November 19th, 2012 -- by Bacchus
Those Kinky Geeks
Quote of the day:
“When people tell me that geeks are “virgins” or “don’t have sex,” I usually boggle at them and wonder if they have actually ever met any geeks.”
Annalee Newitz in “Why Do Geeks Like Kinky Sex?” at io9.com.
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I’ll be the first to admit that I was among the “socially challenged” at my school when I was a young teen. The clique that pretty much ruled my school was the jock/cheerleader kids.
I had other interests at the time that I prioritized my attentions to, and therefore didn’t really excel at sports, certainly not TEAM sports.
To establish or confirm their popularity, cheerleaders had to date the jocks.
In my late teens, I did begin dating cheerleaders at other area schools, and after college, dated quite a number of former cheerleaders who were rather attractive and as schoolgirls had been considerably “popular”.
As a young teen, I certainly would have been a “geek”, or “nerd”, as was a more popular term at that time, in my town.
I have reason to believe that a lot of young ladies today have a jock friend for show or “arm candy”, and a “geekier” friend that they depend on for sexual stimulation, orgasms, or intellectual stimulation, whom they will often later end up with.
“Revenge of the Nerds” (1984), is not the only film to explore this sort of relationship, but perhaps it is among the most succinct.
Lewis Skolnick, the nerd protagonist, dressed in a Darth Vader costume, and pretending to be a nemesis popular kid, manages to trick the head cheerleader, Pi-Delta-Pi Betty Childs, into having sex with him. The following exchange pursues:
Betty: [in an unusually blissful state of satisfaction…] “Oh, Stan! You were wonderful! You did things to me you’ve never done before.”
[Lewis, taking off his mask for the first time during the encounter…] *grins*
Betty: [gasping] “Ahhg! You’re that NERD!”
Lewis: “Yeah…”
Betty: [blissfully] “Oh… you… were… wonderful!”
[still gasping in ecstasy]
Betty: [overwhelmed] “Are all nerds as good as you?”
Lewis: “…Yes…”
Betty: “How come?”
Lewis: ” ‘cuz all jocks ever think about is sports, all WE ever think about is SEX!”
I have commented on this blog-space previously regarding my observations of jocks and their sexual activities (see comment #2), here: http://www.eros...ores/
The 3rd and 4th paragraphs of comment #14, at: http://www.eros...-you/
Oh, and here, comment #4: http://www.eros...lide/
The attention of females comes easily for the school athlete. Popular guys take women for granted. “Geeks” have to work harder.
I for one spent YEARS reading about various sexual techniques, and later introduced more than one hot young lady to orgasms in ways they either didn’t know were at all possible, or in some cases, in ways that they had at least never experienced.
…and yes… as a geek, I too have actually both designed and built various unique sex toys and sex furniture, often to satisfy individual sex partners.
I ended up rather satisfactorily making up for my lack of sexual activity as a young teen.
If you want to read an example of what sex is like with geeks or nerds, there is a brief example of my early forays here at comment #12: http://www.eros...xcon/
Geeks are often the creative among us who change the world with movies such a “Star Wars”, “E.T.”, “The Abyss”, “Avatar”, etc., or computers as did Bill Gates, Steve Wozniak and Steve Jobs. I don’t think any of these guys are still virgins…
Ask my ex-girlfriends, who still keep in touch with me, if “geeks” have sex…