It’s hard to say anything sweeping about dating behavior these days (or any days) because so much depends on where you are and who you are and what era you’re talking about. It’s all very cultural, and it changes so fast that if you aren’t of prime dating age, you may have completely lost sight of what “the kids these days” are doing on their first dates.
I know I don’t have any idea. I haven’t dated in decades. And I’m fine with that; the woman I’ve got is as much as I can handle. But as a student of the human sexual condition, I still formulate opinions. And one of them is that while it can frequently take several dates to develop the rapport and trust that gets you to full-on two-naked-people-in-a-bed sorts of sex, it’s rather more common for blowjobs to happen somewhat earlier in the process.
This may not be true for the classic “meal out with the nice girl you met at the dog park” date. But if a week of trawling Snapsext has hooked you up with a like-minded horny free spirit, and you’ve developed some chemistry online before you ever get together in person, it just might be that if the date goes well, somebody will be getting their cock sucked before bedtime.
Fellatio on the first date has several characteristics that reduce the friction of the entire stranger-sex proposition. For one thing, nobody has to get naked. I mean, you can — and doing so may help keep your dry cleaning bill somewhat reasonable — but it’s not essential.
And then there’s the convenience factor. Getting naked in a bed takes, you know, a bed and some privacy. Not any bed will do; beds have the inconvenience of being in houses, and far too often, other people live there, the snoopy fucks. Sometimes that’s a lot to deal with.
Blowjobs, on the other hand, are convenient. I mean, public sex may not be your thrill, but it’s not hard to find a place in public where nobody can see two people, one of whom is on their knees. If the weather is inclement, a reasonably roomy car can also serve fairly well. Just make sure no bobbing heads show above the windows, and a polite gentleman will keep his eyes open to give ample warning if anybody walks too close to the vehicle.
Many men will tell you there’s little they enjoy sexually as much as a good blowjob. Even so, the best thing about a blowjob on the first date may not be the pleasure. If you get your knob polished the first time you hook up with sexy stranger, it’s a pretty good sign that you’re on track to be going on a second date!
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