Comments on: “Needs” and toys http://www.erosblog.com/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/ Sex Blogging, Gratuitous Nudity, Kinky Sex, Sundry Sensuality Wed, 7 Jan 2009 22:56:37 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Aphrodite http://www.erosblog.com/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4932 Aphrodite Wed, 29 Sep 2004 13:13:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4932 Thanks, everyone, especially TwiddlyBits, for your comments. Guess I've got an interesting shopping expedition ahead for myself! Although, I did meet a cute guy two nights ago ... :) Thanks, everyone, especially TwiddlyBits, for your comments. Guess I’ve got an interesting shopping expedition ahead for myself!

Although, I did meet a cute guy two nights ago … :)

]]> By: Alex http://www.erosblog.com/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4928 Alex Tue, 28 Sep 2004 11:44:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4928 It's a super efficient way to get off when you just need that release. Never thought of trying a vibrating vagina because it's such an unappealing copy of something I want to see in reality connected to a live writhing body. Also, the cleanup process seems like way too much trouble. I'm amazed by how quickly my little pocket rocket can have me spurting. Yeah, I'm a male and I put the tip of this little vibrator on that spot just beneath the head on the underside of the penis and it works even if I'm not that excited to begin with... It's like something I can't control is making me cum. It’s a super efficient way to get off when you just need that release. Never thought of trying a vibrating vagina because it’s such an unappealing copy of something I want to see in reality connected to a live writhing body. Also, the cleanup process seems like way too much trouble.

I’m amazed by how quickly my little pocket rocket can have me spurting. Yeah, I’m a male and I put the tip of this little vibrator on that spot just beneath the head on the underside of the penis and it works even if I’m not that excited to begin with… It’s like something I can’t control is making me cum.

]]> By: Justin http://www.erosblog.com/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4927 Justin Tue, 28 Sep 2004 11:28:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4927 "And if it weren't for toys, I would have never known I could climax seven times in a row. (I'm gonna shoot for 8 next time!)" And that is one reason why I'm very much into women who play with toys and know themselves and their bodies, being part of that kind of situation can be so much more fun than your standard "in-out, in-out". I helped one ex realise her fantasy of becoming multi-orgasmic, but even willing a willing tongue and versatile fingers tire after such hard work (no matter how fun it is). “And if it weren’t for toys, I would have never known I could climax seven times in a row. (I’m gonna shoot for 8 next time!)”

And that is one reason why I’m very much into women who play with toys and know themselves and their bodies, being part of that kind of situation can be so much more fun than your standard “in-out, in-out”. I helped one ex realise her fantasy of becoming multi-orgasmic, but even willing a willing tongue and versatile fingers tire after such hard work (no matter how fun it is).

]]> By: katy http://www.erosblog.com/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4931 katy Tue, 28 Sep 2004 09:04:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4931 Some women swear by the rabbit type vibes. I'm more of a bullet girl. As far as dildos, I prefer thin tools with interesting shapes. I can't get a comfortable fit with anything that is actually cock shaped. The basic goal for me isn't to simulate human sex but to go beyond it. And like TwiddlyBits said, it definitely doesn't have to be a solo sport. Some women swear by the rabbit type vibes. I’m more of a bullet girl. As far as dildos, I prefer thin tools with interesting shapes. I can’t get a comfortable fit with anything that is actually cock shaped. The basic goal for me isn’t to simulate human sex but to go beyond it. And like TwiddlyBits said, it definitely doesn’t have to be a solo sport.

]]> By: Drunken Whore http://www.erosblog.com/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4926 Drunken Whore Tue, 28 Sep 2004 08:56:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4926 Well, like Aphrodite (feels weird to call someone else that -- it's another of my identities), I usually have willing sex partners and so on, but I also have a decent collection of sex toys. I find they're great for when I'm feeling somewhat lazy, or can't see my partner for whatever reason, or they're just fun to introduce during the action on their own. I tend to prefer vibrators to dildos, and my collection really reflects that. :) Well, like Aphrodite (feels weird to call someone else that — it’s another of my identities), I usually have willing sex partners and so on, but I also have a decent collection of sex toys. I find they’re great for when I’m feeling somewhat lazy, or can’t see my partner for whatever reason, or they’re just fun to introduce during the action on their own.

I tend to prefer vibrators to dildos, and my collection really reflects that. :)

]]> By: TwiddlyBits http://www.erosblog.com/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4930 TwiddlyBits Tue, 28 Sep 2004 05:57:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4930 Oh, one more thing - I never said toys were "better than sex with a person". If I had to choose one or the other, I would choose sex with a person over sex with a toy. But, I don't have to choose! I can do both - even at the same time!! :-) Oh, one more thing - I never said toys were “better than sex with a person”. If I had to choose one or the other, I would choose sex with a person over sex with a toy. But, I don’t have to choose! I can do both - even at the same time!! :-)

]]> By: TwiddlyBits http://www.erosblog.com/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4929 TwiddlyBits Tue, 28 Sep 2004 05:54:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4929 I'm surprised nobody has mentioned that they make a delightful addition to sex with a partner. I don't view sex toys as a *replacement* for, but as a wonderful *complement* to a partner (or partners)! Sure, I use them solo, but DanglyBits & I are just as likely to use them together. We love them!! I’m surprised nobody has mentioned that they make a delightful addition to sex with a partner. I don’t view sex toys as a *replacement* for, but as a wonderful *complement* to a partner (or partners)! Sure, I use them solo, but DanglyBits & I are just as likely to use them together. We love them!!

]]> By: Otty http://www.erosblog.com/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4925 Otty Mon, 27 Sep 2004 15:29:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4925 You notice women will talk about dildo's, but men never talk about those vibrating vagina sex toys. I wonder if lesbians buy them! :P You notice women will talk about dildo’s, but men never talk about those vibrating vagina sex toys. I wonder if lesbians buy them! :P

]]> By: Anon http://www.erosblog.com/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4920 Anon Mon, 27 Sep 2004 15:18:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4920 Sex toys are different, it's a different experience and different people experience toys in different ways. Me, I use sex toys frequently because if I didn't, I'd never have an orgasm. And that's not saying anything about my partner's skill, it's saying a lot more about my body's inability to respond to anything but really strong simulation that a partner would have to be superhuman to provide. Sex toys are different, it’s a different experience and different people experience toys in different ways.

Me, I use sex toys frequently because if I didn’t, I’d never have an orgasm. And that’s not saying anything about my partner’s skill, it’s saying a lot more about my body’s inability to respond to anything but really strong simulation that a partner would have to be superhuman to provide.

]]> By: candyman http://www.erosblog.com/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4924 candyman Mon, 27 Sep 2004 11:58:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2004/09/27/needs-and-toys/#comment-4924 My wife and I just got a vibrator and we've started to experiment. We're starting slow, but she seems to like it so far. I'm interested in how it works for you My wife and I just got a vibrator and we’ve started to experiment. We’re starting slow, but she seems to like it so far. I’m interested in how it works for you

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