FINE. It’s fantasy. Who would I be to say that no woman deserves to play with a phallus bigger than a ‘regular’ penis? That’s BS. It’s called creative license, from a design standpoint. Not to mention the many women who just love to be filled and stretched by something they might not otherwise get the chance at…

By her own admission she says “I have on only the rarest of occasions, seen a clitoris that large and pronounced” (22nd aug).

Even if it’s rare, then why can’t she accept that the doll is question might have been made keeping in mind those rare vulvas.

And, moreover, for cheryl, it seems to be a clear case of “What I haven’t seen, doesn’t exist”

And, Koshka…now you know what to ask for from your husband for Christmas, if you can wait that long. : )

Ever see those ancient fertility figurines? How about those impossibly perfect, romantic sexual machines in romance novels and fanfics? There’ve always been sexual ideals that many (most) can’t meet. I’m glad we see it, recognize it, and come here and talk about it.

Now I’m going to watch the porn I downloaded last night with the huge beautiful black man with tattoos who looks nothing like my husband. My husband likes to look at BIG boobs, which I don’t have. We still love sex with each other after 18 years. It has everything to do with me showing him I accept every kinky bone in his body and me realizing he accepts me the same way.

Last thought: I have totally wanted to try the male version of that doll ever since I saw it on Realsex.

Now, if one has been given a specific “homework” assignment from a present female partner on which to practice, then I guess I could understand the concept of practicing. Or perhaps as an exercise aide for those less endowed with facial, particularly lingual, muscles. That’s a valid reason.

I hadn’t considered the visual aspect of it and that’s very valid, I admit.

I think I may have to give up ErosBlog, sadly. I realized, as I read your response to my comments, that this is a feminist issue for me. My commentary was primarily directed at the design of the doll. As a nurse for 22 years, 17 of them in inpatient Women’s Health and, to a lesser degree, as a lesbian, I have seen a lot of vulvas. I have on only the rarest of occasions, seen a clitoris that large and pronounced.

My issue is not with a man who derives his sexual pleasure from the use of such a doll. Please. Everyone should do what pleases them, as long as no one is being hurt against their will.

My issue is with the distortion of normal female anatomy in the design of the doll. This doll does not represent the vast majority of the women in the world. My issue is with a culture that perpetuates these kind of myths about women. So many of those myths have cause so much pain for many women already. Isn’t it time we tried to stop?

This is not “realism.” (Though the thought of a vulva completely devoid of a clit is even less appealing to me) This is a fallacy and that is part of the problem. Are there any sex dolls out there that are genuinely realistic or does this represent the vast majority of this type of product available. I have to admit I don’t know myself because I have my own areas of interest when I’m on those sites.

I grant anyone the right to do whatever s/he wishes and with whomever (assuming consenting adults and no unwanted pain, etc., etc…). But, to me, it’s equally important to discuss areas that so directly impact on sex and sexual relationships, namely how men and women see themselves and each other. Sex is a lot more than the meeting of flesh. It’s soooo brain-based andI don’t think I can separate my passion for women’s rights and gaining the respect we deserve enough to keep my blooming mouth shut.

Thank you for the fun I’ve had here and I wish you well, Bacchus. I have (mostly) enjoyed myself. Fare well.

You crossed the line the littlest bit when you shared your negative and self-confessedly sexist views about “the kind of a man who would have a doll like this.” Simply put, you don’t *know* anything about the people who spend thousands of dollars on their doll fetishes, and I won’t allow you to continue to snipe at such fetishists in this thread, displaying what you yourself have admitted is a sexist prejudice.

Play nice, OK? And remember — or know, if you weren’t aware of it — that a male masturbator can buy a very-realistic-feeling disposable gel pussy in a styrofoam cup for just a few bucks. If he’s paying five or six grand for a human-sized sex doll, there’s a good chance there’s a strong visual component to his fetish. Hence, the visible clitoris.

We get that the sex doll doesn’t conform to your standards of female beauty. So find one that does if you’re in the market, OK? But don’t come to ErosBlog to bash at the people who (apparently) like the product you’re not buying anyway.

Thank you.

What I found offensive about the design is that makes the doll look like the worst of female porn workers and so unrealistic when applied to most normal women.

And the suggestion of ‘practicing.’ Well, the only way to “practice” on a clit is with feedback. Anything less is utterly useless. At least as far as the woman’s perspective is concerned. There are no two alike. Truly.