November 12th, 2008 -- by Bacchus
Face Slapping
Just one of those tender little moments Monmouth is so good at describing:
When I got up to find the condoms, she lunged for my cock with her mouth. Playing the game, I couldn’t let her get what she wanted so easily. I slapped her face softly but firmly with the flat of my hand.
“Restrain yourself, or you’ll get punished.”
She smirked and took another shot, her mouth open, hungry.
I slapped her again across the face, harder, back and forth, the palm and the back of my hand striking the warm, flushed cheeks. To keep her still I held her head by clutching a handful of her brown curls between my fingers.
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ever since this week’s “South Park” the thought of “slapping” just makes me giggle …
I LOVE having my face slapped by a lover, whether it is with a hand or with a cock. It’s a very quick way for them to remind me who is in charge or to put me back in my place if I get too assertive when I’m not supposed to. Of course, I am submissive, so this would make sense. But that stinging sensation; there is nothing like it. I will immediately back down or comply with what is being asked of me. It’s just a violation in the purest sense. Think about it: when you slap someone across the face in a non-sexual context, it is a huge insult and hugely disrespectful. In a sexual context it is also a huge insult and hugely disrespectful, but normally in a welcome way as opposed to an unwelcome way. In the sexual context, both the receiver of the slap and the giver of the slap WANT that disrespect to be expressed, whereas in a non-sexual context, only the giver of the slap wants the disrespect to be expressed.
All of that to say… I love being slapped during sex.
Britni, your comment exemplifies one of the best things about writing a sex blog, for me. I’m always appreciative when somebody makes a stab at explaining a fetish I’ve posted about. I know I’ve got readers who will be squicked by the face-slapping thing, and it helps (a lot!) to hear from someone who enjoys it and is willing to take a stab at saying why it’s hot.
face-slapping has never been a turn-on for me, although an occasional ass-spank has often been rather stimulating, as long as I’m the one delivering it (to a willing partner).
again, the latest “South Park” episode just makes the thought of the former amusing …