Very good points. Three commentors out of 12 being women and agreeing with your point seems to(while being a very small sampling)to suggest you are on to something.

BD

Something I’ve learned in four years of sex blogging, from reading a lot of women-written blogs, is that women with more libido (greater sexual interest, more sexual adventurousness, however you want to put it) than their men are a lot more common than we men tend to suspect.

Frustrated men tend to complain about it. The whole “my wife is frigid” (to go back to brutal 1950s terminalogy) schtick is almost expected, and men will trot it out without too much provocation. For some reason, the obvious if unfair rejoinder (”Geez, you must suck in bed”) is not the first response they get from their fellow men; instead, they get sympathy (”Yeah, that happens a lot, man, don’t it suck?”)

Women in the converse situation (”my guy is disinterested, turns me down”) often seem to feel that there’s something wrong with them. It’s as if they fear the “Geez, you must suck in bed” response, or worry that it’s true. So, before sex blogs, it was rare to hear from such women. And even now, I’m starting to think this problem is underreported.

Bottom line: there’s a lot of sexual mismatch going on out there, and it can run in both directions. I still think there are more sexually frustrated men than there are sexually frustrated women — lots more — but as the comment thread here indicates, it’s not as one-sided as many men suspect.

IMHO: it just goes to show that God,(no matter what your version of ‘God’ is), or Cupid or whoever is in charge of such things, has a sense of humor and or a mean side.

-4 billion men in the world that would love that and you end up with one of the ten that doesn’t.

-The great majority of women would not WANT to do that but two of the few that WOULD end up with guys that don’t want it.