She does look to me like she’s smiling in some of the other pictures. But to me it’s really hard to tell the difference between “sex face” and “pain face,” not to mention “good pain face” and “bad pain face.” I’ve seen someone get hit in the vulva until she was screaming her lungs out — and she did it because in the end she enjoyed it. So I really feel I can’t judge.

But seriously, WTF?

Does she look like she’s having sexyfun to you? I mean, yeah, on one level she may be, especially if this is fantasy material for her. But odds are, this is the dirty and unpleasant part of the job she signed up for.

I don’t have a feminist rant handy about privileging the idea of penetration to the point where we call it a “prize” even when it’s (a) made of rubber and (b) delivered under maximally uncomfortable circumstances. But I’m pretty sure one of my readers could fix you right up with that.

Ultimate surrender is a lighthearted porn site, but they play real hard. If it’s not all choreographed like professional wrestling (which it might be) then I think we can safely credit the girls with striving to “win” their matches.

Why am I delivering a mini-rant? I think it’s because, even being a guy, I’m a little bit offended by the male-hubris of the idea that she’d throw the match in order to win the “prize” of having a dildo thrust up her ass. I’m perfectly willing to indulge myself in some smug male self-assurance about women wanting and enjoying dick, but let’s be realistic about the thing, gents. It may be rubber or it may be our own turgid throbbing flesh, but it ain’t chocolate and it sure ain’t crack cocaine. There’s gonna be limits on how bad she wants it.