Birth Erotica
I am neither qualified nor inclined to comment on the contents of this page, which consists of the following introduction and about ten more anecdotes after the one quoted:
According to Ann Douglas and John R. Sussman, M.D., authors of the book The Unofficial Guide to Having a Baby, a single orgasm is thought to be 22 times as relaxing as the average tranquilizer. When you add to this the fact that the average vagina widens 2″ during sexual arousal, it only makes sense to fantasize, masturbate or make love in labor. The following women did just that.
“When Johnny got home around 12:30, we relaxed together on the couch. He breathed with me through contractions and was verbally encouraging. His loving presence was an important part of my opening up. By now we were both aware of the sensuality surrounding birth. Creating this child was an intimate act of love between the two of us, and birthing in a loving way simply and naturally completed that act. As a result of healing, I was much more able to ‘open up’ during this labor. I had finally become able to make my vagina wet and loose by fantasizing about making love to my husband, so while I labored, I graphically visualized having sex. John and I both welcomed the idea of actually having sex during labor (in fact John offered to perform oral sex on me right in the middle of it…what a man!), but I just happened to be focused elsewhere at the time. In the days preceding I had masturbated frequently. I found this to be an intensely pleasurable, loving, and appropriate preparation for our baby’s birth. Laboring in the environment of my own home was crucial to accepting these feelings….The spreading apart of my muscles and bones and the joy of voluntarily allowing my body to do its work was both arousing and exhilarating.”
-From Angelica’s Birth Story by Laurie Annis Morgan
And to think, not a dolphin in sight.
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Just when I think I’ve heard it all…
i’ve heard of this before.. i’ve actually heard of women having an orgasm BECAUSE of the birthing process, as well.
It’s true, but not because it’s “relaxing”. Sexual excitement triggers the release of the hormone oxytocin, which can induce contractions. Google for “nipple stimulation childbirth” for more information.
The nurse-practitioner told us about this when my Partner in Crime was in labor with our second child.
Isn’t nature wonderful?
I believe k is correct. I once tried to impart this knowledge to my ex-wife, who not only refused to believe it, but thought I was sick for even suggesting that it might be true. One of the many reasons she became my ex…
It’s difficult to get accurate statistics on the number of women who have had this experience, as most are reluctant to report it. What I read stated that for a good number of women, it was their FIRST, and sometimes ONLY experience with orgasm. What I read also seemed to offer the theory that the baby stimulated areas not ordinarily provided with sufficient friction by a mere penis.
Perhaps some of your readers will one day enlighten us with actual experience…