July 29th, 2004 -- by Bacchus
Please Do Not Stroke The Elle
Elle at Girls In The Bag writes:
i havent had sex for a while. i want to be ravished. thrown down, as it were.i often make the claim that the majority of women want to be thrown down and fucked (by their significant other that is) and not sexily and gently seduced.
i for one do not want to be seduced one bit. in fact it frustrates me and i hate it. do not gently stroke me. ever.
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I couldn’t agree more.
Hear, hear!
Mmmmm she said it perfectly
I wouldn’t say “ever”, but “rarely” is accurate.
I also wouldn’t say never, but rarely. My ex (as of monday, very fresh wound) and I had great agressive almost fighting sex. When we tried to slow down and be romantic the sex simply wasn’t as good, and it still turned somewhat agressive. But yeah, hold me down, claw me up, bite me hard and I’ll melt for you.
Damnit, I miss sex.
Yeh – that’s what she says today – tomorrow will be a different story – I’ll bet you!
Definitely, ravished… none of this huggy, kissy, can I please crap. Half of the time, I don’t even like foreplay.
But then I’m fucked up and conflicted.
;-)
rg
Therin lies the rub, so to speak….how to know which method to use. One thing is for sure, the wrong approach will spell sudden failure. Be sweet to one who wishes only to be dominated and you will certainly be rebuffed. But being aggressive to one who wants seduction might land you in jail. This may be one of the best arguments for long term relationships and good communication. Then we get to try everything.