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February 5th, 2017 -- by Bacchus

False Belief In Porn Addiction: Harmful

porn-addiction-banner

Sex-aware people already know that (a) “porn addiction” is not actually a thing; and (b) worrying about it has been proven to be harmful in a way that actually viewing porn (however much) is just not. This article in Psychology Today dates from 2015, so it genuinely isn’t news. But lately the volume of “porn addiction” hand-wringing seems to be going up in our popular culture, so I thought it was worth liking the article to remind everyone:

Your Belief in Porn Addiction Makes Things Worse

In a nutshell:

In January 2015, Joshua Grubbs of Case Western published powerful research showing that seeing oneself as a porn addict was predicted not by how much porn one views, but by the degree of religiosity and moral attitudes towards sex. Now, Grubbs has published explosive follow-up research, demonstrating that believing oneself is addicted to porn actually causes pain and psychological problems, in contrast to the idea that identifying as a porn addict is a part of a road to recovery.

In these data, daily porn use was weakly related to feelings of anger. But, seeing oneself as a porn addict was strongly correlated with depression, anxiety, anger and stress.

Analyses confirmed that the self-perception as a porn addict predicted distress one year later, where either porn use or personality characteristics did not. If someone believed they were a sex addict, this belief predicted downstream psychological suffering, no matter how much, or how little, porn they were actually using.

This means that the large-scale promotion of the concept of “porn addiction,” in the media, on the Internet, by self-proclaimed experts and by an industry that preys off of an unrecognized disorder, appear to actually be hurting people. By telling people that their use of porn constitutes a disease, they are promulgating suffering and anxiety, instilling into people that their use of pornography means there is something wrong with them, and that this use has potentially dire consequences.

Bottom line: don’t be tolerant of “porn addiction” talk. It hurts people. Challenge it and debunk it whenever and wherever you hear it.

Image at the top of the post is part of an illustration in The History Of Fortunatus, 1682.

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February 3rd, 2017 -- by Bacchus

Be My Juicy Valentine

why not juice me for your valentine?

Well, now. It’s not every day that a fellow gets an offer like that!

A long time ago there was a nubby glass dildo with an offset knob on the base so you could rotate it easily while inserted. It was called “The Juicer” and I’m here to tell you, it really works, especially if you get that ridged head up against her G-spot just right. For some reason though, retailers are now calling it The Rotator:

juicer-style glass dildo

The vintage Valentine card comes from this gallery at Dangerous Minds.

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February 2nd, 2017 -- by Bacchus

A Goodwife’s Gluttony

Here’s yet another sample from the infamous bawdy poems of Robert Burns as collected in The Merry Muses Of Caledonia:

Oor Gudewife’s Sae Modest

Oor gudewife’s sae modest,
When she is set at meat,
A laverock’s leg, or a tittlin’s wing,
Is mair than she can eat;

But, when she’s in her bed at e’en,
Between me an the wa’;
She is a glutton deevil,
She swallaes cocks an a’.

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February 1st, 2017 -- by Bacchus

Tormenting The Guards

The guards are supposed to be imperturbable, but I think this one is, at the least, a mite distracted:

distract the guards

No good source on this, but I strongly suspect it comes from a 1960s British men’s magazine.

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January 31st, 2017 -- by Bacchus

Digitally-Assisted Orgasm

As all clued-up sexers already know, sometimes — often! — a bit fingertip action helps the party along:

a finger for her clitoris

Art is by Ferocius.

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January 30th, 2017 -- by Bacchus

The Muslim Liberty

close-door

This being the Monday after the weekend that was and before the shitstorm of a week that’s coming, it seems a good time to mention a new-to-me true fact. Did you know that the original inspiration and concept for our Statue Of Liberty on Ellis Island (true name: Liberty Enlightening The World) was originally designed to represent a colossal Muslim peasant woman standing beside the Suez Canal in Egypt?

Yup, it’s true. But Isma’il Pasha, the Khedive of Egypt, decided to go with a cheaper lighthouse instead. His loss!

Hat tip to Whores Of Yore, whose sources are always impeccable. (Not that the usual “Snopes is a lying leftist” / “reality has a despicable liberal bias” / “Smithsonian obeys to a leftist agenda” crew haven’t blithered into her Twitter feed anyway…)

Image at the top of the post is from an 1892 anti-immigration political cartoon in The Judge.

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January 29th, 2017 -- by Bacchus

Sexy Medical Massage

If she’s wearing a nurse’s hat, that means this is a totally upright medical procedure no matter how sexy the rest of her outfit is, right?

sexy massage nurse

Art is a detail from this pulp cover. The headline “La Clinica Antichecca” tells me not one damn thing, since none of my machine-translation resources seem to know what antichecca means.

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