The Virtues Of Robot Sex
After the post Faustus made yesterday, it is perhaps not surprising that a bit of marketing for a “robotic blowjob machine” caught my eye this morning.
The actual product, when I saw pictures of it, was the inevitable disappointment you would expect, which is why I’m not linking to it. (Well, that, plus a reluctance to recommend untrusted vendors of products that combine electric motors with holes for insertion of tender, fragile, and oh-so-precious penile tissues.) For a hundred bucks plus shipping, you get a “robotic” pocket pussy, which is to say, you would get a pocket pussy that’s been enclosed in a harder plastic cylinder that contains “beads, attached to a small motor” that “grab your cock and suck it”.
Brrrrr.
I shouldn’t scoff, I suppose. We do live in a world with toilets that know your anus position and can offer you a touchless wash-and-dry. But I’m skeptical, nonetheless.
Pocket pussies themselves (or “male masturbation sleeves” if you want to be formal) offer no serious competition to flesh-and-blood pussies (with non-optional — and yes, that’s a feature — real women attached.) But the pocket variety do come in a wide array of models at a wide array of prices. I suppose adding some motorized jerking beads to the expensive ones could quickly get you to that magic hundred-dollar price point. But, to be honest, the pictures on offer from the robotic blowjob machine vendor looked like they were starting with the cheap one, then MacGyvering it up with some leftover Jack Rabbit innards.
So, why have I gone to all this length to give you my impressions of a device that I wouldn’t touch with {pauses, points to random male in the audience} your dick?
Because I’m fascinated and impressed by the sociology of the marketing prose. It turns out that overpriced sex toys are dirt cheap compared to real women:
“If you go to a prostitute, a blowjob can run you between $50-$150, just for a single shot! If you have a girlfriend, the customary pre-blowjob activities (dinner, drinks, movie) can easily run you $100, just for the single shot! And if you have a wife…you have to be married and the costs involved in that are enormous.”
But wait, there’s more! We’re not talking mere economic savings, here. Apparently your robotic blowjob machine delivers an actual superior experience, by virtue of the fact that it doesn’t complain when you ejaculate into it:
“When you are ready to blast, just do it. It can’t complain! No fancy dinners, no carrying its purse, no PMS.”
To be fair, as I suppose I ought to be, what this prose reveals to us are the views about women that the “robot” manufacturer ascribes to its prospective customers for the device. That might be a fairly narrow subset of men, as viewed through some rather milky glass. (High technologists of plastic are not necessarily decent sociologists, or even competent marketers.) Nonetheless, I’m struck by the divergence between the men this advertising is aimed at and the men I think would be the natural market for the product.
Men who think real blowjobs are too expensive (and too fraught with potential feminine complaint) may be out there. But really, I’d expect there are more men — or, at least, more men willing to invest $100 bucks in a sex gadget — whose only objection to real blowjobs is that they aren’t currently managing to get ’em. Is sour grapes marketing (“Better than a real blowjob, because real blowjobs come from demanding women with opinions”) really the most effective approach here?
Fascinating to see that somebody thinks it might be.
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I’m reminded of a cartoon I saw when I was young enough to blush about such things:
A salesman and gentleman customer stand facing each other across a glass case displaying assorted sizes of disembodied, hairy pudenda. Between them, on a sheet of tissue paper, is the customer’s selected item and he is saying to the clerk “…No thank you, I’ll eat it here”.
Somehow I think that a marketing approach along the lines “the best blowjob you are likely to get is from a piece of plastic, you pathetic loser” might not cut it. Perhaps the marketers are fully aware of their demographic but are providing a face-saving alternative motivation.
Actually, there probably is a market segment that would respond positively to being addressed as “pathetic loser” :-)
So we’re being asked to pro-rate the cost of a relationship on a per-orgasm basis? Interesting but limited cost-benefit analysis; I’m pretty sure this thing wouldn’t go halvsies with me on the rent.
By the way, those robo-toilets are great! Once you get used to getting washed clean each time you use the can, you start resenting hotels that make you clean your ass the old-fashioned paper way.
I have somewhat mixed feelings about this. My gut says, “yuck” but then it says, “why should women get all the fun sex toys?”
We’ve gotten to the point where most progressive folks see sex toys as a fairly (if not completely) normal addition to most women’s sex lives. They’re fun, offer sensations the real thing doesn’t, and encourage exploration.
So where does that leave us guys? And on a somewhat related note, how would we feel if the thing really did give the best head we’ve ever had?
What really stood out for me was the sexism and heterosexism of the marketing. Not only are they marketing only to straight guys – because, you know, what, gay guys are icky? They don’t like blowjobs? – but they’re doing it by casting women as this big pain in the ass and even after all of that stupid woman stuff you put up with, you don’t even always get a blowjob! Ugh! It’s as if women only exist to give blowjobs and other sexual pleasure to men, but they make you spend all this money and do all of this other stuff, and just blah blah blah.
As for men who think that women are too much maintenance for a blowjob existing, oh, yes they do. But why can’t this ad just focus on what I agree with you would be the better market, the guy who for whatever reason isn’t getting blowjobs right now? Why can’t we say “Hey, this would feel REALLY GOOD, buy our product”, like is done with a lot (but not all) products aimed at women? Why can’t they focus strictly on the positive of it, instead of denigrating women to make their point?
The downside to robot sex…
http://xkcd.com.../595/
;-)
It seems to me that there’s a real market for something along these lines–for those with disabilities (or injuries for that matter) that make operating a normal pocket pussy a problem.
Some folks were wondering if my quotes were real/provable, so I decided to update here in 2017 with links to the Internet Archive version of the 2009 pages in question.
“When you are ready to blast — just do it. It can’t complain! No fancy dinners, no carrying its purse, no PMS.”
http://web.arch...m:80/
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“Compared with the alternatives, the Autoblow provides an inexpensive blowjob. The Autoblow is a one time purchase, and won’t wear out until it has provided you with hundreds, if not thousands of blowjobs. If you go to a prostitute, a blowjob can run you between $50-$150, just for a single shot! If you have a girlfriend, the customary pre-blowjob activities (dinner, drinks, movie) can easily run you $100, just for the single shot! And if you have a wife…you have to be married and the costs involved in that are enormous. So… amortized over time, the Autoblow is CHEAP!”
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That last one also includes a lovely reference to women as carriers of disease: “Instead of putting your penis into a women who could be, for all you know, a carrier of a disease, put it in the Autoblow and relax, knowing you are safe from the dangers of STDs.”
Wow, amazing how they think only men will see the ads too. It’s a shame that this kind of advertising is thought to be effective.