It Has To Do With The Oral Secks
OK, so the deal here is, I’m not going to vouch for this suggestion. My experience is that there’s a good chance this will earn you the side of a flailing fist right on that little soft tender spot along the side of your temple, about an inch back of your eye and up a skosh. But I did think it was, as the kids say, wrote funny:
Ok guys, if you do this then you to can become a God and your woman will worship my penis for it, regardless of how small it is (yes I said MY penis since I’m getting some type of credit here).
So what is it you may ask? Well it has to do with the oral secks. “I go down on my woman all da times” you say, well are you doing it rites I say? Apparently some guys will do the carpet munching thing and as soon as the woman climaxeseses, they stop and stick it in. If you do this then you are one big stupid stupid-head because that is wrong, wrong, wrong! What you need to do is keep going for 5 to 10 more minutes until they can’t take it anymore THEN you can stick it wherever you want. I try to pace myself until she gets there then I start really getting into it once she peaks. She’ll start cursing and kicking and trying to pull me up but I’ll just keep on going until I get tired. Once the woman has been at that point for a while you can do anything your heart desires and all she’ll do is scream for God and ask for more and tell all her friends how great you are. Hopefully she’ll mention me to for telling you dumbasses to begin with.
And there you have it.
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All women are not exactly the same when it comes to how much oral sex they like, and *after* the orgasm, they don’t all want more.
I find it best to *ask* how she likes it. And trust what she says. If you think you want to try something different, ask first. Talk about her orgasms, and how and when she wants you to help with them.
If she dose not know, or you think you know something new she might like, it’s usually a good idea let her know you’re going to try it. Sometimes surprises are great, other times, there might be a good reason she dosen’t like whatever new thing you’re going to try. Better safe then sorry. We’d all like to be the most intuitive lover she (or he, or whatever) has had, who blows your partner’s minds with new stuff, and is better than everyone else. Or at least we’d like to be fun, and not someone who caused pain or too much over intense stimulation when it wasn’t wanted.
The best way I can think of to do that is ask. Ask before, and during. Not too much during, but just enough to get a sense of what’s working.
In my experience, the preparations before oral sex are just as important, if not more so, than the sex. Teasing and caressing until your partner asks (or begs) for you to touch her clit or lick her, means she’s probably really sensitive there already. That changes things. You might not have to go all jackhammer. You could use some medium pressure and the flat of your tongue for part of the job. And so on.
But it’s so important to find out what she likes and how. Best way to do that is ask.
ummmm…no.
I whack Kev on the side of the head when he tries that.
of course, if I’m giving him a handjob, and keep going after he’s done…now THAT’S fun!
writhe! writhe around! bwaahahaha! :D
Well, I can only speak for oral sex with my wife (because I haven’t had sex with anyone else for the last 26 years) but the one thing I’ve learned not to do is ask.
Most of the time she doesn’t know what she wants. Asking her only confuses her and spoils the moment. It has to be up to me to read the situation and act accordingly.
I mean, is she really going to say, “oh yes, bring me to the edge of orgasm and torture me by keeping me there as long as possible”? No, I don’t think so.
And as for keeping on going after she’s come, I have to try to read that one too. Quite often she’s impatient to get on with penetration and if I asked her I’m sure that she would say, “get it in there NOW!”. But usually it’s more fun to make her wait (fun for her too in the end).
I do agree that communication is important though. A bit of joint blogging can come in handy there, of course.
umm.. EEK!!! After I cum it’s beyond painful if he/she even BREATHES on my clit. I can’t even describe the pain, it’s that awful and I had my nipples pierced without shedding any tears. Granted, my clit is super-sensitive but STILL!!
If you’re too embarrassed to ask, just follow her lead. If a woman is too shy, most will try to guide you with their bodies. Pay attention (most of the men I’ve been with haven’t). If she’s not moving at all, check her pulse. If you have any more questions, read this.
The clit usually becomes Quite a bit more sensitive after the first orgasm, if you usually stimulate the clit directly (which some women just cannot handle) during foreplay, I’d recommend only stimulating the clit indirectly afterwards, let the hood drop back down and simply press gently on it.
My wife can handle it but to be honest, she’s the only one I’ve tried it on. The point was you shouldn’t just stop once they get there. I start doing a sucking thing when she gets there and go back to licking when she calms down.