September 15th, 2025 -- by Bacchus
A Kinder And Gentler Gangbang
This clip features comedian Nikki Glaser talking to Joe Rogan about how she’d like to see a porn gangbang with the same respectful and pampering stylings that (as she describes them) sound a lot like the reverse-harem fuckings that the well-beloved heroines of smutty romance novels expect to enjoy these days:
I don’t know if Nikki has this vocabulary, but I think she may have a praise kink.
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A friend needs to introduce Ms. Glaser to eg. Petter Hegre or Pink and White (I don’t actually know if Hegre has shot a gangbang, but he has lots of shoots where a fit muscular guy pleasures a woman with hands, toys, and bits for an hour or so; he tends to discourage the performers from talking).
Vagans I don’t know for sure if they have this content but the first place I myself would look for it is the famous Sssh.com “porn for women” site. They pioneered a bunch of other porn innovations that mirror the tropes women seem to seek out in written erotica, so it wouldn’t surprise me at all if they have the kind of gangbang porn Ms. Glaser describes.
Bacchus, I will check them out! “Porn for women” and feminist porn seem like places where she might find the things she likes. Big porn sites have a lot of things aimed at men who are uncomfortable with women and pleasure, like the old spank books, but they are not the whole universe.
There is probably a hashtag on the clips4sale type of site which will bring up gang bangs where the bangers are gentle and praise the bangee (mixed in with trash). A lot of sex workers are autistic and autists love classifying things, especially if it helps them find customers. Just look at Archive of Our Own!
The decorum and protocols of real gangbangs are not the same as of pornified filmshoots. At a real gangbang every swinging dick knows that the woman at center can call off the event if one bounder steps out of line. On a filmset the actress is appealing to what she thinks that the viewers want to see and are willing to pay for
Potomacker, that’s certainly good to hear! But of course in the instant context, it’s the “pornified” gangbangs we’re talking about, and the peculiar truth that making them for the male gaze seems to include a lot of rough and even degrading treatment for the star at the center of the scene. Maybe the market knows best — that’s certainly the central assumption of capitalism — or maybe there’s an unserved market for pornified gangbangs in which the woman in the middle is praised and pampered and primped and treated like a goddess while she’s railed seventeen ways from Sunday and reassured throughout that she is absolutely the strongest and smartest and prettiest and bestest girl ever who absolutely has at least one more orgasm in her, yes, that’s it, there it is, they knew she could do it.
I was privileged to be invited to an orgy back when I was fresh out of college, but it turned out to be more of a gangbang – two women who were wives of two of the men, and about ten other men, including me. And yes, it was as Potomacker said, they could call a halt at any time, and everyone would have respected that, and there was none of the rough handling what one sees in porn – at all!
That said, I would dearly love to see a film as described in the latter half of comment #6 by Bacchus, above.
Gangbangs are relatively expensive and logistically difficult to shoot, so they may be less common in the indy porn world. I think Jiz Lee’s birthday shoot was more of an orgy since Jiz is nonbinary. Pink and White has a “group sex” tag as well as a “gangbang” tag but they are very queer.
Petter Hegre definitely has a male gaze but he finds it worth his time to film an hour of a fit woman being gently but firmly tied into a leather armchair and pleasured in different ways by someone cute.
It seems that ideally porn would lead people into either face-to-face communities, or at least educational spaces like books and Fetlife that cover the parts of making dangerous activities fun which are hard to fit into a 15-minute video, but that does not always happen.