Comments on: Honeymoon Advice For Mormon Virgins http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/ Sex Blogging, Gratuitous Nudity, Kinky Sex, Sundry Sensuality Sat, 11 Feb 2012 07:00:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Arnold http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6939 Arnold Tue, 08 Aug 2006 23:47:22 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6939 As far as oral sex goes, the Mormon church did forbid it during a short period of time in the 1980s. Apparently some members had complained about what their partners were requesting. Several months later, the policy was changed after enough member complained that oral sex was part of "normal sex" for them. The policy now is sort of "don't ask, don't tell" and don't have oral sex if your partner isn't comfortable with it. As far as oral sex goes, the Mormon church did forbid it during a short period of time in the 1980s. Apparently some members had complained about what their partners were requesting. Several months later, the policy was changed after enough member complained that oral sex was part of “normal sex” for them. The policy now is sort of “don’t ask, don’t tell” and don’t have oral sex if your partner isn’t comfortable with it.

]]> By: REd http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6930 REd Mon, 07 Aug 2006 14:27:33 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6930 Bacchus, Yes I did follow both links and yes I did read what was there. I think voyager's comment enlightened me. I too am quite ignorant of the mormon religion and its requirements(i.e. beliefs). Also I often make sardonic comments about religious rules especially concerning sex, yet I respect every person and their decision to believe what they will. After all, I expect to be called crazy for some of what I believe and when I am I don't feel disrespected. I might have been saved from quite a few embarrassing moments had someone been wise enough to say something to me before... I agree with whomever it was that commended the girl for asking. As curious as virgins can be it's really not too surprising that more of them don't(i.e. aren't able to) ask the questions that will give them the answers which experiance will teach us. Bacchus, Yes I did follow both links and yes I did read what was there. I think voyager’s comment enlightened me. I too am quite ignorant of the mormon religion and its requirements(i.e. beliefs). Also I often make sardonic comments about religious rules especially concerning sex, yet I respect every person and their decision to believe what they will. After all, I expect to be called crazy for some of what I believe and when I am I don’t feel disrespected. I might have been saved from quite a few embarrassing moments had someone been wise enough to say something to me before…
I agree with whomever it was that commended the girl for asking. As curious as virgins can be it’s really not too surprising that more of them don’t(i.e. aren’t able to) ask the questions that will give them the answers which experiance will teach us.

]]> By: Chris W http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6909 Chris W Sun, 06 Aug 2006 08:29:03 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6909 One of my favorite quotes: We must respect the other fellow's religion, but only in the sense and to the extent that we respect his theory that his wife is beautiful and his children smart. H. L. Mencken One of my favorite quotes:

We must respect the other fellow’s religion, but only in the sense and to the extent that we respect his theory that his wife is beautiful and his children smart.
H. L. Mencken

]]> By: Bacchus http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6901 Bacchus Sun, 06 Aug 2006 04:58:11 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6901 Anonymous, nobody in this thread <strong>has</strong> used the word "uptight" in connection with opinions about premarital sex -- except you. Please don't lecture us about arguments we haven't made. Thank you. Anonymous, nobody in this thread has used the word “uptight” in connection with opinions about premarital sex — except you. Please don’t lecture us about arguments we haven’t made. Thank you.

]]> By: anonymous http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6899 anonymous Sun, 06 Aug 2006 04:26:07 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6899 I don't think its nice to say that people are uptight just because they don't want to have sex before marriage. To me that is just as bad as them saying that you are a slut because you do have sex before marriage. Either way you are judging someone based on something that is really none of your business. I don’t think its nice to say that people are uptight just because they don’t want to have sex before marriage. To me that is just as bad as them saying that you are a slut because you do have sex before marriage. Either way you are judging someone based on something that is really none of your business.

]]> By: AJ http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6878 AJ Sat, 05 Aug 2006 08:03:50 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6878 I have to agree with Voyager, I too am LDS (Mormon) and am getting married next year to the man I so dearly love. We both have had sex prior to each other, but are waiting for marrage to share it with each other. I love oral and so does he. We even talk about a lot of things that I get off erosblog!!! We may not be so into threesomes and such things due to wanting a loving "monogomous" relationship, but even non-religious couples have also chosen that path... we are the same as most people out there. I have to agree with Voyager, I too am LDS (Mormon) and am getting married next year to the man I so dearly love. We both have had sex prior to each other, but are waiting for marrage to share it with each other.
I love oral and so does he. We even talk about a lot of things that I get off erosblog!!! We may not be so into threesomes and such things due to wanting a loving “monogomous” relationship, but even non-religious couples have also chosen that path… we are the same as most people out there.

]]> By: voyager http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6875 voyager Sat, 05 Aug 2006 02:16:11 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/04/honeymoon-advice-for-mormon-virgins/#comment-6875 Sorry guys, but as entertaining as it might be to think of Mormons (of which I am one) or any other devoutly religious people as sexually up-tight, it's actually no more true than the non-religious population. Responding directly to the above: 1) When you play a sport, you wear the appropriate uniform! That means sexy stuff undies and yes, getting naked. 2) Foreplay - you bet. 3) Oral - personal choice like anyone else. My wife and I vote yes, as I assume most others do, too. 4) Breastfeeding - lift the garment like you would any other undershirt, silly! If you want the complete skinny on what Mormons are taught about intimacy, here it is in a nutshell: Abstinence before marriage, monogomy thereafter. Sex between husband and wife should not include activity that is degrading, unnatural, painful, or disrespectful to either party. Aside from that...have fun! Yes there are prissy, sexually uptight Mormons, and non-Mormons I might add. Poor fools - they don't know what they're missing! Sorry guys, but as entertaining as it might be to think of Mormons (of which I am one) or any other devoutly religious people as sexually up-tight, it’s actually no more true than the non-religious population. Responding directly to the above:

1) When you play a sport, you wear the appropriate uniform! That means sexy stuff undies and yes, getting naked.
2) Foreplay – you bet.
3) Oral – personal choice like anyone else. My wife and I vote yes, as I assume most others do, too.
4) Breastfeeding – lift the garment like you would any other undershirt, silly!

If you want the complete skinny on what Mormons are taught about intimacy, here it is in a nutshell:
Abstinence before marriage, monogomy thereafter. Sex between husband and wife should not include activity that is degrading, unnatural, painful, or disrespectful to either party. Aside from that…have fun!

Yes there are prissy, sexually uptight Mormons, and non-Mormons I might add. Poor fools – they don’t know what they’re missing!

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