April 13th, 2007 -- by Bacchus
Wife Spanking
Wife spanking? Bonnie is for it.
So much so, that she’s put together a handy list for other women who want to be spanked, but are having a little trouble convincing their menfolk to get with the program:
Fifty Reasons to Spank Your Wife or Girlfriend
Reason #50 made me laugh:
#50: If she didn’t agree, she wouldn’t have shown you this list!
Thanks to Spanking Blog for the link.
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I thought no.8 was the most telling: “Compared to childbirth, the pain of a spanking is trivial”.
On the other hand, it reminds me uncomfortably of the “Of course I can get my hand in there! You’ve had a baby, haven’t you?” argument (Yeah, I have had a baby. It was great and everything, but not one of the defining erotic moments of my life. And things have shrunk back to normal in the meantime).
I like the just because reason..just because she wants/needs it. there are times i think to myself when i’m home alone god i wish he were here i need to be spanked.
From Odysseus Kurios, April 19, 2015
After eight years since this “50” list was posted, we’ve now entered the “50 Shades” era. To perhaps update Bonnie’s list, I’ve consolidated and reorganized it to hang together better and flow more logically. Whether anyone will see it after all this time, I don’t know, so here’s my message in a bottle…
Consensuality and Safety
1. Adult spanking is the most common of all kinks. This isn’t weird or unusual, it’s just another kind of sex. With a few simple rules, adult spankings are safe and fun. Consensual spanking is not abuse. With a safeword, she can tell you before things go truly wrong. She won’t think you’re mean if you’re doing as she agreed.
2. It’s really OK to hit a woman, but only if she enjoys it. Most women’s bottoms are well padded; real damage is unlikely. Women are tougher than you think. Compared to childbirth, the pain of a spanking is trivial. It isn’t about the pain, it’s about a shared experience.
3. Spankings don’t have to be serious; you can laugh and joke. You can start small and simple. If something doesn’t work, you don’t have to repeat it. There’s a community of spankos to provide support and advice.
Erotic Outcomes
1. Many couples include erotic spanking in their lovemaking. This is not punishment; instead think of spanking as foreplay. You can be the strong, decisive man of her fantasies. Her dream can be your pleasure.
2. Role play spankings are great fun. You could get her to dress up for her spanking. Just picture those beautiful globes over your lap. You’ll love how her skin grows warm and pink. She’s your lover – It’s OK if your fingers wander southward.
3. It’s wonderful to spoon after a spanking. Hugs and kisses. The lovemaking afterward is often sensational. Do the initials B.J. hold any significance? Spankings can relax her.
4. You could make it a game. Make her smile — tease her about future spankings. Haven’t you always wanted to threaten to “tan her hide”? It’s fun to collect and test various spanking implements.
Romantic Partnership Outcomes
1. This opens an exciting new chapter in your relationship. The process of experimentation allows a couple to grow together. Spanking builds trust between partners. Romantic spanking opens lines of communication. It can strengthen your relationship. It’s something fun you can do together.
2. Spankings promote greater physical and emotional intimacy. It’s with you she wants to share this secret. Your willingness to try demonstrates your love for her. It’s wonderful to feel completely in love again. She’ll adore you all the more for listening to her needs. You can be her hero!
3. As you spank her, feel any anger you may feel melt away and turn into delight and respect for your partner and for the priceless gift of her submission.