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July 16th, 2009 -- by Bacchus

Boot Camp Was Never Like This

I never joined any military branch, in large part because jogging at six in the morning doesn’t fit into my vision of the beautiful life. However, this gallery from Action Girls has forced me to reconsider:

boot camp pt in the nude

nude girls doing situps and calisthenics

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July 15th, 2009 -- by Bacchus

Woman With Freckles … All Over

Do you like a woman with freckles? Model Nicotine in this Everything Butt gallery seems to be well stocked with ’em:

model nicotine has freckles

(Click image or here to see the full sized photo.)

 
July 14th, 2009 -- by Bacchus

Mars And Venus Discussing What Women Want

From a long and tendentious book review, I gleaned what struck me as a powerfully descriptive theory on why what women say they want in a man never seems to match what they actually choose in men:

When a young girl becomes erotically aware of boys, she is endowed by nature with a set of blinders that exclude the majority of them – including many who can make good husbands – from her sight. What gets a male within her narrow range of vision is called “sexual attractiveness.” What is it?

It is not possible to find out by asking women themselves. They will insist until they are blue in the face that they want only a sensitive, respectful fellow who treats them right.

When women claim to be seeking kindness, respect, a sense of humor, etc., they mean at most that they would like to find these qualities in the men who are already within their erotic field of view. When a man asks what women are looking for, he is trying to find out how he can get into that field of view.

What women instinctively want is for 99 percent of the men they run into to leave them alone, buzz off, drop dead – while the one to whom they feel attracted makes all their dreams come true. One of the keys to deciphering female speech is that the term “men” signifies for them only the very restricted number of men they find sexually attractive. All the dirty articles in Cosmo about “giving him the sex he craves” and “driving him wild in bed” concern this man of her dreams, who by some amazing coincidence usually turns out to be the man of some other girl’s dreams as well.

During their nubile years, many women are at least as concerned with turning male desire off (i.e., telling the 99 percent to drop dead) as with turning it on (getting Mr. Alpha to commit): they get more offers of attention than they have time to process.

In other words, a woman talking about what she wants in a man is talking about the factors she uses to choose between men who already made it past her bozo filters, which are mostly subconscious (she needs low-effort heuristics because she’s filtering a lot of spam). Meanwhile, on a different planet, the man wondering what women want is usually looking for info on getting past those same bozo filters. In short, they aren’t even remotely talking about the same thing. Conversational madness ensues. Mars, meet Venus. Venus, Mars.

 
July 13th, 2009 -- by Bacchus

Porn And Literature In The Twenty-First Century

A learned friend sent me a link to a story in the New York Times about the decline (from a low prominence to an even lower one) of plot in pornography. Unfortunately, that was a few days ago, and the story is now unavailable unless you have a NYT login, so I’ll accomplish much the same thing for you by repurposing Violet Blue’s two-sentence summary:

They discuss the gradual demise of scripted porn movies and the increase of all-action porn. In the article they talk to Steven Hirsch at Vivid, who blames the short attention span of Internet porn consumers.

Now, if I were doing a dead media watch the way Bruce Sterling often does at Beyond The Beyond, I’d have trenchant observations for you about a dead-tree newspaper that can’t even manage to publish its material online at a persistent link that works for everyone, writing about the decline of plot in an industry that never particularly valued plot, while neglecting — in the last couple of years alone — probably several dozen more interesting news developments in that same industry. Is this news, or is it “old man shouts at cloud” stuff?

But instead of making this a dead media watch piece, I want to praise the dancing bear a little bit. Not only has the NYT deigned to notice the porn industry, but they wrote about it in a manner that doesn’t dispute the significant place pornography has in our cultural canon. For the major print media to write anything about porn that doesn’t include a big dose of anti-porn fear-mongering is unusual enough. For them to treat with it as a literary genre — which it surely is — and analyze its literary evolution and shortcomings? That’s downright revolutionary, and certainly to be commended.

That said, the instant I saw it I thought of Bruce Sterling again. About six weeks ago he published the very succinct Eighteen Challenges in Contemporary Literature on his blog. If you are willing to read them with a bit of mental flexibility with regard to media (substituting, for example, “DVD” for “book”) they are germane to, and do a better job of explaining, the changes in porn production, distribution, and marketing that have driven the plot “decline” that the NYT was grappling with. I’d gesture specifically at items 2-4, 7, and 8-14. That’s what, 11 out of 18?

1. Literature is language-based and national; contemporary society is globalizing and polyglot.

2. Vernacular means of everyday communication – cellphones, social networks, streaming video – are moving into areas where printed text cannot follow.

3. Intellectual property systems failing.

4. Means of book promotion, distribution and retail destabilized.

5. Ink-on-paper manufacturing is an outmoded, toxic industry with steeply rising costs.

6. Core demographic for printed media is aging faster than the general population. Failure of print and newspapers is disenfranching young apprentice writers.

7. Media conglomerates have poor business model; economically rationalized “culture industry” is actively hostile to vital aspects of humane culture.

8. Long tail balkanizes audiences, disrupts means of canon-building and fragments literary reputation.

9. Digital public-domain transforms traditional literary heritage into a huge, cost-free, portable, searchable database, radically transforming the reader’s relationship to belle-lettres.

10. Contemporary literature not confronting issues of general urgency; dominant best-sellers are in former niche genres such as fantasies, romances and teen books.

11. Barriers to publication entry have crashed, enabling huge torrent of subliterary and/or nonliterary textual expression.

12. Algorithms and social media replacing work of editors and publishing houses; network socially-generated texts replacing individually-authored texts.

13. “Convergence culture” obliterating former distinctions between media; books becoming one minor aspect of huge tweet/ blog/ comics/ games / soundtrack/ television / cinema / ancillary-merchandise pro-fan franchises.

14. Unstable computer and cellphone interfaces becoming world’s primary means of cultural access. Compositor systems remake media in their own hybrid creole image.

15. Scholars steeped within the disciplines becoming cross-linked jack-of-all-trades virtual intelligentsia.

16. Academic education system suffering severe bubble-inflation.

17. Polarizing civil cold war is harmful to intellectual honesty.

18. The Gothic fate of poor slain Poetry is the specter at this dwindling feast.

 
July 11th, 2009 -- by Bacchus

Camping Nude

I can only imagine that she stepped into the tent with a kettle of hot water to have a bit of a sponge bath. It seems to have worked, she looks pretty freshened up to me:

nude camping

From alt. binaries. pictures. erotica. vintage.

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July 9th, 2009 -- by Bacchus

Roses And Thorns

One of the standard “recommended texts” for people getting interested in BDSM is a book entitled Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns. When I saw this picture on Spanking Blog, I immediately thought of that title. Apparently it’s possible to have both roses and thorns:

romantic whipping

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July 8th, 2009 -- by Bacchus

Taking A Bath

I confess I’m not quite sure what the scenario is that explains a young lady with a near-perfect butt taking a bath while wearing panties. But sometimes in this world, you just don’t gotta ask those hard questions:
perfect ass wearing wet soapy panties

From Amateur Hi-Def.

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