More On Female Ejaculation
As long time readers will remember, whenever the subject of female ejaculation comes up, we hear from people wedded to their belief that female ejaculation is a myth and that female ejaculate is “just pee”. As I said last time, “Erosblog is NOT going to be a forum for spreading sexual ignorance and doubt on this topic.”
For any lingering doubters among my readership, however, I submit a couple of posts from Giardino del Piacere: Wet Emails and More Wet Emails. Lots of intimate details from women who have no reason to dissemble:
First, I’d love everyone to know, normal women like Eva and me ejaculate. I can’t speak for Eva, but I’m no porn star. I’m a woman rapidly approaching menopause. I have history, boobs that sag some, squishy thighs and a drooping bottom. Nope, not porn star material at all, but I can sure squirt like one.
Second, I believe and as she indicated in her messages, Eva believes, that any woman can learn to ejaculate. It takes only a willingness to let go when the urge to ‘let go’ hits. If you’ve ever experienced a screaming urge to pee while having great sex or bringing yourself pleasure, you are probably a squirter waiting to be born. You’re never too old or young to learn. Eva has a long history of ejaculating, mine is something I’ve discovered within the past year.
Third, squirting not a bad or dirty thing. It is not urine. No, I’m not a physiologist or a physician. I’m the owner of the coochie that drenches the bed. At my age, I truly know the difference between urinating and the sensations I have when I ejaculate. Often I have to visit the bathroom shortly after sex. Logic tells me if I were urinating and not squirting I would have relieved myself.
Shorter URL for sharing: https://www.erosblog.com/?p=1780
I find it absolutely fascinating that anyone could think this doesn’t really happen. As a relatively active adult male, I can vouch that I have made more than one woman ejaculate in this way — the latest (and last) one being my wife. If you are a person who says “it’s pee” you have never made a woman ejaculate – simple as that. I find it kind of sad that a vast majority of women I’ve read or read about on the Internet who talk about their own ejaculation experience(s) find it necessary to declare that “it’s not pee and its true because… etc.” It’s plainly obvious that it is NOT “pee” so I have to say if, as a male, you can’t tell the difference when/if it happens then you certainly a) caused it by sheer accident and b) probably have a LOT to learn.
I agree absolutely with the observation that ejaculation takes place. As a man I am on the receiving end and its great. Why argue. This is really natural. And absolutely great for those , enlightened souls who are, not shagging each other, but having a really meaningful experience. Just look at the eyes of the person below you.That glow you can’t fake.
Even if the female mind is, is the “male” mind ready? We, society, are still struggling with the concepts of what is and what is not male and female sexuality. With who is and who is not covered “equally” under the law “With Liberty And Justice For All”. The basic kinds of every day life things. Perhaps soon, and God I hope it is soon, society will have the time and patience to grapple female ejaculation because it is an important subject in all of our lives.
PEACE EVERYONE
billys1
It’s amazing that even in this day and age, such
things as female ejaculation and the G-spot are
still very controversial. You’d think some
enterprising researchers would have settled these
things once and for all by now. Is the female
body really that mysterious?
My wife insists that I place another vote for:
“Hell yeah! It’s true and it ain’t pee.”
But, I have no idea if everyone is capable of it.
Some seem to feel it’s some kind of new bar of sexual achievement – “if she’s not ejaculating then, hehe, something’s not right. Need to work on it buddy”. Every new trick becomes another form of personal dissatisfaction in the bedroom.
Maybe female ejaculation is just one of those little things that makes persons A’s physiology distinct from person-B?
For example: I bet someone out there knows a girl with three boobs… and yet I don’t feel compelled to ask my wife to sprout a new one just for me.
Er, why are we “placing votes”?
My whole point is that this is no longer an issue of contention among sexually aware persons.
I think it’s something all women have the capability or doing — perhaps how much might vary — but most supress it out of simple lack of knowledge. When I was very little and had never had an orgasm — I would get really close and then stop because it “hurt” or I didn’t understand what I was feeling. I feel that female ejaculation is the same way — it something we aren’t sure about — a feeling we have and misinterprit and therefore supress and don’t allow to happen. It takes a great deal of relaxation to do if you are used to holding back the urge. My suggestion is for women to play around in the shower and really allow yourself to relax — that way if you’re THAT scared that you might accidently pee, you’re covered. That’s how I learned. And man, I gotta say — if you havn’t figured it out yet — really, you totally should. It’s a whole new sexual feelings — not as huge as an orgasm — but still feels quite nice — kind like a mini orgasm or something.
Oh, BTW — I figured it out a while ago — and now I’ve gotten to the point where I can “gush” (I say gush because I don’t usually squirt like a porn star) a few times on my way to building up a great orgasm. Or sometimes I can gush and never have an orgasm. It’s totally separate for me — which I see as a good thing — more ways to feel great!
I love everyone’s comments. As a male I can say that the first time I saw a woman squirt, it caught me off guard, and yet I was strangely fascinated. Since then I have been lucky enough to experience a couple more times.
I think the problem that general society has with this, is that we call it ejaculating. I think that it needs another name, something along the lines of squirting, but a little more user friendly. I bet that if we could come up with a better more female orientated term this would become a more open, more respected topic.
Anyone with me??
I happen to be a lucky guy that has a girlfriend that can squirt. Sometimes it is more of just a constant gush that won’t stop and sometimes it is a stream. For those guys that don’t have someone that can squirt; I feel sorry for you. The feeling of having your dick deep inside her and she squirts right onto the base of your dick and all over your balls is incredible.
I don’t like the term “squirt,” because, like KB, it’s more of a gush for me. And I definitely feel it come from my vagina, not my urethra. That’s the easiest way to know it’s not pee (besides being thicker than pee and not yellow).
My ex-wife was a female ejaculator almost from the first times we had sex. The first time it happened I didn’t know what it was but I knew it wasn’t urine. It wasn’t until years later that I learned what it was but it never stopped us from having fun. One thing that did happen though is that at some point she told one of her friends about it. She never ejaculated again after that. She never told me what the friend said.
My ex GF was an *accomplished* squirter. I too knew nothing of this phenomenon until the first time we were together. She apparantly thought it was common, so didn’t warn me! I was orally stimulating her, something her past lovers had not done for a while (she said later it had been over 5 years), and I ended up with a snoot full! Could not have been better aimed if she tried – right up my left nostril. That was an eye-opener! We ended up living together for the next four years and used crib liners and towels to help protect the sheets. But since she was also incredibly multiply orgasmic (generally cumming at least a dozen times per encounter), we usually ended up with a considerable wet spot in spite of our best efforts. My fondest memory of sex with her is the feeling of those hot fluids running down my balls and ass when she was on top. Mmmm-mmmm!
It is truly possible, and sometimes completely unexpected. My fiance had it happen one night during a very passionate session and was shocked… yet amazed… so was I, we’ve been trying to replicate it since…
it happened to me a couple times with my ex, but only when we were having sex on the bathroom counter. we tried to do it later and it never happened, but it shocked us both when it first happened, he even ran his finger through it and smelled it thinking it was pee!!!
The most arousing sound I can hear is that of my man clipping his fingernails. I know that I’m going to be gushing soon.
Im a 33 year old male and i cant beleive how many people dont beleive a woman cant ejaculate. My girlfriend has peed right before we have sex and she gushes like a waterfall. Theres no way she could pee that much right after peeing. Its nothing to be ashamed of!
For quite sometime my boyfriend was infatuated with the idea a lady can squirt “like one of the boys.” For the most part I laughed it off and let him experiment as he liked (not that I minded, oh no!).
Imagine my surprise then when I encountered my first squirting orgasm! I’m a believer now, and an enthusiastic one at that; I think every woman can ejaculate, the only requirement being not a genetic disposition but some curiosity and a partner eager to experiment.
I’m pleased to say my boyfriend has mastered my mysterious orgasmic powers with his hands (I’m such a lucky girl), though I’ve never experienced one during sex. Are there any veterans with tips for a squirting orgasm during sex, such as key positions?
If not, I’m sure will figure it out someday :’)
-M
To answer commenter “M”:
For me, it has happened while massaging my partner’s G-spot. One partner was usually in the missionary position, the other in the “doggie”… Subjectively speaking, it’s about a one out of ten percentage of females…