Happy Panda, Sad Panda
I sometimes regret that Kink.com stopped updating their Men in Pain site and instead launched Divine Bitches as their flagship for femdom. “Bitches” is a word you don’t see very often here on ErosBlog, because I don’t find bitchiness erotic (with a side order of “I don’t deploy that word lightly, especially against women I don’t know”). Not being aroused by bitches disqualifies me, I suppose, from the target market for your typical female-dominant internet porn site. It’s a pity, though, because those fem-dom ladies do sometimes have some cool costumes!
Case in point, Lorelei Lee and Felony, dressed as nurses from Hell (or, if not from Hell, then from the world’s most unsanitary hospital):
In this little morality play, our evil nurses get their hands on (no, pardon me, in femdom-speak I guess they “dig their claws into”) Zak Tyler, who seems unaccountably happy. Perhaps he does not apprehend his true peril?
You know where this is going, though. By committing poorly-specified atrocities upon his happy bits, it doesn’t take them long to turn that smile upside down. Talk about a rapid attitude adjustment:
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I think their new name is more honest to what they’re about. It’s male targeted porn, so it’s about the hot women being sadistic. I love seeing pictures of men in pain and in submissive situations, but it’s rare outside of gay porn. The male bottoms at a site like Divine Bitches are there to be a place the viewer can self-insert. And the women are dressed up and made up the same way as women in most other porn.
Part of what I enjoy about topping in BDSM is the chance to be the subject, not the object. For a lot of my sexual life I’ve stood around looking pretty. I was valued for what I was, but not what I coud do. Topping inverts that, so it’s not about the way I look or the pleasure that someone takes from it, but about what I can do, what I can make someone feel through my actions. I really do not see this represented in most depictions of female dominance.
TL;DR: Not saying it’s bad, it’s just not catering to me. Whine, whine, etc.
NOT TRUE!
–I happened to click on ‘Links’ while visiting “BoundGods” (THANK YOU for recommending that site!!)and saw “Men in Pain”…so I was puzzled that you said alas, no more Men in Pain. hrm? I just saw that I think…
they are both there, Men in Pain AND Divine Bitches!
Well, what they actually did was stop updating Men In Pain and start making Divine Bitches. All the Men In Pain content (from years and years) is still there, but they aren’t updating it weekly, meaning they can’t really sell subscriptions to Men In Pain any more. The new content is coming out under the Divine Bitches brand, so if you follow a “join now” Men in Pain link, what you actually get is a Divine Bitches membership (with frequent updates) plus access to all the old Men In Pain content (no updates).
It’s kinda complicated, so I was trying to simplify with my “rebranded and relaunched” phrase. I’ve edited to clarify.