Comments on: Instead Of Objecting To Porn http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/ Sex Blogging, Gratuitous Nudity, Kinky Sex, Sundry Sensuality Sun, 23 Nov 2008 12:33:54 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Joanne http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7895 Joanne Tue, 29 Aug 2006 13:04:13 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7895 Man i thought I was the only wifey goping through some drama. SO yeah, hubby hides his porno and denies even having it in the house but he's got to find a better hiding spot. I am not against it at all, I've actually masterbated to his pornos and plpace them right back in his hiding spot. Stupid idiot doesn't know I'm more of a freak than he is. Hiding it and lying only shows how much he gives a fuck the marriage. He ain't the only one who hides and lies. Man i thought I was the only wifey goping through some drama. SO yeah, hubby hides his porno and denies even having it in the house but he’s got to find a better hiding spot. I am not against it at all, I’ve actually masterbated to his pornos and plpace them right back in his hiding spot. Stupid idiot doesn’t know I’m more of a freak than he is. Hiding it and lying only shows how much he gives a fuck the marriage. He ain’t the only one who hides and lies.

]]> By: Hannah http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7334 Hannah Sat, 19 Aug 2006 05:09:07 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7334 I agree with comments above, I'd be upset/annoyed that my husband didn't ask me to join him. However, I'm sure he'd be understanding, (um.. probably elated... lol) if he came home during the day and caught me in the act while the kids are napping. :) The double standard is a little unfair. I think us women tend to get way too jealous sometimes. I agree with comments above, I’d be upset/annoyed that my husband didn’t ask me to join him.
However, I’m sure he’d be understanding, (um.. probably elated… lol) if he came home during the day and caught me in the act while the kids are napping. :)
The double standard is a little unfair. I think us women tend to get way too jealous sometimes.

]]> By: wilde http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7331 wilde Sat, 19 Aug 2006 02:21:40 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7331 tantalus, anytime you surf the internet without pop-up blockers and cookie watchers and the like that stuff will creep into your cache even if you only surf the clean sites. My sister and her husband have parental controls set for their machine but still find porn cookies sneaking their way in. tantalus, anytime you surf the internet without pop-up blockers and cookie watchers and the like that stuff will creep into your cache even if you only surf the clean sites. My sister and her husband have parental controls set for their machine but still find porn cookies sneaking their way in.

]]> By: Jyanna http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7328 Jyanna Sat, 19 Aug 2006 01:18:25 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7328 I've not commented here before, but I've been a reader for a while, so let me start by saying hello :-) The very fact that I read this site should be proof that I'm not a prude and that I have no objection to porn. All true. I think porn is a wonderful thing and I enjoy it as much as my husband does. The issue that comes up for us is not in the viewing of the porn, but in the fact that he felt like he needed to hide it from me. I believe that a marriage is based on trust and honesty and I didn't feel it was unreasonable to expect my husband to tell me the truth. I never have asked him to "report" every time he looks at porn on the web or wherever, but if I walk into a room I prefer that he doesn't turn it off. If I ask about it, I expect him not to lie. And if he finds any great sites he damn well better tell me about them so I can check them out too ;-) He was the one who introduced me to this site about a year ago and I've enjoyed reading for quite some time. Keep up the great site! I must go back to quiet annonimity now :-) I’ve not commented here before, but I’ve been a reader for a while, so let me start by saying hello :-) The very fact that I read this site should be proof that I’m not a prude and that I have no objection to porn. All true. I think porn is a wonderful thing and I enjoy it as much as my husband does. The issue that comes up for us is not in the viewing of the porn, but in the fact that he felt like he needed to hide it from me. I believe that a marriage is based on trust and honesty and I didn’t feel it was unreasonable to expect my husband to tell me the truth. I never have asked him to “report” every time he looks at porn on the web or wherever, but if I walk into a room I prefer that he doesn’t turn it off. If I ask about it, I expect him not to lie. And if he finds any great sites he damn well better tell me about them so I can check them out too ;-)

He was the one who introduced me to this site about a year ago and I’ve enjoyed reading for quite some time. Keep up the great site!

I must go back to quiet annonimity now :-)

]]> By: andy1000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7320 andy1000 Fri, 18 Aug 2006 22:56:16 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7320 Can't agree more with Justin- Me an' the missus regularly watch it together while playing with each other/ourselves,and it usually ends in RAMPANT sex.But that doesn't mean it HAS to go that way... many's the time we've finished together, or even on our own, but it's still sex. It's still intimate. And the fact that your loved one feels secure enough to masterbate in front of you is, to me, such an affirmation of love and commitment, i find it a MEGA turn-on!!!!! Can’t agree more with Justin- Me an’ the missus regularly watch it together while playing with each other/ourselves,and it usually ends in RAMPANT sex.But that doesn’t mean it HAS to go that way… many’s the time we’ve finished together, or even on our own, but it’s still sex. It’s still intimate. And the fact that your loved one feels secure enough to masterbate in front of you is, to me, such an affirmation of love and commitment, i find it a MEGA turn-on!!!!!

]]> By: Justin http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7301 Justin Fri, 18 Aug 2006 16:31:36 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7301 Noel, I see where you're coming from. But do you expect your husband/bf/whatever to eat a completely balanced meal Every breakfast, lunch and dinner? Sometimes there's a rush, but the craving needs to be satisfied. Perhaps a simply option to standing around looking sexy while your SO gets off is to let him grab some erotic material, take care of himself without too much hassle. Now, a man's porn collection shouldn't take precedence over a partner, it's when a guy/girl prefers not to spend time in the sack when the partner is available that can signal an issue. Noel, I see where you’re coming from. But do you expect your husband/bf/whatever to eat a completely balanced meal Every breakfast, lunch and dinner? Sometimes there’s a rush, but the craving needs to be satisfied. Perhaps a simply option to standing around looking sexy while your SO gets off is to let him grab some erotic material, take care of himself without too much hassle.

Now, a man’s porn collection shouldn’t take precedence over a partner, it’s when a guy/girl prefers not to spend time in the sack when the partner is available that can signal an issue.

]]> By: KermodeBear http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7294 KermodeBear Fri, 18 Aug 2006 13:37:48 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7294 My mother would not only go crazy if she found my dad looking at any kind of porn, but would also spazz out if he mentioned that another girl looked pretty. The jealously was insane. They're getting divorced now. Seems to me that most of the anti-porn folks are really just insecure about themselves and that can lead to a suffocating relationship. Let's face it - we would like to be able to fulfill ALL of our partner's fantasies, but the reality is that we can't always do that. Porn can be a safe way of doing so, and if you can enjoy it with your partner instead of freak out then I can't see how the relationship would become any weaker. I don't see how looking at pornography is akin to 'cheating' on a spouse. It's not real, it's just a fantasy. My mother would not only go crazy if she found my dad looking at any kind of porn, but would also spazz out if he mentioned that another girl looked pretty. The jealously was insane. They’re getting divorced now.

Seems to me that most of the anti-porn folks are really just insecure about themselves and that can lead to a suffocating relationship. Let’s face it - we would like to be able to fulfill ALL of our partner’s fantasies, but the reality is that we can’t always do that.

Porn can be a safe way of doing so, and if you can enjoy it with your partner instead of freak out then I can’t see how the relationship would become any weaker.

I don’t see how looking at pornography is akin to ‘cheating’ on a spouse. It’s not real, it’s just a fantasy.

]]> By: Alayne http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7286 Alayne Fri, 18 Aug 2006 07:40:59 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7286 "why eat a burger when you got steak and potatoes at home?â€? ... because every once in a while it sure is nice to eat a juicy burger!!!!! "Oh my god! Alayne and Erin - I didn’t know that women like you existed! There is some hope for the world after all…" Absolutly fc2006! As a matter of fact my hubby has to get up early so he's fast asleep & I just watched a good porn and ensured that 'all of me' was happy!!!!! :) “why eat a burger when you got steak
and potatoes at home?�

… because every once in a while it sure is
nice to eat a juicy burger!!!!!

“Oh my god! Alayne and Erin - I didn’t know
that women like you existed!
There is some hope for the world after all…”

Absolutly fc2006! As a matter of fact my hubby
has to get up early so he’s fast asleep
& I just watched a good porn and ensured that
‘all of me’ was happy!!!!!

:)

]]> By: wendygyrl http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7268 wendygyrl Fri, 18 Aug 2006 01:31:50 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7268 personally i can't understand what it is about porn that a lot of women don't like... i mean, ok so maybe i'm a voyeur at heart...but even still, i think porn is a very good relationship tool.. it's erotic and heck it can even be fun just to make fun of the bad acting *grins*. i think that the prudes in the world need to relax and get a grip on their insecurities.. just because a guy is jerking off to porn or anything else doesn't mean the woman isn't enough... sometimes it's fun to do it by yourself for a change..*grins* not that anyone is hiding anything. i don't know if my Master does it and i don't ask...mostly because i'd be more surprised if he doesn't. it's a natural part of life. ~wendy~ personally i can’t understand what it is about porn that a lot of women don’t like… i mean, ok so maybe i’m a voyeur at heart…but even still, i think porn is a very good relationship tool.. it’s erotic and heck it can even be fun just to make fun of the bad acting *grins*.

i think that the prudes in the world need to relax and get a grip on their insecurities.. just because a guy is jerking off to porn or anything else doesn’t mean the woman isn’t enough… sometimes it’s fun to do it by yourself for a change..*grins* not that anyone is hiding anything. i don’t know if my Master does it and i don’t ask…mostly because i’d be more surprised if he doesn’t.

it’s a natural part of life.

~wendy~

]]> By: B http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7261 B Fri, 18 Aug 2006 00:34:28 +0000 http://www.erosblog.com/2006/08/16/instead-of-objecting-to-porn/#comment-7261 It's a marriage, not a life sentence. He or she is perfectly within their rights to masturbate alone if htey want to. Not everything is about or should be about the ohter partner. Sometimes you just want to get yourself off, ya know? It’s a marriage, not a life sentence. He or she is perfectly within their rights to masturbate alone if htey want to. Not everything is about or should be about the ohter partner. Sometimes you just want to get yourself off, ya know?

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