The Mistress Guide
Here’s a fun article that may be of use to a number of you ladies: Miss Vanilla’s Guide to Being A Mistress. It’s a sort of Intro To Femdom 101:
I call it “Miss Vanilla’s” guide because I really want to give people who don’t consider themselves kinky a chance to enjoy this. When I first started getting into it, I was awfully confused and intimidated by the idea of being “dominant.” Would I lose my femininity? Would it make my man less masculine? Would it sour our non-sexual relationship? I will approach all of this from the perspective of someone beginning anew, as best as I can.
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Techniques! What are some fun ways to let your man know that you’re in control?
“Bondage”. One of the easiest ways to get started is by tying him up. Pros: He’s physically helpless, so you get to focus on breaking his will with your sexiness. Cons: His hands aren’t free, so you have to take a very active role – you can’t easily kill time telling him to pleasure you with his hands!
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“Pleasure overload.” Let’s face it: Your man thinks you’re hot. Now you’re going to use that to your utter advantage! Make him DESPERATE. Caress his entire body – with your fingers, your tongue, or your feet! Trace your fingertips up his inner thighs. Trace spirals around his penis but don’t touch it yet. Tease his butt, if you’re into that kind of thing (more on that later). Lick, suck and bite his nipples. Tease his dick with your mouth. Exhale deeply into his ear, and suck his earlobes. Be sexy, and he WILL be yours!
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As a male, I’d have to say that I agree with her assessment. Most men are agreeable to being dominated in the bedroom, and as the saying goes, the rest of them are lying!
It is rare that a man isn’t at the very least curious about the practice.
As far as male fantasies go, most studies report it is the second most common fantasy among males. Second only to the two female threesome.
By combining the two, and offering a man a two dominant female experience, you can turn a man’s mind to mush.
She’s right about the teasing. Most men had rather have a pleasant erection, that lasts for hours, than and orgasm that only lasts a few seconds before its all over.
Teasing can turn a man into putty.
If a man enjoys sex at all, he’ll enjoy lengthy sex even more!