Comments on: Baloop, Bump http://www.erosblog.com/2004/02/28/baloop-bump/ Sex Blogging, Gratuitous Nudity, Kinky Sex, Sundry Sensuality Fri, 5 Dec 2008 10:41:42 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Maiira http://www.erosblog.com/2004/02/28/baloop-bump/#comment-54266 Maiira Wed, 30 Jan 2008 07:03:21 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=733#comment-54266 Old old entry, I know, but I had to put my two cents in. I at first agreed with Bri. My first thought was "wait...isn't Bacchus' usual policy to NOT post articles that use such words to refer to women?" But as I read it, I noticed a few things. First, as Vikki said, the guy was seeking to please her...that seemed to be the whole idea behind his activities. That, and he seemed concerned for her well-being: he asked her at one point if she was okay, and helped her to the bathroom when she couldn't move, which told me that this was perfectly consensual and legit. SHE certainly seemed to be enthusiastic about it. Also, it seems to me like that particular term of endearment was an accepted (and, again, consensual) part of the relationship. That said...hot, hot, HOT! :) Old old entry, I know, but I had to put my two cents in.

I at first agreed with Bri. My first thought was “wait…isn’t Bacchus’ usual policy to NOT post articles that use such words to refer to women?” But as I read it, I noticed a few things. First, as Vikki said, the guy was seeking to please her…that seemed to be the whole idea behind his activities. That, and he seemed concerned for her well-being: he asked her at one point if she was okay, and helped her to the bathroom when she couldn’t move, which told me that this was perfectly consensual and legit. SHE certainly seemed to be enthusiastic about it. Also, it seems to me like that particular term of endearment was an accepted (and, again, consensual) part of the relationship.

That said…hot, hot, HOT! :)

]]> By: Diana http://www.erosblog.com/2004/02/28/baloop-bump/#comment-540 Diana Tue, 02 Mar 2004 04:59:37 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=733#comment-540 Yikes...I've been known to call my male partners "bitch"! I hope they don't feel degraded... Yikes…I’ve been known to call my male partners “bitch”!
I hope they don’t feel degraded…

]]> By: blonde http://www.erosblog.com/2004/02/28/baloop-bump/#comment-535 blonde Mon, 01 Mar 2004 22:09:58 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=733#comment-535 hmmm, bitch. Actually, i like the way Vikki disected it. It was quite perfect. hmmm, bitch. Actually, i like the way Vikki disected it. It was quite perfect.

]]> By: Anton http://www.erosblog.com/2004/02/28/baloop-bump/#comment-532 Anton Mon, 01 Mar 2004 21:20:59 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=733#comment-532 An author's note: If you knew who I was talking about when I said "The Perfect Bitch" you'd say "Oh, yeah, her." I actually never called her a bitch to her face.At the end I think I was thinking it every 12.5 seconds, but like I said, if you knew her... Apologies to the rest of the women out there. Technical note: Swedish Massagers are also good for the most exquisite 5 second handjobs known to man.That's all it takes, it takes no more. Thanks for the link. An author’s note: If you knew who I was talking about when I said “The Perfect Bitch” you’d say “Oh, yeah, her.” I actually never called her a bitch to her face.At the end I think I was thinking it every 12.5 seconds, but like I said, if you knew her…
Apologies to the rest of the women out there.
Technical note: Swedish Massagers are also good for the most exquisite 5 second handjobs known to man.That’s all it takes, it takes no more.
Thanks for the link.

]]> By: Girl http://www.erosblog.com/2004/02/28/baloop-bump/#comment-539 Girl Mon, 01 Mar 2004 03:32:24 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=733#comment-539 Well I've called my (male) sex partner bastard, fucker and prick, so I guess there's some equality (in the bedroom that is). It's the sexism out of the bedroom we have to worry about; I always challenge chauvinism and sexism when I am faced with it. No man calls me a bitch (unless I tell him to that is!) Just my two pence worth... Well I’ve called my (male) sex partner bastard, fucker and prick, so I guess there’s some equality (in the bedroom that is).
It’s the sexism out of the bedroom we have to worry about; I always challenge chauvinism and sexism when I am faced with it. No man calls me a bitch (unless I tell him to that is!)
Just my two pence worth…

]]> By: Bacchus http://www.erosblog.com/2004/02/28/baloop-bump/#comment-534 Bacchus Sun, 29 Feb 2004 23:32:10 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=733#comment-534 Bri's got a point; I am loathe to use the word "bitch" myself and rarely reprint it, because it's so often shorthand for a whole raft of misogynistic attitudes. However, in this case I simply thought the story was worth the price. I considered a disclaimer, but decided whot-the-hell - am I Alan Alda or Bacchus? So there you are. No apologies, but I do understand why it might have bothered some folks. Bri’s got a point; I am loathe to use the word “bitch” myself and rarely reprint it, because it’s so often shorthand for a whole raft of misogynistic attitudes. However, in this case I simply thought the story was worth the price. I considered a disclaimer, but decided whot-the-hell - am I Alan Alda or Bacchus?
So there you are. No apologies, but I do understand why it might have bothered some folks.

]]> By: Harvey http://www.erosblog.com/2004/02/28/baloop-bump/#comment-538 Harvey Sun, 29 Feb 2004 22:00:46 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=733#comment-538 Note to self: get a Swedish hand massager. Note to self: get a Swedish hand massager.

]]> By: Vikki http://www.erosblog.com/2004/02/28/baloop-bump/#comment-537 Vikki Sun, 29 Feb 2004 20:31:15 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=733#comment-537 I've gotta agree with Amber here. I saw nothing wrong or degrading about any of that story. I think it's pretty obvious the guy is a) sensitive to her needs (was worried that he should stop), b) loves arousing her for hours on end, c) gave her multiple orgasms and d) did it, in the end, to PLEASE her! Hell, if a man is willing to do those things, he can call me a bitch all he likes. *laughs* I’ve gotta agree with Amber here. I saw nothing wrong or degrading about any of that story. I think it’s pretty obvious the guy is a) sensitive to her needs (was worried that he should stop), b) loves arousing her for hours on end, c) gave her multiple orgasms and d) did it, in the end, to PLEASE her! Hell, if a man is willing to do those things, he can call me a bitch all he likes. *laughs*

]]> By: Porn Guy http://www.erosblog.com/2004/02/28/baloop-bump/#comment-533 Porn Guy Sun, 29 Feb 2004 19:42:37 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=733#comment-533 Bacchus, that is about the hottest piece of writing I've seen in months. Thank you for reposting it. You are a prince among men. Bacchus, that is about the hottest piece of writing I’ve seen in months. Thank you for reposting it. You are a prince among men.

]]> By: Amber http://www.erosblog.com/2004/02/28/baloop-bump/#comment-531 Amber Sun, 29 Feb 2004 12:23:10 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=733#comment-531 *knock knock* Excuse me, but I'm a woman and I don't have a problem with the word "bitch" being used when it's non-abusive, sexual or tongue-in-cheek in nature. As is the case here. I respect the fact you find it not cool, more power to ya, but you do not speak for all women when you say this post is not "woman friendly". Just speaking as a bona-fide woman and all here...and a full-out bitch when need be. :-) *knock knock* Excuse me, but I’m a woman and I don’t have a problem with the word “bitch” being used when it’s non-abusive, sexual or tongue-in-cheek in nature. As is the case here.
I respect the fact you find it not cool, more power to ya, but you do not speak for all women when you say this post is not “woman friendly”.
Just speaking as a bona-fide woman and all here…and a full-out bitch when need be. :-)

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