August 10th, 2007 -- by Bacchus
Dan Savage, Violet Blue, And A Strap-On
Let me just repeat that title for a minute while you take a mental vacation and savor the images it evokes: “Dan Savage, Violet Blue, and A Strap-On.”
OK, break’s over. Sadly, what I’ve got for you is not quote that entertaining. But it’s pretty close: Dan’s latest column, entitled Peg, Pegging, Pegged and featuring Dan and Violet offering pegging advice.
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Hey there. As a longtime admirer of strapons, pegging, Dan Savage and erosblog, here I am making my first comment in your blog and I have to say thanks for bringing this up. I actually posted about this same latest Savage Love article on my blog as well. Of course wasn’t it Dan that coined the term “pegging”? Interesting insight from Violet. What I found interesting is that me, as a woman, I get a bit ‘uptight’ so to speak when it comes to the back door but a lot of the guys I’ve had sex with have had no problem with fingers, dildos, etc in the ass. Sometimes I do wonder… Is it the almighty prostate? Or is everyone bisexual at heart? I subscribe to the latter in general. Thanks for posting this.
Note to Bunny…
re: “Is it the almighty prostate? Or is everyone bisexual at heart?”
Why should it necessarily be either?
The number of people (of either sex), who are able to achieve an orgasm via one of the two sexes, and not the other (under the right circumstances), is probably at about zero percent. By certain scholarly individuals’ reckoning, that makes us all bisexual. Whether or not we desire to choose to experiment with the same (or both), sexes, is another matter altogether.
I can’t see that the desire to experience pegging necessarily has to be due to bisexuality or the “almighty prostate” either one. After all, millions (probably billions) of women do (or could), experience great pleasure (or even orgasm), through anal penetration, why should males be any different?
Besides all of the other nerves (other than the prostate that is…), which surround the anal area and respond to stimulation, certainly men might even enjoy the mere psychological aspects of sexual activity with a sexually aggressive woman (such as a dominatrix), without having either to involve the prostate, or to secretly desire sex with another male.
A fetish for erotic humiliation may in some cases be an attraction.
An empathic curiosity surrounding what it’s like to experience sex as a woman, might be another reason, and surely that doesn’t have to necessarily denote a desire to be in a relationship with another male.
Just because some (an not ALL, by-the-way), male homosexuals practice anal intercourse, that doesn’t mean that anal sex should be a homosexually identified behavior any more than because a man enjoys receiving oral sex (a practice also enjoyed by male homosexuals), that his heterosexuality should be suspect. Same thing with hand-jobs. Homosexual men often enjoy this practice (which involves orgasms without the inclusion of vaginas), but surely this doesn’t mean that all men who enjoy the handiwork of their wives or girlfriends (or who masturbate themselves!), are gay or bisexual.
Many lesbians enjoy strap-on sex, with either faithfully replicated penis-shaped dildoes, or merely phallus-like abstractions. Just because nature has designed their vaginas to respond well to the physical stimulation provided by phallic-shaped objects, doesn’t mean that they want sex with a man either.