August 10th, 2006 -- by Bacchus
What’s in YOUR Panties?
Summertime, just sittin’ on the beach minding her own business, and suddenly she has to know: “Hey, what’s this in my panties?”
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Sand, obviously.
She looks like she needs a little help there. And you know, I’d me MORE than happy to, ah, step in…
The girl on the right caught my attention!!Sun burned boobies,Ouch!!!
Haven’t you ever had ice cream drip in your panties. It’s cold and you dont want to leave it.
An interesting photo, but people who go to nude beaches and take secret photos of people in order to post them online are creeps.
If the photo was taken with permission, fine. But when I’ve been out at a nude beach and noticed people taking pictured, I’ve made it a point to ask that person to either delete the entire card, take out the film and hand the roll over, and leave the beach.
i agree with sinboy. i like the photo. i feel for the girl wit the sunburns but i think the girl on the left is checking for a tan line. however if i saw someone just taking candid shots at a nude beach there would be no asking for the film. there would be no conversing involved.
Tantalus
People who sneak nude shots seem to be cowards. The two times I’ve had that conversation, they’ve handed over the film, and left without saying a word.
I’m confused. Nude beaches are at least semi-public places. Would you get angry and demand the film if someone took a picture (with you in it) at, say, the grocery store? I thought part of the allure of going to a nude beach was the freedom to go au natural, and to see others and be seen in that state. If so, what possible objection to having your picture snapped? You want the freedom to dress as you please but you want to limit another’s freedom to use his/her camera as they please.
It’s the same old song, “I want to be free but I can only be free if I can limit the freedom of others.
Bonghunter… please don’t get confused. Demanding courtesy and respect from fellow human beings is not limiting the freedom of others. Going to a nude beach welcomes people to look at you; that does not include taking candid &/or unwelcome photos of you and showing them to all the world. If I walk my dog in public, people may look at the dog, but not take the leash and walk away with it.
Bonghunter … people can take pictures of me in a grocery store if they really feel the need to, but if they’re training the camera on my ass or breasts, I’d certainly take offense.
Attending a nude beach has the freedom of entails the freedom of going without clothing, but it also includes the freedom from being sexualized if you don’t welcome it, especially since some people who go particularly emphasize the desexualization of nudity.
I basically agree with the 4x sinboy-type comments above.
I would be equally offended of a person taking candid, unasked for photos of me in a supermarket, as I would be at a naked beach. Unfortunately, one cannot do much about security cameras and the like. Apart from these, someone taking pictures AND hanging about is just as likely to get me asking questions in their face such as ‘WHY?’ in either location.
If it’s a creepy (guy) in the background, at the nude beach, I find I just ignore them like the security cameras (however, I find them as irritating and desirous to avoid). I believe it’s important for us who know what our bodies look like, to be congniscent no photograph will show us anything we haven’t already seen. I have managed a life where being seen naked does not change anything though.
I hope it’s not a “sand crab”…
Naked girl: Hmmm… What is this I have in my panties? A ring!
Gollum: Give. It back, gollum, gollum!
Voyeurism is considered by many to be statistically the most common form of deviant sexual behavior engaged in by humanity. Some even go so far as to say that nearly everyone suffers from some degree of this behavior, and I’ll bet that exhibitionists run a close 2nd.
For every voyeur, you have need of a corresponding exhibitionist (No, I don’t mean that literally…).
This relationship could perhaps be best illustrated by the following delicious scene from the hit movie “10”:
Dudley Moore’s character has invested in a state-of-the-art amateur telescope so that he may watch the bedroom antics of his Beverly Hills neighbor across the valley.
His equally wealthy neighbor, of course, also possesses a telescope for the same purposes. At one point, one of these two characters can be heard grousing that for years he has been providing his counterpoint with top quality X-rated entertainment, whereas his fellow conspirator has only reciprocated with “PG” fare. “I show him mine, but he won’t show me his!” he gripes.
But I digress…
My argument is that the one exhibiting his or her body usually is getting his or her jollies via the experience as well.
The protesting by the voyeur’s “victim” is often what psychologists call “gotcha” behavior. This is also sometimes known as “NIGYYSOB” or “Now I’ve got you, you son-of-a-bitch!” This game is best explained in Eric Berne’s bestselling book “Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships”.
Whereas taking photos may be considered by many to be as rude as staring, in most cases it is perfectly legal, and demanding one’s film on a public beach is more likely to result in some sort of legal reprisal.
If one objects to being focused on by others, perhaps it’s best to sunbathe behind a privacy fence in one’s own backyard, or join a private nudist club where camera’s are not allowed. It’s perhaps a little much to be asking the exhibitionists to separate themselves by pounding a sign into the sand sand stating:
“PLEASE PHOTOGRAPH ME”
I am a little confused. In my experience nude beaches are fairly strict about two things; clothing policy, ie nude means no clothing, and no photography without prior consent, breaches being dealt with by the bathers present.
These two bathers appear to more likely be on any of the majority of European beaches where such strictures do not apply, the local gendamerie would leap into action at total nudity but topless bathing would be fine.