Fullfilling His Ass Fantasy (Not To Mention His Ass)
Here (from Damp Silk) is a loving tale of a wife who discovered the fantasy her husband was oh-so-secretly exploring on the internet and (rather than freaking out) set out to fulfill it:
My husband has a secret fantasy life. I’m absolutely serious. Oh, I know what you’re thinking. Doesn’t every man? Don’t all men want us to be maids in the home, chefs in the kitchen, accountants with the checkbook and whores in the bedroom? Don’t all men fantasize daily about various sorts of interesting sexual things? Yes. Of course they do. But for me, this fantasy was a bit different. Because this one involved . . . the ass.
My husband has had my ass in every way imaginable. He has touched, stroked and caressed, pinched, spanked and paddled, teased, toyed and tongued, poked, prodded and probed and quite frankly royally fucked that object of his obsession. He has taken me, and my ass, to new heights of delight. If my ample cheeks were the focus of his interest, it was certainly fine with me. But, as I soon discovered, it wasn’t my ass he was interested in. It was his own!
I discovered this accidentally one evening. I was reading emails, deleting junk, and catching up with private messages. Unexpectedly I accessed a secret account; apparently he’d forgotten to log out after he checked his own mailbox. I found several messages from ladies he’d recently chatted with. They discussed their talks in intimate detail, very sexually explicit. We both enjoy sexy chat, so that didn’t concern me, but the topic was a bit startling, and it both shocked and aroused me. My man, tall and large, mustached and muscular, wanted to be fucked in his ass.
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Should I pretend I never saw the account? No. Not a chance. Should I confront angrily or tearfully, which could potentially cause a big fight resulting in him hiding more secrets from me? Also not an option for me. Hmmm. This could become a serious problem in our marriage if not handled properly.
As I am a self-starter, and somewhat of a devious gal, I embark upon the only choice available to me. I go shopping. But not to the mall, oh no. I head to the naughty bookstore, with its wide assortment of marital aids. It’s time to fulfill a fantasy. Yummy. I’m on a mission!
Shorter URL for sharing: https://www.erosblog.com/?p=1760
And people say marriage is failing!
Good for her (and her husband). I think if more people were as open-minded as this, we’d have a lot fewer problems in the world – not only in marriages, but in society at large. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we all had someone who wanted to see our needs met and fantasies fulfilled?
If only i knew my wife would react as such i would share that same fantasy with her. Kudos to this man’s wife as she is what everyman truely wants… a wife with an open mind.
Well here’s to them! Any couple open to one another is a good one.
I’m lucky my wife is very understanding and has helped fulfill this and many other fantasies!!!
Wonderful! My boyfriend’s willing to try out his ass since I told him I was interested, but I can’t help but wish he were more passionate about the subject.
It’s a shame that in this day and age that this topic should be considered shocking or taboo. Even the writer herself, Damp Silk, had to pause before mentioning… the ass! Anal sex is especially taboo for hetero men because it’s still associated with male homosexuality. After all, many gay men practice it on a regular basis, or have at least tried it. Using this logic, since most gay men are known to regularly practice oral sex, should this too be taboo for the straight male? Many gay males enjoy trading hand jobs as well. Should the men refuse such treatment from their female partners? Isn’t self masturbation by definition a homosexual activity? After all, there is only one sex involved… Not all gay men engage in anal eroticism. Does that mean they’re not doing it right… not practising their homosexuality correctly? Just because it’s not highly popular at this time, and in this culture, doesn’t mean that she should be at all concerned about her big, hairy, muscular man. Facts are facts, and the fact is that the anus of BOTH sexes in packed with sensitive nerve endings which most people find can be quite pleasurably stimulated if properly approached. Millions of gay men have known this for centuries, and quite a few lesbians as well for that matter. If she really wants to give him a treat, she should buy an Aneros Prostate Massager, and milk him dry!
I had a girlfriend whose ass I had enjoyed every conceivable way for years. She loved to be rimmed and to rim me. One day after being pleasured by her that way for a while, she asked if she could have me with a dildo. I took a deep breath and said, ok, if she would be patient. I thought she meant with something handheld, but she went to the closet and came back with a strap-on. I’d been her lover for 8 years, but I’d never seen that. I was shocked, but I went along. She fucked me in every position conceivable in every room of the house for about the next two hours. She had the moves of a dancer in the way that should could pump my ass with that strap-on while stroking my member. It was unlike anything I’d ever known before — or since. She was soooooooooooo into it that day. She said it made her feel like the most powerful woman in the world. However, she never asked for it again. Less than a year later we drifted apart. That was seven years ago. I still remember that day fondly, if yet with a red face. I’ve never had it with her or anyone since. Bill Murray said in “Groundhog Day,” “I was in the Virgin Islands once. I met a girl. We ate lobster, drank Piña Coladas. At sunset we made love like sea otters. That was a pretty good day. Why couldn’t I get that day over and over and over….” If I had to pick one single day to live over and over, it wouldn’t be that one, but if my wife came home with a strap-on tonight, I’d damn sure give it another go.
It is strange how taboo this is. And I’ve thought about it a few times (thought not fantasized about it). Sometimes I wonder if my gf secretly fantasizes about it but is embarrassed to ask me to do it. The thing is, until a year ago or so, I would have been too afraid to agree to it anyway. My ass is just one of the areas I’m most self-conscious about. But if she were to ask me to, now, I would let her do what she wanted. I’d still be afraid, but that would be part of the thrill. And you know, there’s no particular reason I can think of for this change…
Wow, good for her! Instead of getting mad or thinking it strange, she wants to please her husband. Amazingly cool. I’m happy for them.
I like to think i am very open minded but i am not sure that this is something i could bring myself to do. I know for sure that even if my boyfriend was into it he would never tell me but good for you some people just need a little extra kinky to get them through the night
Note to “Chels”:
If your boyfriend is shy, a popular way with women to introduce the idea, or test his response, is to either pre-lubricate a finger (or two…) or to begin a sex session by grasping the base of his penis with one hand as you give him a blow job, and wait for your flowing saliva to lube your fingers, and then just as you sense he’s about to come, pop that lubed finger into his anus, or at least push firmly against it while rubbing in a tiny circular motion. I understand chances are greater than not that he will come harder than you’ve ever noticed before. If he does, then you certainly have something new to discuss. If not, then he may be far too repressed to consent to further experimentation, or to tell you of his secret desires.