Mistress Matisse’s latest column offers instruction on The Gentle Art of Girl Fisting:

I vividly recall the first time I ever had my whole hand inside a woman’s pussy. I was 19, and my girlfriend was a sexy butch woman with an appetite for deep penetration. One night — we were on the living room floor, I believe — I had all four fingers inside her and was fucking her as hard as I could, trying to match the tempo of her fast-pumping hips. In our thrashing tangle of limbs, my hand pivoted from the usual thumb-to-the-clit position to a diagonal approach. I instinctively pressed my thumb against my palm so my fingernail wouldn’t jab her. As I did, she thrust herself against me like a roller-derby queen butting aside a competitor, and to my surprise and momentary alarm, I felt my whole hand slide into her.

“Baby, are you okay?”

“Don’t fucking stop!”

So I didn’t.

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Bondage guides on the net are a dime a dozen, but most are boring compendia of rope technique plus safety info. (The worst of them read like the instructions for rewiring a breaker panel.) Via Bondage Blog comes this pair of links to our favorite Steph doing it better:

Bondage For Beginners, Part I

Bondage For Begginers, Part II

Thanks, Steph!

Once or twice in my life I went hunting for mountain sheep, but as typically happens, I never got within a dozen rifle shots of one of those tasty but elusive beasts. Perhaps it’s true after all that blondes have more fun:

From Usenet.

Over at Kiss and Blog, Wombat says more about his soon-to-be-renamed Ten Date Rule. It makes alot of sense to me:

Doesn’t it make sense to recognize that having sex changes things? Not only does your body react, but the way you think about the man changes too. Thanks to oxytocin, you will now want to be with him more than before. Unfortunately, the guy isn’t affected in the same way, and without an existing attachment may not be as interested in continuing the liaison. This causes heartbreak for women when their feelings intensify after first sex, and the guy does The Fadeout.

Allowing the man to get to know and like you beyond the temptation of intercourse will improve the odds of him sticking around. Women often fail to allow for the time it takes a bloke to do this. Whereas women know within thirty seconds if particular guy is for them, it can take us much – much – longer. Sure, we like the idea of having sex with you, but getting to the point of wanting a relationship after sticking it in can take a while. Weeks, or longer.

That’s the thing about the TDR; it’s got nothing to do with women. It is all about men. Knowledge of male behaviour means that women can allow for it. Whether you choose to or not is up to you.

Lots more over there. If your knickers are all twisted from the above, be sure to read the comments. Pagan Marbury of Thong Speed and Trouble in Shangri La from Dubious Wonder add alot to Wombat’s post. And their blogs look pretty good too!

Yes, ladies, you really can wash too much:

Coco was naked. Her dark skin glistened with sweat as she stretched out on the bed and pushed my head away from her crotch.

“Stop, please…” she laughed, weakly. She loves oral – she can come repeatedly, in waves upon waves of growing intensity, until she’s sitting in a puddle of her own juices. Which is why I put a towel under her arse before I tied her wrists to the headboard and dove down between her thighs.

I stayed there for a long time.

Coco is very clean. To the point of neurotic over-washing, trimming, shaving and deodorizing – but whatever. What would I gain by objecting? She smells nice. And I mean the underlying smell of her, the real breathing, sweating, self-lubricating woman that she is.

Whatever Coco thinks, she is delicious.

But fortunately, you can’t wash away the delicious.

Sorry folks, but the volume of machine-generated keyword spam in the comments grew beyond my ability to filter and my willingness to manually delete. This is temporary — the long awaited software upgrades are still in the works, and will enable better filtering — but it will probably be at least two weeks before comments are back. Please know that I value your contributions to the ErosBlog community and will restore commenting just as soon as I have the necessary tech in place.

Meanwhile, let us all meditate (with a beatific smile upon our faces) regarding the proper treatment of comment spammers:

Here’s an image that would make a good get-well-soon card: