One thing I’ve always celebrated here at ErosBlog is sexual diversity. Despite my own fairly narrowly-monogamous hetero tastes and habits, I’m fascinated by the wide variety of sexy stuff horny people get up to that I would never have considered. But sexual diversity doesn’t have to mean kinks, fetishes, or any of the eighteen officially-registered flavors of gayness. It also encompasses people of highly specific (even if otherwise mundane) sexual tastes.
Consider the guy whose main joy in sexual life is fucking blondes from behind. Hard and often. Nothing else really does it for him. I mean, he can perform the full range of erotic behaviors that you’d find in the stereotypical sexually unadventurous American bedroom, but it’s all kind of flat for him. Except when he’s jamming his jim-jam up inside a bent-over blonde. Then, he comes sexually alive. His dick is twenty percent stiffer, his eyes are ten percent wider, and he comes forty percent more forcefully. Boffing a blonde on her knees? That’s what sex means to this guy.
It’s not a fetish, precisely. It’s just what our man likes. It could be anything. He’s probably got a co-worker who lives for the feeling of getting blown by a chonky brunette with enough ponytail for him to wrap around his fist. The girl who checks him into his health club? She has a thing for skinny little intellectuals with talented tongues. Everybody has sexual interests and preferences, and in some people, these are amazingly strong and specific.
So, our dude who likes to belly up to a kneeling blonde’s ass, what’s he supposed to do? There’s really two main strategies, and he may employ them both at different times in his life. The first and most obvious is to find and marry some compatible woman who enjoys being the object of his narrow affections. If he meets a lusty blonde with a pretty butt who doesn’t mind spending three nights a week with her face in the mattress, he’d be a wise man to put a ring on that. Maybe it works, or maybe she gets tired of his narrow sexual focus in a few years, but it’s worth a try. Marriage is risky that way, but for the people it works for, it can really work.
But a lot of guys aren’t ready for that. For them, the answer is lots of casual sex. Smacking a different blonde’s ass every week? It’s not an impossible dream, not in the era of online dating and hookup sites like RealCasualSex.com. It works because if your sexual interests are narrow, this won’t be instantly evident to a revolving parade of new sex partners. It’s possibly a lot easier than finding someone who wants to spend a lifetime in the same sexual position. Plus, a different blonde every week… how is that not fun?
It’s also the case that narrow sexual interests can broaden over a lifetime. I don’t think that happens smoothly and continuously; I speculate that it’s influenced by your specific sex partners. I’m not saying that plowing through fifty doggiestyle blondes would cure our hypothetical narrowly-focused horndog, but among their numbers, he might meet a golden-haired houri who leads him quite happily to sexual places he never expected to visit. In fact, I think it’s pretty likely.
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