Sounds like this guy couldn’t handle his hand cramping up a little bit. I’ve NEVER known a girl (in my massive, massive experience of probably four or five) who couldn’t get off somehow from fingering, whether they only came through penetration or came most easily through clitoral stimulation.

And what bad advice for budding fingerers! When I started fingering girls, I had no idea what was going on, and reading a guide that said “She won’t come, so don’t worry about it” would have been unencouraging at the least. Fortunately, that was back when the Internet was young and the sex guides were mostly accurate and free.

I’d like to use my fingers to smack the crap out of people who give advice like that.

Here’s some advice – we are not televisions, do not adjust us like we are. Don’t just jam fingers into our pussies and futz around like you’re sticking your fingers into a jar of strawberry jam either. The concept is that it should feel good having fingers in our pussies, or why would you have them there?

Moral? All women are different, and ASK!

And apparently the people fingering me have been going about it all wrong as well…I keep having those pesky orgasms…*grin*

Oh wait. Nevermind. B^)