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The Sex Blog Of Record
October 5th, 2026 -- by Bacchus
A wise man knows: never ask a question you don’t really want to know the answer to. That goes double if you were expecting a lemon-flavored potion and Cluelo offers you a “yellow” potion instead:
Just shut up and drink it, soldier!
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October 3rd, 2026 -- by Bacchus
I am one of those annoying persons who cares so little for sports that I will deliberately make vague references to “sportsball” to piss off my sports-obsessed friends. No power on earth can invest me with the desire to care about who wins a game I am not playing; I utterly lack whatever tribalistic acculturation seems to drive most of us to identify ourselves with a team we are not part of. About the only thing that catches my interest is the bodies of the athletes, and for that, naked sports isn’t as prevalent as I might prefer:
This study in nude volleyball poses comes from the August 1977 issue of Oui magazine.
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October 1st, 2026 -- by Bacchus
This sex-positive sex blog does not fuck with, and with one notable exception never has fucked with, the social media craze/trends Locktober and No Nut November. For the most part I have kept my mouth firmly shut, because I’m not educated enough about the perfectly wholesome male chastity kink to avoid kink-shaming all that good clean dirty fun while simultaneously offering reasonable analysis of the pleasure-hostile discourse that has arisen around the supposed benefits of locking up your cock in a chastity cage for a month and/or limiting your orgasms in pursuit of dubious motives proffered by podcast bros and alt-right celebrities. It’s two parallel conversations that are not simple to disentangle.
Fortunately, I’ve found a video that seems to do a good job, and if this guy gets it wrong, you can yell at him and not me. It’s a bit lengthy, but significant parts are excerpted below:
Are you putting yourself on lockdown for fun? Or have you fallen for fascist propaganda? We don’t kink shame in this office, but we do kink educate. And there are a lot of really fun reasons to put your Johnson in jail.
SV play can be about smolder and building anticipation. It can be a fun way to show submission or exchange power. And it can be a great way to play with tension and release and notice throughout the day how your desire builds. And these can be really fun experiences that you get to leave feeling better about yourself. Or better about the connection you have in your relationship.
Fortunately, sex is political, always. And we do see this more overtly in the way that we police genderqueer and femme bodies. So for people with a pole, it’s often more implicit. It is punishment by your peers. Or what doing a specific act or not doing a specific act says about you to society.
And the alt-right grabs onto this because to control someone’s sexuality is to control
a large portion of that person. People who have a vested interest in you feeling like you expressing yourself sexually is inherently bad or negative. If your kink play, and especially this month and next month, if your chastity play, leaves you feeling like there is something negatively or inherently bad or dangerous with you
or the fact that you have sexual expression, that means you might have fallen for some propaganda.
There are an awful lot of dude bros and incels on the internet trying to sell you chastity as a pseudoscience using conviction that they themselves staple to things like religion and morality and purity. If you’re in chastity because you believe your own self-sex and the relationship you have with your own body is inherently dangerous, you’ve likely fallen for this propaganda.
If you are in chastity because you believe that being in chastity boosts your testosterone when you aren’t ejaculating, then you’ve likely fallen for propaganda.
If you believe that not masturbating causes you to have increased strength, live longer, age more gracefully, or be more alert, you’ve fallen for propaganda.
And if you believe that not ejaculating is saving your sexual power, or that it is saving your sexual power to not give ejaculation to a woman, then friend, you’re falling for fascist propaganda.
Don’t let the incels in the podcast bros lie to you. Don’t let them ruin your fun and step on your kink. You are allowed to enjoy your kink and your sexuality for a lot of healthy, wonderful reasons that let you leave the experience feeling better about yourself and your body. You do not have to relegate yourself to a kink expression that makes you feel worse about who you are or less in control of your body as a result.
And as always, remember, there’s no such thing as porn or sex addiction.
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September 30th, 2026 -- by Bacchus
I don’t know if moms in 2026 still struggle to persuade little boys to wash their hands, but when I was knee high to a grasshopper, it was a persistent concern of my own mother. And there’s plenty of “gender discourse” on the modern internet about dubious male hygiene standards; if you’ve missed the viral anecdotes from traumatized young women in new relationships with men who don’t seem to wash their own asses, count yourself lucky. Today’s anecdote concerns a man-shaped human who may have spelunked his own unwashed ass before offering his contaminated fingers to a lady-friend for sucking/tasting. Apparently his poor mom’s efforts to teach him handwashing were an abject failure:
Today, I hung out with the guy I’ve been crushing on for a while, and it’s always “platonic,” but recently it’s become a littleeee bit spicy — at least with conversations. Long story short, he put his fingers in my mouth as far as he could, and in the moment, I was into it. But as soon as I breathed in, I smelled the most RANK stench of butt. Like, seriously rank. I gagged immediately.
This happened an hour ago, and I’ve brushed my teeth now 7 times. I feel like I just tasted man butt. I had butt fingers in my mouth. I’m so turned off. I wish this was a joke; cannot even believe my life. I viewed this man so highly for so long, and I wanted to enjoy this (barely) intimate moment with him so badly, but instead that happened. But he is truly not a good fit for me, and perhaps this was a wake-up call for me to get the fuckkkkk away from him, and I think it’s going to work now. I can’t think of him without smelling that smell.
This has been circulating on various social platforms, but probably comes originally from Reddit.
Gentlemen, don’t be ass-fingers guy!
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September 28th, 2026 -- by Bacchus
This joke is at least fifty years old:
A recent poll asked what percentage of the male population likes women with thick thighs, and what percentage likes women with thin thighs. Three percent preferred thick thighs, two percent preferred thin thighs, and the other ninety-five percent said they preferred something in between.
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September 26th, 2026 -- by Bacchus
This 1952 Oster advertisement for a “massage instrument” promises to be “a wonder worker for any part of the body that needs stimulation or relaxation.” And no doubt it was!
Slightly more modern versions of these were sold through the 1970s, I think? I had an old (but not this old) one to play with from a thrift store in the late 20th century, and it was almost as much fun as a powerful plug-in wand vibrator. However, I want to call attention to the kinky dress our Christmas housewife is wearing in the advertisement! Does she or does she not look ready to play?
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September 24th, 2026 -- by Bacchus
As a person on the older end of GenX, and as somebody who missed out on the free love parts of the sexual revolution by just a few years, I’ve been been fighting the sex positivity battle my entire adult life, in alignment with sex-positive feminists and in opposition to anti-porn activists and sex-negative people who spread myths about “sex addiction.”
Only in the last few months did I become aware that there’s a sex-negative cultural tendency in parts of GenZ — even the secular parts — to vilify sexuality and to disdain normal expressions of sexuality and desire. One of the linguistic markers of this cultural trend, if you didn’t know, is to use the words “lust” and “lustful” as a derogatory, like some 19th-century brimstone preacher. So far I don’t know very much about this sex-negative GenZ cultural drift, so I haven’t mentioned it previously on ErosBlog. Thus I am sharing this video as a placeholder, to indicate that I’m aware, and will no doubt have more to say in future:
Barrett says:
I have to be honest, I thought people were kind of making up that there was an increase in using the word lustful in a derogatory way.
I just never saw somebody do it. I saw a bunch of people reacting to it, but I never actually heard somebody use that. So I took it upon myself to search, and… Oh, no. Oh, no!
That… That has hit a lot of y’all’s vocabulary, hasn’t it? Uh, you are actually being real casual and throwing that word around a lot.
No Nuance November came a little early this year, girls.
Um, lust. Not a bad thing. Full stop.
Not a negative in any way, shape or form. It is perfectly fine, normal, and good to wanna have sex. It is perfectly fine, normal, and good to have sex. It’s perfectly fine, normal, and good to see somebody at a bar, at a party, on a dating app and wanna have sex with them.
Really strap in for this: It’s fine, normal, and good for somebody to see you in one of those situations and wanna have sex with you. Obviously, everybody needs to treat each other with basic dignity and respect and be mindful of your boundaries. You don’t treat another human like a piece of meat just because you wanna have sex with them. You treat them with kindness, but it’s okay that you wanna have sex with them. A sizable portion of you are, like, full adults who can legally smoke, drink, gamble, rent a car. Why the hell are you using the same rhetoric that a 13 year old homeschooler in the Bush era would use? What the hell?
What she said!
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