Sex For The Last Time
I’m pretty sure that picture is a photoshop job (remember, we don’t play the Photoshop game here, kthx). But I found it last night as I was looking through my folder of naughty pictures and it fit my mood.
The end of 2007 sucked. J and I broke up, for good this time. My mother is sick and I moved back home to help take care of her. Home is a small town in a part of the US where good girls don’t have sex, much less kinky sex, and there aren’t many good guys available anyway. I’m getting older and it’s starting to show, I have some gray hair and wrinkles around my eyes. Not many chicks can rock that look.
So I saw this picture last night and I guess because I’m feeling sorry for myself I thought, “I’ll never stand at that corner again.” I hope that isn’t true, I’d like my last time having sex to be way better than it was. But it could happen. That got me thinking about what I would do different if I knew a session would be my last time having sex.
1. It wouldn’t be a pity fuck.
2. It would need to be somebody I care about, no anonymous pickups or drunk fucks.
3. I would try harder, to make sure I had fun and that my partner did too.
4. I would try to make sure it was as hot as possible for both of us (like, being outside or maybe some bondage, whatever my partner and I both like and want to do or try).
My list isn’t very flattering on me, but thinking about it will hopefully make me a better sexual partner, if I get another chance.
What would you want to do for your last time having sex?
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Long Live Photoshop, love the street. My last time… dude don’t want to think about it, but definitely with an 18 yr old that i like, and that knows how to fuck… i mean honestly.. I see some men with well young chicks, and its like dude…. i know young chicks are good, but how much do you have to teach them? prefer a late 20’s onwards chick who knows how to please someone… it is that kinda chick i want to have my last time with… Nice…. i guess that is my answer, to be pleased beyond the dreams of pleasure…
Sex with my Imago mate.
I’d prefer a man with wrinkles around the eyes and some grey hair who fucks like it might be the last time for him as well and please him so that he wouldn’t mind if it was.
Cheer up, you rock!
That’s a real corner in the Bronx, NY :)
If it was my last time, I’d probably want it to be with someone who loved having fun with sex, with a vested interest in making sure we both are satisfied…
The last time, should be with an experienced older lover, be it male or female. My choice, actually, would be one of each. that way: A. It would not be time wasted on teaching some young shy one to be sexual and dirty(a terrible lot that is) and B. I would be able to experience the full faceted sexual ecstasy that only sex with multiple partners can bring.
Great site, btw.. long time lurker, first time poster!
DaNewb
Buttsex?
:)
If nice girls don’t have sex in your town, perhaps it is your mission to change attitudes. Think of yourself as a missionary (not the position).
Last time having sex? I’d want an orgy, and I’d want it to last at least twelve hours. With as many toys and different sex acts as humanly possible in that time.
Don’t know about the picture or the “last time” question but…
I’m sorry that your spirits are low and that 2007 was not kind to you at the end. I hope 2008 is better.
Well looks like it is real.. out in NYC
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And Dyckman Street crosses Seaman too! I should have known I was wrong.
An orgy with good kinky friends does sound like a nice way to go out.
Aphrodite, I know you’re having a rough winter. But you forget, I’ve seen you in summer clothes on a hot day. A few grey hairs and laugh lines or not, you can indeed “rock that look”, take names and make change. Small town guys being much your bigger problem, IMO — “the odds are good, but the goods are odd.”
One thing I’ve learned in five years of reading sex blogs, it ain’t over for anybody until they decide it’s over.
Older experienced guys like horny kinky women even if they have a few wrinkles, and many of then have there own place ;) You have to grow old but you don’t have to stop having fun.
And if its just a short term thing she is going through I understand, but if its a long term move don’t give up your life for your mom, it might poison your relationship with her (she won’t like having to depend on her own kid and its a lot of hard work that will be hard emotionally because you care so much). Is there a place near where you want to live that can care for her; so you can visit often and check up?
One thing I’ve learned in five years of reading sex blogs, it ain’t over for anybody until they decide it’s over.
That’s not true — trust me. You’re being misled by survivor bias. Those of us on the involuntary celibacy plan just don’t blog about it.
Short of severe physical debility, it’s the “involuntary” part I’m dubious about. There are many reasons for celibacy, but in the age of the internet “nobody wants me” seems hardly to apply to any healthy person.
For my last time having sex, I think slow, steamy, passionate splashing in the spa is the way to go. Outdoors, naked, with the stars above and cool air on my shoulders and face and slippery cock between my thighs.
And lots and lots of kissing.
xx Dee
Last time?
I’d want the hospital bed to be adjustable, the nurses paid off to not pay any attention to the goings-on in the private room, the DNR order signed, and the experienced, fully briefed attractive sex worker I’d hired to bring some very good Chinese takeout with her for us to share beforehand.
Bacchus is totally right, it really isn’t over for you until you decide that it is. ^_^
If it was going to be my last time having sex ever, I definitely wouldn’t want to think about it too much and/or put a lot of pressure on myself or my partner, but I would want it to last as long as possible.
Maybe you should try a guy who’s at least five years older than you. Older guys are nearly always grateful for the attention of a younger woman. (If Bacchus’s assessment is correct however, most any guy might be grateful…) Jane Fonda has seen her seventieth birthday, and I just recently saw Stephen Colbert absolutely melt over her attentions, and he’s only forty three! She’s got wrinkles around HER eyes… (and I’d expect more than a few gray hairs too). If you were to post a recent pick, and a general location of this “small town”, I’d bet you’d draw some interest.
Hey, Bacchus, I know how you feel about 200(sucking)7, I broke up with my girlfriend, and then with the two other women who were supposed to cheer me up. And I’ll leave the stuff out about the jowls and wrinkles… As for the Last Time, I think I”d like to do with a nice girl who is doing it for the First Time and make it memorable for her.
Fausten, I fear you’ve not noticed that this post was written by my sometimes co-blogger, Aphrodite.
After my last relationship, I figured it was over for me sexually, and I grieved because I didn’t think I was done yet. I’m 45, overweight (but working on it), and a single mother. I figured my days of intriguing the opposite sex were over. I was wrong. I changed my attitude, put it out there, and got more attention than I ever thought possible. Now I’m embarking on a new and very sexually satisfying relationship with a truly nice man. Never say never. It’s a very long time.
It’s not photo shop, it’s an actual corner in Manhattan, I used to live a few blocks from that corner. It’s in Inwood, up in the 200’s just west of broadway. I couldn’t believe it when I saw either.
Thanx everybody. Sage is my role model now.
The doctors don’t think my mother will make it through this year, so while I’m here I’m thinking about where to move after she’s passed.
I last had sex in august with someone who broke up with me in September. This is part of a resigned letter I sent her a few weeks later:
I’m glad I got to spend your birthday with you.
I did get to a point of overkill at some points but you know I try too hard most of the time.
I’m glad I threw caution to the wind and carried you off to your bedroom last summer. Maybe we could have lasted longer if we’d remained platonic, but who can tell.
I’m glad that the last night that we slept together and made love it rained outside (as you wished) and I remained inside you until you fell asleep (again, as you wished).
Our beginnings never know our ends, as is said, but I didn’t have the foresight to see this ending coming or any skills to keep it from happening.
That I had passion for you may have been part of the problem but I certainly thought the fact that I genuinely cared for you would alleviate everything else.
At this moment I care for you still.
That may have been the last time I have sex in my life but at 50+ I’ve come to realize you never know what tomorrow might bring. I was actually less unhappy about this breakup because the last sex was perfect, as far as I’m concerned. In the year we had spent together she had talked about wanting to have sex when it was raining outside and that last night was the only time we experienced that. I didn’t cum but she did and fell asleep while I was still hard inside her. She woke up a little about twenty minutes later and I was still ensconced in her and then she fell asleep for the night. In my twenties I’m sure I’d have wanted my last time to be bells and whistles and whips and so on, but now that I’m older I think knowing it was love is what would make the last time truly satisfying.
J
Well I’m 61 and a half and still going strong, still getting it and still wanting it. I imagine my last time might be like my first – in a summer field with blue skies, long grass and the scent of flowers. The first time he was older than me – much. The last time I hope he’ll be younger than me and as careful and caring as was the first. Maybe my last lover will be the son, or the grandson of my first lover. That would be fun, wouldn’t it? XVX