biggest penises, or the biggest houses, or the biggest cars, or the biggest paychecks with which to buy the biggest diamonds…

I can however agree with her on two points that she has made in other writings. One, that women need to shatter this polarizing view that they are either virgins or whores, and two, that women need to agressively pursue publishing accounts of their own personal sexual coming-of-age stories. Accomplishing these two goals would greatly enrich the sex lives of BOTH sexes, and ultimately bring women and men closer together.

However, in the article referred to above, she seems to contradict this, when she laments the loss of “mystery” in sex today.

Methinks what she really misses might be a women’s ability to control a man with a mere flash of her naked ankle. Perhaps her own personal ability to command a room in her youth, being as she wrote the above cited article when she was passing the age of forty.

Ms. Wolf certainly has nothing personally to fear from today’s access to pornography. Six and a half years after Bacchus first published this article, she is still a MAJOR M.I.L.F. at the age of 47, and if porn indeed deadens the male libido, I would not have said such, trust me!

]]> By: Dr.Whiplash http://www.erosblog.com/2003/11/05/competing-with-porn/#comment-27024 Dr.Whiplash Fri, 20 Apr 2007 11:14:29 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=605#comment-27024 This man is definitely onto something here. For the benefit of the young man who may not yet have the wisdom that comes from experience, I offer some corroborative attestation in support of his theory: In my own experience, I can say that these women may not be malicious teases, they may merely be lesbian and not even know it yet themselves. Mr. Raymond is quite articulate here, and I thank Erosblog for bringing the link and the knowledge to light. Thanks for the legwork Bacchus! It's why I read this blog. This man is definitely onto something here. For the benefit of the young man who may not yet have the wisdom that comes from experience, I offer some corroborative attestation in support of his theory: In my own experience, I can say that these women may not be malicious teases, they may merely be lesbian and not even know it yet themselves. Mr. Raymond is quite articulate here, and I thank Erosblog for bringing the link and the knowledge to light. Thanks for the legwork Bacchus! It’s why I read this blog.

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