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	<title>Comments on: The End Of The R Story</title>
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	<pubDate>Wed,  7 Jan 2009 21:57:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: katy</title>
		<link>http://www.erosblog.com/2005/06/01/the-end-of-the-r-story/#comment-3494</link>
		<dc:creator>katy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2005 14:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Don't forget a trip to the clinic to get tested for everything.  If you can't trust him to tie you up, can you trust his end of the "safe sex" talk?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t forget a trip to the clinic to get tested for everything.  If you can&#8217;t trust him to tie you up, can you trust his end of the &#8220;safe sex&#8221; talk?</p>
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		<title>By: Moe</title>
		<link>http://www.erosblog.com/2005/06/01/the-end-of-the-r-story/#comment-3499</link>
		<dc:creator>Moe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2005 08:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What? No way! I live in NZ, that just doesn't seem right. Did it say what paper it was from? Somehow I think this would have gotten more media attention, especially if it is indeed the Lions they're playing against. Or is it an old pic?

Hard for me to believe it's a provincial or above level - there's no Maoris present in that pic. They've been a prominent force in NZ Rugby for a long time now...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What? No way! I live in NZ, that just doesn&#8217;t seem right. Did it say what paper it was from? Somehow I think this would have gotten more media attention, especially if it is indeed the Lions they&#8217;re playing against. Or is it an old pic?</p>
<p>Hard for me to believe it&#8217;s a provincial or above level - there&#8217;s no Maoris present in that pic. They&#8217;ve been a prominent force in NZ Rugby for a long time now&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: freya</title>
		<link>http://www.erosblog.com/2005/06/01/the-end-of-the-r-story/#comment-3493</link>
		<dc:creator>freya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jun 2005 14:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"whacking it to the gor books!"  HA!  Good one, LOL.

And Karl, thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;whacking it to the gor books!&#8221;  HA!  Good one, LOL.</p>
<p>And Karl, thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Regan</title>
		<link>http://www.erosblog.com/2005/06/01/the-end-of-the-r-story/#comment-3492</link>
		<dc:creator>Regan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jun 2005 11:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As far as the Jekyll-Hyde thing - sounds like "how he is" is a man with no idea how to relate to other people.

The "Yer my slave" thing is pretty clearly a man who's read some BDSM fiction and done no further research. He found a woman who would try the things he's read about and went bugshit. "The slaves in the books never ask for lube or use safewords! I don't understand - maybe I should be more forceful. This is nothing like my wank fantasy! I'll try something else even more xtreme and see if that works."

I almost feel bad for the poor bastard. I can see him now, sitting in his apartment full of tech toys, whacking it to the Gor books and wondering why none of the women he's been with will ever talk to him again. Unfortunately, he doesn't to know how to listen, so he'll never figure it out. Yeesh.

You're better off out of it. I've been there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As far as the Jekyll-Hyde thing - sounds like &#8220;how he is&#8221; is a man with no idea how to relate to other people.</p>
<p>The &#8220;Yer my slave&#8221; thing is pretty clearly a man who&#8217;s read some BDSM fiction and done no further research. He found a woman who would try the things he&#8217;s read about and went bugshit. &#8220;The slaves in the books never ask for lube or use safewords! I don&#8217;t understand - maybe I should be more forceful. This is nothing like my wank fantasy! I&#8217;ll try something else even more xtreme and see if that works.&#8221;</p>
<p>I almost feel bad for the poor bastard. I can see him now, sitting in his apartment full of tech toys, whacking it to the Gor books and wondering why none of the women he&#8217;s been with will ever talk to him again. Unfortunately, he doesn&#8217;t to know how to listen, so he&#8217;ll never figure it out. Yeesh.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re better off out of it. I&#8217;ve been there.</p>
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		<title>By: Freya</title>
		<link>http://www.erosblog.com/2005/06/01/the-end-of-the-r-story/#comment-3490</link>
		<dc:creator>Freya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jun 2005 15:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. What a mindfuck and not the good kind either. You listened to yourself and did the right thing but wow, I'm sorry, what a drag.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. What a mindfuck and not the good kind either. You listened to yourself and did the right thing but wow, I&#8217;m sorry, what a drag.</p>
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		<title>By: Karl Elvis</title>
		<link>http://www.erosblog.com/2005/06/01/the-end-of-the-r-story/#comment-3491</link>
		<dc:creator>Karl Elvis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jun 2005 09:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"a mindfuck and not the good kind"

Freya, I love that phrase. B^)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;a mindfuck and not the good kind&#8221;</p>
<p>Freya, I love that phrase. B^)</p>
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		<title>By: Jodie</title>
		<link>http://www.erosblog.com/2005/06/01/the-end-of-the-r-story/#comment-3484</link>
		<dc:creator>Jodie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2005 16:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"...he said that he'd be able to tell if he was pushing me too hard and that stuff like that was for chickens." WTF??? What is he, 9 years old? Has he never read anything about what BDSM actually *is*? You totally made the right call. Pity the next woman whom he gets his clutches on: she may not have the same level of self-worth you have for yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;&#8230;he said that he&#8217;d be able to tell if he was pushing me too hard and that stuff like that was for chickens.&#8221; WTF??? What is he, 9 years old? Has he never read anything about what BDSM actually *is*? You totally made the right call. Pity the next woman whom he gets his clutches on: she may not have the same level of self-worth you have for yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
		<link>http://www.erosblog.com/2005/06/01/the-end-of-the-r-story/#comment-3487</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2005 14:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, this is *such* an old story.

The sex was great, but the guy doesn't want a relationship. And rather than do anything straightforward like say, "I don't want a relationship", he gets obnoxious and/or abusive, hoping the woman will walk away and he won't have to take responsibility for ending the affair.

There's a word for people like him...ummm...some kind of bird...pigeon?...no..seagull?...no, no...CHICKEN. That's it: he's too CHICKEN to be honest with his partner.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, this is *such* an old story.</p>
<p>The sex was great, but the guy doesn&#8217;t want a relationship. And rather than do anything straightforward like say, &#8220;I don&#8217;t want a relationship&#8221;, he gets obnoxious and/or abusive, hoping the woman will walk away and he won&#8217;t have to take responsibility for ending the affair.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s a word for people like him&#8230;ummm&#8230;some kind of bird&#8230;pigeon?&#8230;no..seagull?&#8230;no, no&#8230;CHICKEN. That&#8217;s it: he&#8217;s too CHICKEN to be honest with his partner.</p>
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		<title>By: devi</title>
		<link>http://www.erosblog.com/2005/06/01/the-end-of-the-r-story/#comment-3489</link>
		<dc:creator>devi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2005 13:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You -definately- did the right thing!!  This guy sounds like a complete poopyhead, and if he didn't understand what you were saying, then he was also as dumb as a rock.

Bravo to you.  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You -definately- did the right thing!!  This guy sounds like a complete poopyhead, and if he didn&#8217;t understand what you were saying, then he was also as dumb as a rock.</p>
<p>Bravo to you.  ;)</p>
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		<title>By: unfurling</title>
		<link>http://www.erosblog.com/2005/06/01/the-end-of-the-r-story/#comment-3486</link>
		<dc:creator>unfurling</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2005 13:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whoah. It sounds like you made all the right moves, and he just sounds like an unpleasant man. My advice is to hold out for a better one.

x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whoah. It sounds like you made all the right moves, and he just sounds like an unpleasant man. My advice is to hold out for a better one.</p>
<p>x</p>
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