Comments on: A Sex Question http://www.erosblog.com/2004/08/02/a-sex-question/ Sex Blogging, Gratuitous Nudity, Kinky Sex, Sundry Sensuality Sat, 11 Feb 2012 07:00:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Dr.Whiplash http://www.erosblog.com/2004/08/02/a-sex-question/#comment-113096 Dr.Whiplash Mon, 21 Sep 2009 13:52:17 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=953#comment-113096 Well Danor, this is how I wish my girlfriends would have resolved that question: Don't tell him what you have planned, but establish a "safeword" that you both agree on. Tie him tightly to the bed. Either by hand or by mouth (or combination...), bring him to orgasm. Don't stop right away. Listen for the safeword. If you don't hear it, try this technique again and again in the future, sometimes with a gag... If you DO hear the safeword (don't worry too much ...chances are it won't actually kill him...), cease all stimulation immediately, but you may not want to untie him right away, at least not until he stops making his angry face... Well Danor, this is how I wish my girlfriends would have resolved that question:

Don’t tell him what you have planned, but establish a “safeword” that you both agree on. Tie him tightly to the bed. Either by hand or by mouth (or combination…), bring him to orgasm. Don’t stop right away. Listen for the safeword. If you don’t hear it, try this technique again and again in the future, sometimes with a gag…

If you DO hear the safeword (don’t worry too much …chances are it won’t actually kill him…), cease all stimulation immediately, but you may not want to untie him right away, at least not until he stops making his angry face…

]]> By: Cal http://www.erosblog.com/2004/08/02/a-sex-question/#comment-1834 Cal Fri, 19 Nov 2004 05:46:40 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=953#comment-1834 right, the best way to get near multiple orgasms is just to stop doing anything to him, right before he is about to cum.. just stop for like 10 seconds, and he'll calm down, then start again, then as he's about to cum, stop again, then start again, repeat as many times as you want, as long as he doesn't fully cum, he'll stay hard (you'll need him to tell you when to stop tho, or just watch him carefully).. this doesn't only keep him hard, it makes alot of precum which lubes everything up nicely. now, its not quite multiple orgasms, but it does... how can i put this, fill his orgasm meter up. lol think of it like an empty bucket that you're fillin with water, every time he's about to cum, you pour a bit more water in, then when he finally does cum the buckets full and ready to tip out, and oh boy will he cum lol its like all those orgasms he was denied have ganged up on him and are out for vengence! :P if you're into dominating guys tho, i have to say anal's the way to go.. if your guy can learn to like it you can push it a bit, and he'll make alot of satisfying noise :P after he cums tho, be very gentle with him and go for heavy petting after like 30 secs (not on his cock, leave that well alone till it gets hard from the petting again :P) pfft, im only 18 and i know more than any of you... i blame TV and the internet.. so many dodgy sites.... ;) right, the best way to get near multiple orgasms is just to stop doing anything to him, right before he is about to cum.. just stop for like 10 seconds, and he’ll calm down, then start again, then as he’s about to cum, stop again, then start again, repeat as many times as you want, as long as he doesn’t fully cum, he’ll stay hard (you’ll need him to tell you when to stop tho, or just watch him carefully)..
this doesn’t only keep him hard, it makes alot of precum which lubes everything up nicely. now, its not quite multiple orgasms, but it does… how can i put this, fill his orgasm meter up. lol
think of it like an empty bucket that you’re fillin with water, every time he’s about to cum, you pour a bit more water in, then when he finally does cum the buckets full and ready to tip out, and oh boy will he cum
lol
its like all those orgasms he was denied have ganged up on him and are out for vengence! :P
if you’re into dominating guys tho, i have to say anal’s the way to go.. if your guy can learn to like it you can push it a bit, and he’ll make alot of satisfying noise :P
after he cums tho, be very gentle with him and go for heavy petting after like 30 secs (not on his cock, leave that well alone till it gets hard from the petting again :P)
pfft, im only 18 and i know more than any of you… i blame TV and the internet.. so many dodgy sites…. ;)

]]> By: bill http://www.erosblog.com/2004/08/02/a-sex-question/#comment-1822 bill Sat, 14 Aug 2004 09:09:46 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=953#comment-1822 I have experienced pain at this point. When a man has a very intense orgasm, it hurts for a time afterwards. Usually until urination following the orgasm. I don't know why this urination clears up the discomfort, but it does. Probaby tied in with the prostate gland. Pesky little bugger, that prostate! I have experienced pain at this point. When a man has a very intense orgasm, it hurts for a time afterwards. Usually until urination following the orgasm. I don’t know why this urination clears up the discomfort, but it does. Probaby tied in with the prostate gland. Pesky little bugger, that prostate!

]]> By: the errogenous nanojath http://www.erosblog.com/2004/08/02/a-sex-question/#comment-1839 the errogenous nanojath Sun, 08 Aug 2004 08:54:26 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=953#comment-1839 While I certainly agree with all the more communication comments I do think the comparison is flawed. Further agressive stimulation beyond orgasm is for me and I think most men essentially painful, and it isn't going anywhere until a refractory period has passed and I'm ready to get hard again. It needs to be laid off in my book 'cause it hurts, it stings, it agonizes, it feels, in a word, bad. When I say stop it is not because I feel like it's getting too much in a transcendental, penetrating the membrane and trembling on the edge of the giant buzzing void sort of way, its because it is done for now and it no longer feels good. The woman's response is considerably more elastic in my experience. This being said you can always prove it for yourself. If no in this case indeed means no, then I think he will alert you to the fact in no uncertain terms. And if it means there's another blowjob in his future, and if I know men, I'm sure he'll forgive you for "testing" him. One last thing, if you really want to push the limits, he could try developing multiorgasmic potential. Having only read about it, your mileage may vary, but some say if the man exercises his PC muscles (through kegels, same as the lady) sufficiently he can "clamp down" at the point of orgasm and prevent ejaculation while experiencing orgasm, then you can slow then build again... I imagine it's a lot of work though or we'd all be doing it. While I certainly agree with all the more communication comments I do think the comparison is flawed. Further agressive stimulation beyond orgasm is for me and I think most men essentially painful, and it isn’t going anywhere until a refractory period has passed and I’m ready to get hard again. It needs to be laid off in my book ’cause it hurts, it stings, it agonizes, it feels, in a word, bad. When I say stop it is not because I feel like it’s getting too much in a transcendental, penetrating the membrane and trembling on the edge of the giant buzzing void sort of way, its because it is done for now and it no longer feels good. The woman’s response is considerably more elastic in my experience.
This being said you can always prove it for yourself. If no in this case indeed means no, then I think he will alert you to the fact in no uncertain terms. And if it means there’s another blowjob in his future, and if I know men, I’m sure he’ll forgive you for “testing” him.
One last thing, if you really want to push the limits, he could try developing multiorgasmic potential. Having only read about it, your mileage may vary, but some say if the man exercises his PC muscles (through kegels, same as the lady) sufficiently he can “clamp down” at the point of orgasm and prevent ejaculation while experiencing orgasm, then you can slow then build again… I imagine it’s a lot of work though or we’d all be doing it.

]]> By: katy http://www.erosblog.com/2004/08/02/a-sex-question/#comment-1819 katy Thu, 05 Aug 2004 06:31:39 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=953#comment-1819 danor, I think you and I are the only ones who know that the right answer is "Master gets to do what he likes, and we get to take it." ;) OTOH, I actually have been known to use my safeword in times of sensory overload. That pleasure/pain line is a bitch. danor, I think you and I are the only ones who know that the right answer is “Master gets to do what he likes, and we get to take it.” ;)
OTOH, I actually have been known to use my safeword in times of sensory overload. That pleasure/pain line is a bitch.

]]> By: silversand http://www.erosblog.com/2004/08/02/a-sex-question/#comment-1823 silversand Wed, 04 Aug 2004 10:37:23 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=953#comment-1823 i like red's response the best. too intense contact just after orgasm is definitely sensory overload, but i think that continuing to stimulate albeit more sensitively is a good way to facilitate a guy moving toward another orgasm. i like red’s response the best. too intense contact just after orgasm is definitely sensory overload, but i think that continuing to stimulate albeit more sensitively is a good way to facilitate a guy moving toward another orgasm.

]]> By: sinsulita http://www.erosblog.com/2004/08/02/a-sex-question/#comment-1825 sinsulita Wed, 04 Aug 2004 03:32:55 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/?p=953#comment-1825 I thought the poster was pointing out that what her partner wishes is opposite of what he does on her. I can relate to the same thing. Guys want to dig in further, when just my swallowing on my man's cock gets him shuddering and bucking to have my mouth off him stat. I thought the poster was pointing out that what her partner wishes is opposite of what he does on her. I can relate to the same thing. Guys want to dig in further, when just my swallowing on my man’s cock gets him shuddering and bucking to have my mouth off him stat.

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