Comments on: Lame Reasons For Wearing Clothes In Bed http://www.erosblog.com/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/ Sex Blogging, Gratuitous Nudity, Kinky Sex, Sundry Sensuality Wed, 7 Jan 2009 21:16:27 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Bacchus http://www.erosblog.com/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-97555 Bacchus Mon, 20 Oct 2008 09:02:12 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-97555 Seraph, in all seriousness, it's not about entitlement, it's about physical closeness. If you aren't "available" to your partner, why are you "sharing mattress space" with him? I don't think it's "obnoxious" to want to touch the woman I share a bed with. If she did think so, she wouldn't be there. Seems pretty simple to me. But coming to bed deliberately armored against physical closeness? That would be the truly obnoxious thing in my view. Seraph, in all seriousness, it’s not about entitlement, it’s about physical closeness. If you aren’t “available” to your partner, why are you “sharing mattress space” with him?

I don’t think it’s “obnoxious” to want to touch the woman I share a bed with. If she did think so, she wouldn’t be there. Seems pretty simple to me. But coming to bed deliberately armored against physical closeness? That would be the truly obnoxious thing in my view.

]]> By: Seraph http://www.erosblog.com/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-97542 Seraph Mon, 20 Oct 2008 04:09:12 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-97542 I read this post a looooong time ago and it's kind of been eating at me. Sure some of those reasons for wearing clothes in bed are lame. But I personally resent the attitude that I should sleep naked so that I will be sexually (or even just tactilely) available to my partner. I feel most comfortable wearing at least a t-shirt and comfortable panties to sleep (I don't like the feeling of my arms sticking to my torso, and I'm cold natured) and I don't like the idea that I should sacrifice my comfort because my partner is somehow entitled to my body because I agreed to share mattress space with him. I'm pretty sure you didn't mean for this post to sound obnoxious or entitled, you probably didn't even realize it--but it still got under my skin. And Dr. Whiplash--poor girl. Guess that just wasn't the right time for her to deal with that trauma. I read this post a looooong time ago and it’s kind of been eating at me. Sure some of those reasons for wearing clothes in bed are lame. But I personally resent the attitude that I should sleep naked so that I will be sexually (or even just tactilely) available to my partner. I feel most comfortable wearing at least a t-shirt and comfortable panties to sleep (I don’t like the feeling of my arms sticking to my torso, and I’m cold natured) and I don’t like the idea that I should sacrifice my comfort because my partner is somehow entitled to my body because I agreed to share mattress space with him. I’m pretty sure you didn’t mean for this post to sound obnoxious or entitled, you probably didn’t even realize it–but it still got under my skin.

And Dr. Whiplash–poor girl. Guess that just wasn’t the right time for her to deal with that trauma.

]]> By: Dr.Whiplash http://www.erosblog.com/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-34128 Dr.Whiplash Mon, 18 Jun 2007 20:09:28 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-34128 My "ex" wore a brassiere to bed (and other clothing as well). It was her armor. She'd been molested in the middle of the night, in her own bed, by a family member. She never would get therapy. As I said, she's my "ex"... My “ex” wore a brassiere to bed (and other clothing as well). It was her armor. She’d been molested in the middle of the night, in her own bed, by a family member. She never would get therapy. As I said, she’s my “ex”…

]]> By: Bill http://www.erosblog.com/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2630 Bill Mon, 21 Nov 2005 13:17:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2630 Ann Landers from thirty years ago: What two people wear to bed is between them. Ann Landers from thirty years ago: What two people wear to bed is between them.

]]> By: gromm http://www.erosblog.com/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2629 gromm Fri, 11 Nov 2005 16:49:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2629 My wife and I always sleep naked. She actually falls asleep faster if I'm snuggling up to her for a while. But I can't fall asleep that way. If you have a problem with that, tell your partner that you're trying to sleep. If she's a decent human being, she'll let you. My wife and I always sleep naked. She actually falls asleep faster if I’m snuggling up to her for a while. But I can’t fall asleep that way.

If you have a problem with that, tell your partner that you’re trying to sleep. If she’s a decent human being, she’ll let you.

]]> By: boy who dresses like girl http://www.erosblog.com/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2628 boy who dresses like girl Mon, 07 Nov 2005 14:30:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2628 8) "It's hard to keep your own hands off yourself sometimes." Imagine that. Girls discovering they're beautiful, sexy, and hot. 8) “It’s hard to keep your own hands off yourself sometimes.”

Imagine that. Girls discovering they’re beautiful, sexy, and hot.

]]> By: Jenny http://www.erosblog.com/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2627 Jenny Sun, 06 Nov 2005 07:40:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2627 Okay, I'm a tiny bit of a lingerie fetishist and nighties, negligees and nightgowns - not to mention sweet little silk chemises and vintage baby dolls to get that tiger in...Ah, yes. But there is a difference between coming to bed and sleeping. Heck, I've got several pairs of 5 inch heels which are designed entirely for the ten foot walk from dressing room to bed. Sleeping, on the other hand is best done nude on 300 plus thread count cotton sheets with a goose down duvet and a friendly, and deeply satisfied, companion to lend heat as required. As for the transition: a friend of mine once said the very best lingerie always ended up as a scarf... Okay, I’m a tiny bit of a lingerie fetishist and nighties, negligees and nightgowns - not to mention sweet little silk chemises and vintage baby dolls to get that tiger in…Ah, yes.

But there is a difference between coming to bed and sleeping. Heck, I’ve got several pairs of 5 inch heels which are designed entirely for the ten foot walk from dressing room to bed.

Sleeping, on the other hand is best done nude on 300 plus thread count cotton sheets with a goose down duvet and a friendly, and deeply satisfied, companion to lend heat as required.

As for the transition: a friend of mine once said the very best lingerie always ended up as a scarf…

]]> By: S/A http://www.erosblog.com/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2626 S/A Sat, 05 Nov 2005 10:08:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2626 It's like this. Do you want 3 extra throws seperating you from me? Because that's the only way I'm going naked. Women generally feel cold more and heat less. In order to not wear clothes in bed I am going to need extra blankets because the amount you desire is not going to be enough. It’s like this. Do you want 3 extra throws seperating you from me? Because that’s the only way I’m going naked. Women generally feel cold more and heat less. In order to not wear clothes in bed I am going to need extra blankets because the amount you desire is not going to be enough.

]]> By: Kristen http://www.erosblog.com/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2625 Kristen Fri, 04 Nov 2005 09:37:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2625 Well, I can't believe no one else has this problem... I'm sure there are some other women out there! What about girl gunk? If I go to bed without underwear on, I get disgusting crusty gunk on my labia and legs. THAT is a definately gross turn-off for sex, for me, I get paranoid that my husband is going to be grossed out by it. Whether he is or not, I still like to be gunk free when he goes in. Well, I can’t believe no one else has this problem… I’m sure there are some other women out there! What about girl gunk? If I go to bed without underwear on, I get disgusting crusty gunk on my labia and legs. THAT is a definately gross turn-off for sex, for me, I get paranoid that my husband is going to be grossed out by it. Whether he is or not, I still like to be gunk free when he goes in.

]]> By: mensplay http://www.erosblog.com/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2624 mensplay Fri, 04 Nov 2005 07:04:00 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/wp/2005/10/28/lame-reasons-for-wearing-clothes-in-bed/#comment-2624 Both my wife and I sleep in the nude. Although sometimes she complains about her breasts and is discussing wearing a sport bra to bed instead. Both my wife and I sleep in the nude. Although sometimes she complains about her breasts and is discussing wearing a sport bra to bed instead.

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