January 23rd, 2015 -- by Bacchus
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January 22nd, 2015 -- by Bacchus
A Sexier Sex Ed Class
This probably isn’t effective pedagogy for a sex education class. But it looks like a fair amount of fun:
Pay attention: if you show a ruler in the first act, there should be a ruler spanking by the third act, right?
By now we can be sure that today’s volunteer guest lecturer has put in some time on the stripper pole. Also: it’s time for the spanking part of our demonstration!
Enough preliminaries. This is what you all came to see. Are you ready?
Photos are from the Fetish Network.
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January 21st, 2015 -- by Bacchus
Her Date With A Sasquatch
She wasn’t expecting wine and a candle in a Chianti bottle, but still this date went worse than she expected:
From the promotional material for the movie Bigfoot (1970).
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January 20th, 2015 -- by Bacchus
Sex Worker To Wife: Are You Fucking Him Enough?
A long time ago in the context of a discussion about porn, I advanced a theory about the historical antipathy between wives and sex workers. This theory seemed so uncontroversial to me that I didn’t think it needed expanding, explaining, or defending; rather, it was the rock-solid background against which I set my argument about porn. Here’s what I said in 2003:
Some women object to porn the way wives object to the idea of prostitutes, and for the same reason: it means they have to use actual sex, rather than their erstwhile monopoly over the possibility of access to sexual stimulus, in order to maintain and enjoy the sexual attention of their men. Women who want to have that attention without having the actual sex for which most men will cheerfully trade it are teases, in all the negative and none of the positive senses of the word.
Encoded in that paragraph is my proposition that nobody is entitled to demand the benefits of sexual exclusivity if they aren’t willing to satisfy the sexual desires of their partner. Since 2003 I’ve learned that this isn’t a gendered proposition, but I’ve also learned that the pathology of demanding an unsatisfying exclusivity is even more common than I had thought. Incompatible levels of sexual desire are common, and there are many non-monogamy (or monogamish) relationship models couples can use to cope with them. But it is both wicked and unjust for a partner to insist upon sexual exclusivity without also taking responsibility for actually having enough sex to make the relationship mutually satisfying. And this sort of wickedness and injustice? It’s dirt-common.
I was reminded of all of this by an essay in Vice by sex worker April Adams. She writes:
Dear wife,
I don’t know you, but I know that it’s possible that your husband will cheat on you with a sex worker. I say that because I am one, and I am not short on clients.
But not your husband, you say, not him! Other husbands, sure, but your relationship, your sex life, is different. You had a threesome with your college roommate ten years ago. You get a sitter and head to Vegas every August. You have that special thing with Law and Order marathons. You have a great marriage!
Let me ask you: When was the last time you had sex three times in a week? When was the last time he complained about that? Don’t you think that maybe it’s possible that he’s instead taken the problem out of your hands, which is to say into mine?
After a lengthy articulation of the reasons such a state of affairs might not actually be all that maritally-threatening, Adams concludes:
I’m not saying it’s your job to keep him happy. I am saying maybe you don’t want to sleep with him that often. You’re busy, or stressed out, or he doesn’t do it for you anymore. I get it; he almost certainly doesn’t do it for me.
That’s the point. I am the secret ingredient in a lot of healthy marriages, because when he’s seeing me, both of you are getting the amount of sex you want. As long as you leave his cellphone alone, you might make it to your 50th anniversary. You’re welcome.
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January 20th, 2015 -- by Bacchus
Watering The Wicked Witch
When I first saw this Wally Wood cartoon that sex-spoofs The Wizard Of Oz, I was reminded of Mistress Matisse’s advice from 2001 (and from 2004 and from 2005 and from whenever anybody will listen to it):
Don’t say, “I will do anything you want, Mistress!” Believe me, I can easily think of things you would not want to do.
It’s equally dangerous to say “I enjoy all sorts of perversions.” It could even be fatal, and not just in the funny books:
Panels are from Gangbang #3.
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January 18th, 2015 -- by Bacchus
WARNING: Link Sales Scammer
It has come to my attention that someone who is not me (and who is not using the bacchus@erosblog.com email address) is offering to sell links on ErosBlog.
Needless to say, if you send money to that person, you will have been scammed. Please don’t be scammed.
That is all!
January 16th, 2015 -- by Bacchus
Anticipating Her Gangbang
A good gangbang should be fun for all the participants. From the smile on her face, it looks as if Penny Barber expects this to be a good one:
From Hardcore Gangbang, of course.
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