February 20th, 2012 -- by Bacchus
Guilt Over Jerking It To Whores
Porn model Cherry Torn has this to say about the mysterious phenomenon of porn-consumer negativity towards the performers they are paying:
It’s hard enough to be a woman with opinions, but taking unashamed control of your sexuality is such a threat to some men. There will always be a certain subset of porn consumer that lashes out at performers, because they don’t know what to do with their guilt over jerking it to whores. Maybe they just get off on being mean or they want to show the dumb sluts how smart they are…
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It is a peculiar phenomenon all right. I suspect that it’s a certain subset of porn consumers who have had little or not intimate (not necessarily sexual) contact with women whom they might have a sexual relationship with. A variant on the whole mother/whore thing, I suspect. Pretty sad excuses for men in my opinion. I see it a lot on message boards … the guys who lust over the photos can’t STAND posts from women, even generally supportive ones.
I have often been a bit fascinated by a certain subset of men’s obsession with trashing sexy females.
I think I first encountered this behavior in the boy’s locker room, emanating from a literal fraternity of athletes who were about fifteen years old. These guys hung out together like a pack of dogs before, during, and after school.
Because they seemed to use the word “pussy’ a lot, I used to think they were super-studs of some sort, who must have spent their Friday and Saturday evenings buried to the hilt in some cheerleader.
As time went by, I realized that they really preferred the company of other males, and seem to do whatever it took to spend an inordinate amount of time in the locker room. The girls who were once fascinated with them, soon all seemed to have reason to shun them. Much later, I learned one by one, that many of them had come from various unpleasant home situations, such as being raised by single dads, who were physically abusive drunkards.
Just guessing here, I’ll bet more than a few of them heard “whiskey dick” dad blaming their mom’s sexuality for breaking up the home, when in reality it was seldom sober dad who had driven her away.
They all seemed to exhibit intimacy problems when it came to affairs of the opposite sex. Most of these guys couldn’t maintain a relationship at fifteen, and still can’t seem to keep a women today.
Most of these guys seemed to be “stuck” and never grew out of their adolescent pathologies. I’m guessing these are the very guys Cherry Torn is talking about in the article mentioned above.
The other half of this locker room group, later were outed as simply closeted gay, even though they had been pretending to be interested in girls.
I think at least some of them are merely jealous over the pornstarlet’s superior ability to attract the lustful attention of males.
I once worked with such a guy, who only looked at sexy girls for tips on what men found attractive, and vitriolically called these women by truly the most vile names I’ve ever heard associated with the fairer sex.
Bacchus, I think you pretty well pegged this problem already in your February 1st (2012), post:
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