ErosBlog posts containing "spanking"
Spanking Paris Hilton
Wife Spanking
Wife spanking? Bonnie is for it.
So much so, that she’s put together a handy list for other women who want to be spanked, but are having a little trouble convincing their menfolk to get with the program:
Fifty Reasons to Spank Your Wife or Girlfriend
Reason #50 made me laugh:
#50: If she didn’t agree, she wouldn’t have shown you this list!
Thanks to Spanking Blog for the link.
Santa Gives Spankings
You learn all sort of things here on the interwebs. For instance, from Spanking Blog (surely an authoritative source when it comes to spanking matters) we learn that when hickory switches and lumps of coal in the stocking don’t do the trick, Santa attends personally to the bad girls on his route:
Who knew?
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Marital Spanking, Comic Book Style
I got distracted today by technical issues, so I’m going to just blatantly steal a spanking comic from Spanking Blog to put some color at the top of the page:
“Don’t you dare stop” is what I think she’s really saying.
Consensual Spankings For Feminists
I’ve commented before (most notably in the comments to this post about the production of spanking porn) that I don’t have much time for so-called feminists who can’t respect a woman’s sexual decisions. When feminists stop standing up for the choices women make, I stop recognizing them as feminists, it’s that simple.
Thus there’s some interest to be found in this Spanking and Feminism thread over at Spanking Blog. The post itself chides kinky men who won’t take ownership of their kinkiness, who can’t admit they want to spank and dominate for the fun of it, so they instead pretend (to themselves and to the world) that the women they are spanking are weak inferior creatures who would be lost without the “guidance and discipline” these ever-so-benevolent dudes are offering.
As discussion simmered in the comments, ranging wider and wider as discussions of BDSM and feminism tend to do, along came someone claiming to “respect individual choices” while simultaneously arguing that “it’s really hard to seperate out cultural expectations and personal choices.” Which, translated, means something like “You say you chose to do that, but I don’t believe you, and thus I’m free to condemn your choice.” I enjoyed the response:
No, it’s really not hard to separate out personal choices from cultural expectations. When someone says “This is my choice” you respect that, absolutely, or you just became part of the problem. If you retain niggling reservations, if you’re willing to question the individual’s self report of her choice, then you are failing to respect her personal choice and you are claiming, in effect, that you know better than the individual. Viewed charitably, the claim is still a version of “Your society has made it impossible for you to act as as a self-actualized individual adult human; you’re so messed up that you can’t even correctly determine or report what you want.” That’s an infantilizing, disempowering, patronizing claim and although it’s often made by folks who claim the badge of feminism, it’s no part of a true feminism that I could respect.
Just so.
Erotic Spanking Play
Given that so many spanking illustrations feature punishment of one sort or another, it’s refreshing to find a piece of vintage spanking art (via Spanking Blog) that appears to be all about pleasure. Here we have two ladies, a tropical bird tapestry, a lot of pillows, and a whippy cane:
Any woman who’s ever complained of tongues flagging prematurely will sure appreciate this novel approach to maintaining proper levels of oral enthusiasm.
Sunday Spanking Limerick
There’s a spanking limerick contest (with prizes!) going on at The Spanking Den. As if spanking limericks weren’t enough draw, one entrant (Invidia from The Collar Purple) has accomplished the rare poetic feat of rhyming “mirror”:
There once was a brat who took pride
In her reddened and well-striped backside.
Her Dom thought her queerer
When she ran to the mirror
To examine the swats he’d applied.
