Shoot Your Load!
Bacchus’ post on increased-ejaculate spam and concerns prompted a pleasant stroll down memory lane for me, with an interesting twist–I compared my experiences with various lovers, with the hope of coming up with something helpful from a female perspective. Don’t know that I’ve accomplished that, but I’ll still share my thoughts.
Bacchus is dead right that what goes on inside can be, er, hard to measure. But if a lady is tight enough, and paying sufficient attention, she can feel something that correlates, apparently, to the force of her partner’s ejaculation. At least I can….or could. (Not having a steady sex life, partner-wise, I’ve lost some muscle tone. :( ) I’m sure I’m not alone in having that ability.
Where it might become more of an issue is externally-oriented play, as some commenters focused on. While shooting a huge load is probably highly desirable for bukkake, and sometimes on other occasions, there are definitely times when a gal doesn’t want to have to be concerned about telltale white streaks on skin, clothing, or in her hair. (But then again, there are definitely times when it’s part of the lingering fun after sex to wonder if anybody can put the clues together and figure out that you’ve just had some naughty fun!)
Where I’ve noticed volume the most is in fellatio, no surprise there. I’ve had gushers and dribblers, and you know what? The amount of the ejaculate never seems directly tied to how much my partner seems to be enjoying himself. That’s even true for those male actors out there who like to give the impression that every sex act is the ultimate thrill, never to be topped [big yawn].
What really gets me off is knowing I’m getting him off–genuine pleasure, not the going-for-the-Oscar type stuff. The slow, subtle increase in muscle tension in his abs, thighs, and butt muscles…..the pelvic thrusts (if he’s in a position that allows ’em)….the changes in his breathing…especially the ragged breathing as he gets close to coming…oh my, is it getting warm in here? Hearing that breathing gets me going so much that I don’t care about load and velocity, I just want the explosion!!!
And last, I do enjoy giving prostate stimulation–only from the outside so far for me, no heavy-duty milking–to guys who aren’t hung up about being touched there. It seems to always add to the intensity of his orgasm, whether or not it increases his ejaculate. And if it’s better for him, it’s better for me! :D
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The prostate stimulation is easy. You simply massage around the perineum (yes, men have one too) and if you are careful about the amount of pressure you apply just behind the balls, well, most men are very appreciative.
Now, let’s say you get up the nerve to venture inside…you’ll want to pull/press your finger forward, toward the cock. Gently. Most men can’t take much pressure.
Of course, and this is no hard and fast rule for ALL men, but the vast majority of men that I’ve done this with never seem to be “prepared” for this. (In other words, definitely wash your hands well after.)
But, back to the topic of the post. While it’s always fun to have a nice, big, juicy load offered for your enjoyment, the best part of a man’s orgasm is knowing that you helped create it. It’s really that simple. Those moans and that release is the direct result of pleasure in which you participated. It’s even more powerful with oral sex because you know it’s due to your efforts.
Still and all, big or little, it’s the orgasm itself that counts.
My favorite partner EVER surprised me on several occasions when I continued playing with his cock after his orgasm. Not once, not twice, not thrice, but up to five – YES! FIVE! – more orgasms issued forth. A ton of come? Nope. But that didn’t matter in the least. Having him multi-orgasmic was the best present ever.
Yes yes yes. You’ve covered all the major points there, chick. But would you please describe in another post how you do the prostate stimulation? This is something I’d like to try with my hubby.
DTG xxoo
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