Here’s a bit from trans comedian Billie Lee’s routine on the difficult problem of when and how to tell someone new that she’s trans:

I know the audio track is low and a bit hard to hear, so here’s an assisting transcript:

I’d say the hardest thing is disclosure. Like, when is the best time to tell someone you’re trans? It’s a very personal thing. And I know you gotta do it before anything sexual, because if you don’t, then you sound like a mom trying to get her kids to try vegetables for the first time. “Just try it, sweetie, I’ll tell you what it is after.”

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