August 8th, 2025 -- by Bacchus
Dating: It’s Not That Complicated
Sometimes we do tend to overcomplicate things…
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“Oh, no, all this gender stuff has made dating so confusing.”
I don’t know what’s confusing about it. If it’s concave, you stick your tongue in it. If it’s convex, you suck it. It’s pretty simple!
The TikTok tag cloud on this was “#trans #transmasc #nonbinary #lgbt #t4t #transdating #queerdating” but honestly I feel as if this dating advice has applicability that’s a whole lot more general than that.
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While my hardware is in its 60s, my software and firmware have been upgrade and/or just written over many times. Pre-pandemic my Aunt asked me “how do you feel about all this trans and gender stuff?”
My answer, and the one I always give since is: “If I’m not getting in their pants, then I don’t care what is in them. And if I *am* getting in their pants, then I don’t care what is in them”.
I adore the comment above, it’s all so simple. K.I.S.S.
Fuzzy, I think you’re even a tiny bit more progressive than me. If I am getting in their pants, I probably do care what I’ll find, but if I’ve decided I want in there, I’ve also decided I want a taste of whatever I find. So no worries, mate. Distinction without a difference? Maybe.
My grumpy born-before-WWII Nixon-Republican father who may or may not have ever heard of trans people/issues (he surely never mentioned it to me if he did) complained bitterly to me at first when “gay comedy” started taking over his beloved broadcast TV sitcom timeslots. He was mostly talking about shows like Will & Grace and Friends and more adventurous shows that followed them, but he kept watching. And despite having the usual amount of casual homophobia in his blue-collar working-man attitudes, the only serious thing he ever said to me about gay people and gay identity was something like “I don’t think gay people are all that different from the rest of us; at the end of the day, we’re all just looking for somebody to love, and when we find that person, it doesn’t really matter who they are.” Which, you know, yeah, Dad, right on.