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Friday, September 1st, 2023 -- by Bacchus
I have always assumed that horny young technically-adept men were the primary market for VR porn. Porn enjoyment generally is said to skew heavily male, and adding nifty cutting-edge electronic gadgets to the porn-viewing enterprise perhaps reinforces that. All of this is changing rapidly and a lot of the actual research on porn habits is both out-of-date and dubious in its methodology. I might be wrong. Still, it’s been the baseline of my thinking about VR porn for the last few years.
I’ve told you before, though, that I tend to view culture through the lens of porn and erotic art. Erotic art, in particular, is where we start to see meta trends, as expressed through art that’s about porn (and people enjoying porn) rather than just being porn. So what does it mean when we start to see erotic imagery of women pleasuring themselves while enjoying VR porn?
It might mean nothing. Even with detailed lists of the best VR porn sites at our fingertips, it would be a huge job trying to figure out who is watching, who is subscribing, who is paying, and who is getting off. Also, art that’s at all “meta” is perforce ambiguous. Who is to say that all these masturbating women are watching porn in their VR headsets? They might be watching something else entirely, like Smurf cartoons or classic music videos from the 1980s.
But no. We are the viewers and critics here, and thus one of our chief pleasures is the power of interpretation. We are empowered to say “I understand this to be an image about a woman viewing porn” and while anyone might disagree, no one has the power to declare us wrong.
So, what does the emergence of all this women-enjoying-VR-porn imagery tell us? Maybe art imitates life; maybe this is an emerging phenomenon, a thing that’s happening now. And since it’s sexy to imagine, it becomes the subject of erotic art. But we don’t assume that tentacle sex artwork heralds the arrival of tentacle beasts in our space-time continuum, so we must remain mindful that we might just be seeing the erotic projections of male artists, sharing their fantasies, in this as in all else. The male gaze, looking into the mirror of VR porn desire, and seeing… itself.
Did I say I tend to view culture through a porn lens? I did say that, but it doesn’t mean I necessarily understand what I see.
Image credits, top to bottom: The cartoon blonde giving a simulated blowjob is by 3Palec. The woman wearing a “slut” tee and giving herself wand-vibrator orgasms is by Jiffic. The blonde with busy fingers inside her panties is by an unknown source. The woman with her hand tucked discretely between her spread legs while her heels rest on her computer desk is by Area5de. The lady in her pleasure chair sweating through multiple VR-assisted orgasms is by Rikena. And cute sysadmin who is creating her own personal waterfall in the server room is by Piyorin.
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Saturday, June 24th, 2023 -- by Bacchus
Peeking through the fence really paid off today; the neighbor lady was spending some quality time poolside with her suction-cup cock-and-balls dildo.
Artwork is by Sincopation.
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Saturday, January 14th, 2023 -- by Bacchus
It’s the determination on her aspiring o-face that does it for me:
Of course she has the situation well in hand and seems like a strong, goal-oriented woman. I wouldn’t dare suggest that she needs some dude to help her out. But nonetheless the photo seems to invite assistance, if you ask me. (Nobody did.)
The model is Lucy Daily, who had a solo-girl type site back in 2009 or so.
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Sunday, August 21st, 2022 -- by Bacchus
I mean, if you truly want to get somebody’s attention, taking some pussy selfies or a quick video clip while masturbating in the restroom is very often going to be an effective way to do it:
Panels are from Classmates: Claire’s Tale 2 from Dofantasy. Artist is Kittyhand.
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Tuesday, August 9th, 2022 -- by Bacchus
Juliette has a little spare time and a nice quiet room and a big dildo and a bit of privacy (except for the photographer). So it’s time for her to make her own fun!
Juliette’s self-pleasuring photo is from the defunct “All Ruth” site.
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Thursday, July 14th, 2022 -- by Bacchus
I am not well-qualified to opine on what women want, especially when it comes to sensitive subjects like direct and powerful clit stimulation. No man could ever be so qualified, for who among us ever becomes so intimate with more than a few women, or perhaps at most a few dozen? The most infamous Lothario, the most notorious Don Juan, might manage, perhaps, some hundreds of trysts in a lifetime. Yet the world has billions of women in it! Do not speak to me of representative sampling; there’s no reasonable way to normalize that kind of data in any scientifically-credible way.
No, my friends, when it comes to questions of how much direct clitoral stimulation your new flame may prefer, how powerful, how long, how closely-pressed, when to start and when to stop, you will be on an exciting voyage of discovery every time. You may ask, certainly, and a self-assured woman may even give you useful answers; but even so, there will be nuance and detail that is only learned in the doing.
That said, there are a few nuances that a man of the world may fairly rely upon. The first is that, generally speaking, clit stimulation is popular. Lots of women like it. You just have to figure out the specifics.
Second, women themselves often vibrate their clits directly during self-pleasure. I don’t have good data on preferred female masturbation techniques — indeed, I’m not sure anybody has meaningful data on that — but surveys and anecdotes collected at least since the days of Nancy Friday’s interview compilations reveal that vibrating sex toys have been a popular choice since the first electric “massagers” hit the market in the early 20th century.
Even more compelling is the evidence of the market. The brisk sales of modern toys like the Pomi Wand from Honey Play Box offer all the proof we need that steady, precise, and reliable vibration is solidly on the 21st-century list of “what women want”. The dark time when vibrating sex toys were almost universally phallic — I speak here of the cheap plastic dick-shaped battery-operated vibrators of the 1970s, marketed to men and sensitive to their insecurities — is behind us. Today, women are in command of their own pleasure, and indeed their own toyboxes, at least if they choose to be. Do they buy buzzing plastic cocks? Why, sure, sometimes they do! But very often the vibrators they buy are more modern designs with tactile materials and shapes designed to make it easy to place just the right amount of buzzy pressure in just the right place at just the right time.
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Tuesday, May 17th, 2022 -- by Bacchus
I’ve heard rumors about this sort of gentlemen’s club. The membership is always exclusive, but the entertainments are so lurid, stories do leak out. I’m not sure if the writhing woman fingering herself is a simple exhibition of pleasure, or if it’s prelude to a bukkake sort of thing:
This art is by Pyat.
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Monday, March 21st, 2022 -- by Bacchus
I don’t care if the forty on your lap is freezing your balls, your passenger has a cure for that:
This road trip seductive masturbation .gif came from a dead tumbler, but I have evidence that the uncredited source material was originally found in a Reality Kings porn shoot:
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Monday, September 13th, 2021 -- by Bacchus
We don’t know what kind of internet porn this blonde is watching while she wanks, but from the look on her face it’s pretty nasty and transgressive. Probably she tells herself after every session of orgasmic “her time” that she’s not going to look at that horrible stuff again:
Via Kinky Delight. From the style I believe the artist may be John Persons.
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Wednesday, September 1st, 2021 -- by Bacchus
A very very long time ago, some quasi-educational sex book I was reading (perhaps a Nancy Friday title) informed me that a common masturbation method for women was to fold up a pillow underneath themselves on a bed and ride it with some vigor. From time to time, during that vanished decade of popularity that sex blogs enjoyed, I would see some woman mention having done this, especially during that time of youth when their libido greatly exceeded their access to either sex toys or unsupervised young men. But it’s quite rare, I think, to see the practice actually captured in visual media:
This grainy .gif is from some long-lost Tumblr.
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Thursday, August 6th, 2020 -- by Bacchus
Sometimes, it’s a nice sunny day, you’re at the biker rally with some good friends and some friendly strangers, and there’s really nothing better to do than strip naked and give everybody a really good view of a woman having an orgasm. It’s an educational public service, really, if you want to think about it that way:
This photo circulates to this day, without attribtion, on various amateur/exhibitionist sites. However, from the size of the digital cameras and the lack of cell phones on display, I’d guess it dates to the first few years of the 21st century.
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Tuesday, May 19th, 2020 -- by Bacchus
She was so lost in her virtual reality fantasy world — the swashbuckling shirtless pirate in there with the nine inch cock pushes all of her buttons — that she didn’t notice when the people she promised to go to dinner with opened the door to see if she was ready to go. She was, in fact, ready to “go” — so they got a great view her screaming, squirting orgasm!
Artist is Volcano (ã¼ã‚‹ã›ã‚“).
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Thursday, April 16th, 2020 -- by Bacchus
I don’t know what the hell kind of failing nightclub this photo was shot in, but seriously, somebody should have offered Helena Locke some company. I mean, she seems resourceful enough when left to her own device, but should a stunning blonde like this have been left to get lonely and bored when she’s clearly horny and dressed for fun?
Photo is from Helena’s Beautiful Round Ass, via Kink Unlimited.
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Friday, March 6th, 2020 -- by Bacchus
This woman doesn’t just read her manga, she also enjoys it:
Artwork is by Po Ni.
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Tuesday, August 27th, 2019 -- by Bacchus
Here’s another amateur-looking photo from my old Usenet folders. Apparently the lady of the house is taking some “her time” with her Hitachi and some porn:
For those who don’t remember, Variations was a Penthouse publication, full of supposed letters from readers (actually written by paid writers) about sexy and kinky adventures.
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Tuesday, June 4th, 2019 -- by Bacchus
It’s always fun to see this level of enthusiasm. But I’m not sure those uniform gloves are ever going to be quite the same, afterwards:
Artist is Zheng, who has a Patreon. The character masturbating herself so cheerfully and energetically is Takeo, who is … the personification of a historical heavy cruiser in a naval game from Kadokawa Games?
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Sunday, September 9th, 2018 -- by Bacchus
None but she can ever say what busy fingers do, beneath the opaque layer of bubbles in a good hot bath. But her smile testifies:
Artwork is by Leone Frollo.
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Monday, June 25th, 2018 -- by Bacchus
We may need a music historian or an opera buff to fully explain the captioning on this one:
The three women masturbating on a moonlit beach (the nearest caption says Clare de Lune which I understand to mean “Light of the Moon”) are, I think, intended to compose a visual pun, with their ample bottoms outshining the moon in the sky. The moon itself is busy dallying with a tree branch; a nice touch, I’d say. But what does all this have to do with the opera Werther by Jules Massenet? One could speculate that there’s a Clare De Lune song in the opera, but the fairly shallow Wikipedia entry wouldn’t confirm any such notion. It remains, at least until my erudite readers chime in, a modest mystery.
In any case, the artwork dates from the 1920s, and is by Leo Berthie.
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Thursday, April 12th, 2018 -- by Bacchus
In this vision of the future, there is no carnival or amusement park so bizarre that a warthog-faced alien festooned with biological eye-shaped cam-orbs won’t stop, do a double-take, and stay to goggle at a beautiful blonde human woman pleasuring herself on the fairway:
From the cover of Ultimissime Proibite #2.
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Friday, March 9th, 2018 -- by Bacchus
The game was dragging a bit. She got bored and decided to sit out a few hands, to amuse herself another way. Such behavior is deleterious, perhaps, to the playing of high-quality poker, but perhaps not so much to high-quality play itself:
Artwork is from the cover of Les Meufs #21.
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Thursday, October 19th, 2017 -- by Bacchus
The supposed scenario for Chloe Carter’s Submissived shoot is that she spends so much time lounging about in the fancy deep tub pictured above, pounding her pudding under the hot water from the tap, that her stepfather has become angry about the unsustainable energy bill. And so he bursts in upon her in an angry lather, drags her out of the tub, and they proceed to enjoy a quasi-incestuous bout of adult-daughter/step-daddy BDSM sex. (Although you’ve seen very little of the stuff here on my old-fashioned blog, porn themes that flirt with incest without quite actually crossing the traditional taboo line are all the rage these past couple of years, as the old porn companies struggle mightily to find something that porn surfers still find novel enough to pay for.)
Of course I don’t buy this scenario entirely as described for a very simple reason, not that we couldn’t list a few dozen others. But mine is this: no woman wears lingerie like that into a bathtub that she expects to enjoy in perfect privacy. In fact, if there’s a lingerie wishbook illustration somewhere for “lingerie to be dragged out of a bathtub in”, it probably looks a lot like the lingerie Chloe is wearing…
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Friday, March 3rd, 2017 -- by Bacchus
I guarantee you that somewhere in the ErosBlog audience, someone who has experienced the joys of powerful vibration just completely lost her train of thought — and possibly her motivation for Friday afternoon office tasks — when she saw this photograph, entirely due to the power of Pavlovian association.
Photo courtesy of Sexually Broken.
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Thursday, December 29th, 2016 -- by Bacchus
I saw a crop of this image doing the spin cycle on Tumblr, where the artist’s signature had been painstakingly removed by some pointless asshole. It took me awhile, but I sourced it to German artist Tim Dinter, on whose website it is captioned “aus der reihe »6 x 6 monogatari, 36 pin-ups«, MONOGATARI, 2001“. For whatever relevance it may have, the word “monogatari” references a series of Japanese “light” (illustrated) novels.
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Sunday, June 5th, 2016 -- by Bacchus
Here’s your inspiration for how to spend your first lazy Sunday in June:
Said to be from the movie Bad Girls (1981).
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Thursday, January 2nd, 2014 -- by Bacchus
This moment of cucumber passion is a detail from Three Figures by German artist George Grosz, painted in 1928 or so.
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Wednesday, January 18th, 2012 -- by Bacchus
From comic book artist Salono’s Sexy Symphonies, we get another installment in the continuing saga/mystery of why women go to the bathroom in groups and what they do in there for so long:
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Tuesday, March 8th, 2011 -- by Bacchus
I’ve heard it said that sometimes a pillow is all a girl wants or needs. Well, here’s the Rule 34 confirmation:
From Usenet.
Monday, December 6th, 2010 -- by Bacchus
I found this Tijuana Bible comic panel floating around on my hard drive, thought you’d all enjoy it:
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Monday, November 15th, 2010 -- by Bacchus
It’s not just for sandwiches.
Wednesday, April 7th, 2010 -- by Bacchus
Overheard in a porn shop:
Cut to tonight, where there’s this conversation between a 23-year-old female and a 36-year-old idiot at a small porn shop in North Carolina, USA. This is not verbatim, because I didn’t have my notebook:
“So she’s with a guy who sucks because why?”
“Cause he’s the first guy who made her have an orgasm. She slept with like 150 guys, literally, and I’m like maybe you need to play with your pussy your damn self before paying his fucking bills, dumbass.”
Maybe, indeed!
As reported by Libby Lynn on Rollertrain.
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Tuesday, January 10th, 2006 -- by Bacchus
There’s an old homily:
‘Tis better to light a single candle, than to sit and curse the darkness.
I’m reminded of it every time I see pictures like these:
So much better!
Friday, October 4th, 2002 -- by Bacchus
Anil Dash has been thinking in the shower again, and thinking like a man at that:
“Why don’t they just drop the facade and make a dildo-shaped attachment for those hand-held shower nozzles? I mean, we’re all kind of in a wink-wink understanding that those things exist solely for women’s masturbatory needs, right? Well, I say any job worth doing is worth doing right. And that means getting the right tools for the job.”
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