The problem is, you get depressed and disillusioned, and then you become unpleasant to be around, which causes people to want you to leave, which causes you to become more depressed and disillusioned, and so on and so forth. It is, as people have already said, a feedback loop or an error catastrophe. And it sucks. But girls, like all people, are people, and they are not rotten to the core. But many are outwardly rather cynical and superficial.

It’s just that, to most people, being depressed is annoying behavior, and it is a barrier to getting to know you better. Think about it. If some girl talks to you, you probably respond with something mildly rude, instead of the social pleasantries most people expect. This makes them not talk to you any more. I know what it’s like. It sucks. But people are not rotten to the core, they are just, every one of them, rotten slightly on the outside.

Like most women they use a guy and dump him after their done with them.

Women don’t full appreciate geeks for what they are, they just appreicate them because they can fix their computer or gadets.

What i am mad about is that women don’t appreciate geeks and don’t take a full advantage of a geek. They just use them and toss them.

I assume that all the time with women and even on college campus. Most women i see, i assume that they are either taken or a lesbian or bi and are not intersted.

The blame - *responsibility* is the word I would use - is on you. If you can admit that, then you can try to change it. No one can help you if you don’t want to help yourself. I just went through a hard time with this myself.

If you just want to keep whining, keep it to your own website, because you’ve worn out your welcome here.

If that fails… you can always switch teams. Since you hate women so much, why not try men?

I’m bi, so I’m open to anyone with an interesting personality.

I just feel that women do not appreciate geeks fully and that Geeks are taken advantage of.

I had girls once back in school who used me because i had skills in computers. They prmoised to date me, but in the end got used and tossed over like a used can of soda. So since then, i’ve became bitter about women and how they treated geeks like me. I knew women wern’t going to date me and i knew to this day i am stil bitter over the fact that women over look me for someone who act’s like a bad boy, have deep pockets or is made of money.

See, i still harbor resentment over the fact that i am still single geek at 29 and have never dated. I still resnt the being overlooked by other women and being left in the stands. I’ve been single since teenage and to this day my only sole social life evolves around computers.

I blame the society and media for brainwashing women to overlook geeks unless he’s made of money or he’s got deep pockets like Bill Gates and Steve Jobs.

Yes i try being myself, but that never got me anywhere other than being at home on a saturday night with no date whatsoever.

My life evolves around, eat, sleep, study and work. I never bothered to think about a social life mainly because i have felt that women will always reject me for being a geek and somewhat a computer hack.

It’s about on par with an article that said “Date ugly women, they’re grateful.”

And before anyone starts the ad hominem crap, I’m an attractive woman. many of my friends feel the same way about geeks, and they are attractive women too.

This kind of generalization is totally ridiculous.