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March 3rd, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Fanning Her Fanny

The speculation at Spanking Blog is that our overheated heroine recently got (what else?) a hard spanking. But me? I think she’s merely been reading too much erotic fanfic:

girl poses with her bottom in the air so she can blow cool air on her overheated pussy

Cuteness, either way.

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March 2nd, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Meet Dominant Women Near You

For reasons that have never been convincingly pinned down to my satisfaction, there’s a substantial imbalance in the gender distribution of dominance and submission among kinky people. As a boy, I imagined that no women would be game for some of the male-dominant, female-submissive fantasies I had. I was so wrong. Subsequently my experiences have convinced me there are actually slightly more submissive-interested women out there than there are dominant men for them, although the imbalance isn’t overwhelming. But the other way around? Dominant women willing to dominate submissive men? There aren’t near as many of those as there are submissive-interested men, which is why the dominatrix trade thrives in every city, and in many a large town too.

I’ve never seen a convincing exposition of why such a strong disparity exists, although it’s not hard to find gender-essentialist claptrap essays full of “men are naturally this” and “women are naturally that” and “nobody is willing to buck the current of evolution unless you pay them” twaddle. But that the disparity does exist, I have no doubt. And it creates demand of the sort this page of resources for finding a mistress or dominatrix is designed to help satisfy:

find a dominant mistress

For your interest, the striking (ha!) woman in red at the top of the page is Susan Wayland, and the photo was taken by Milosh Obilic. Wayland’s official gallery features her in several other stunning fetishwear outfits.

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March 2nd, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Don’t Date The Clients: The Whys

It’s no secret that many sex workers prefer to draw a line between their personal and professional lives, with “don’t date the clients” being a very common (if nonetheless sometimes disregarded) self-precaution. But why, exactly? Well, as Maggie McNeill explains, the answer includes all of the reasons you would expect, plus one or two that I would not have thought of, including:

Guys who imagine that sex workers’ sex drives are higher than those of amateur women, or that they’re always more open-minded about preferences and kinks that they’re not being paid to indulge.

That would be an easy (if unreflective) mistake to make, and as Maggie says, such a situation could “be hard for either party to tell apart from real affection.”

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March 1st, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Sucking Rain DeGrey’s Dick At TopGrl.com

The first time you heard a woman say “suck my dick” you probably assumed it was a figure of speech. Which it probably was. But if you ever hear Rain DeGrey say it, don’t be so quick to assume:

Mrs Wellington enslaved and forced to suck Rain's cock

Mrs Wellington is forced to suck a dildo

rain degrey forces Mrs wellington to suck her strap-on dick

mrs welling deep-throating rain degrey dick

Photos are from the most recent update at TopGrl.com.

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February 28th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

The Blowjob Correspondence

An unexpected distraction is seriously threatening his ambition to reach Inbox Zero before lunchtime:

blowjob-correspondence

Artwork by Bill Ward.

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February 27th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Google/Blogger’s “Existing Policy Prohibiting Commercial Porn”

Now that Google is spinning down the porn raid sirens and walking their shit back from last week’s announced intention to forbid “sexually explicit or graphic nude images or video”, it’s worth paying some careful attention the language used today by Jessica Pelegio, the social product support manager at Google. From her title, this sounds like the woman who is the boss of the people who will be enforcing the policy, so her understanding of the policy is likely to be supremely relevant. And in her announcement, she writes:

“We’ve decided to step up enforcement around our existing policy prohibiting commercial porn.

The emphasis is mine. “Our existing policy prohibiting commercial porn.” What, what? Does Blogger even have an “existing policy prohibiting commercial porn”? Quick, let’s go look, and snap a screenshot before it changes:

blogger adult policy on commercial porn 5:30ish AM 02-27-2015

The key sentences for our purposes are:

Do not use Blogger as a way to make money on adult content. For example, don’t create blogs that contain ads for or links to commercial porn sites.

Strictly speaking, this is not a “policy prohibiting commercial porn.” One of the biggest categories of adult blogs on Blogger/Blogspot used to be a (what we would now consider to be Tumblr-style) constant flow of commercial porn, posted without links and purely for the amusement of the poster. You could squint and interpret the URL watermarks on commercial porn photos as “ads for…commercial porn sites”, but Google never did this (that we know of). The existing/current policy simply doesn’t prohibit commercial porn, though it might be said to prohibit porn posted with commercial intent. Does Jessica Pelegio think about the policy with that much nuance? Her phrasing today suggests: not so much.

But while we are parsing words, let’s fire up the Wayback Machine and have a look at how this “existing policy prohibiting commercial porn” has been phrased and characterized by Google since June of 2013 when Google dreamed it up.

Stepping back through time, we discover that between October 23, 2014 and November 6, 2014, they added one clarifying word: “ads or links to commercial porn sites” became “ads for or links to commercial porn sites.” Ads (in general) became ads (for commercial porn sites) so this narrowed the scope of Google’s prohibiting examples. Trivial, but cool. (At the same time as this wording change, Blogger added the current stern language prohibiting attempts to circumvent the interstitial adult warning.)

That takes us back (without any other changes I can discover) to the infamous June 30, 2013, when the current policy was implemented. (Here it is in the Wayback Machine on July 5th, 2013, so you an see for yourself.) Here’s the big announcement from then:

blogger-adult-policy-06-30-2013

What Pelegio now calls a “policy prohibiting commercial porn” was then described as a new policy prohibiting blogs “which are … displaying advertisements to adult websites” or “currently has advertisements which are adult in nature.” That seems quite a bit narrower than the “policy prohibiting commercial porn” Pelegio now considers it to be.

For completeness, let’s compare the language before June 30, 2013 to the current policy. “Do not use Blogger as a way to make money on adult content” has not changed; that was been the policy since the earliest appearance of the policy page in the Wayback Machine on January 7, 2012. But before June 30, the prohibited example was “For example, don’t create blogs where a significant percentage of the content is ads or links to commercial porn sites.” The big policy change in June 2013 was going zero-tolerance on the ads and links to commercial porn sites — no more insignificant percentages allowed.

So, just to be clear: up until today, Google has always allowed commercial porn on Blogger/Blogspot, as long as that porn was not posted “as a way to make money on adult content.” Noncommercial use of commercial porn was fine, and before June of 2013, so too were de minimis links to commercial porn sites.

If the social product support manager is planning to “step up enforcement around our existing policy prohibiting commercial porn” when there currently is no such policy, for safety you should assume that either the policy will be changing or that the enforcement will hew to the manager’s view of what it means even when that’s not what it actually says. Neither is good news for the future of adult blogs on Blogger/Blogspot.

Sure, let’s all heave a sigh of relief that the March 23rd deadline is no longer looming. But don’t get complacent. If you’ve still got adult content on any Google property, get it out while you still can. Verbum sapienti satis.

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February 27th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Google Porn Raid Drill: Over For Now

Shortly after midnight last night, Google’s Social Product Support Manager Jessica Pelegio posted this semi-retraction of last week’s equally quiet announcement of the #Pornocalypse come to Blogger (Blogspot) blogs:

Hello everyone,

This week, we announced a change to Blogger’s porn policy. We’ve had a ton of feedback, in particular about the introduction of a retroactive change (some people have had accounts for 10+ years), but also about the negative impact on individuals who post sexually explicit content to express their identities. So rather than implement this change, we’ve decided to step up enforcement around our existing policy prohibiting commercial porn.

Blog owners should continue to mark any blogs containing sexually explicit content as “adult” so that they can be placed behind an “adult content” warning page.

Bloggers whose content is consistent with this and other policies do not need to make any changes to their blogs.

Thank you for your continued feedback.

The Blogger Team

This is good news. You might even say it means Google is listening. But I think we can all take away from this a much clearer sense of Google’s corporate direction on adult material.

Smart people who are still using Google’s services for adult content distribution will now, of course, stop doing that. The next time, consequently, there will be less outrage and less backlash. Which means that when Google finally does move to delete the tens of thousands of moribund adult blogs that it threatened to delete this time, only cranks like me who see that material and the links to it as socially valuable will complain.

Note also that this announcement’s breezy summary “our existing policy prohibiting commercial porn” is substantially more broad in scope than the actual policy as of today, which prohibits making money on adult content but which is fine with just posting (for your own enjoyment) as much commercial porn as you want:

Do not use Blogger as a way to make money on adult content. For example, don’t create blogs that contain ads for or links to commercial porn sites.

Don’t be surprised if that wording changes, or if blogs full of commercial porn posted for fun start to disappear. Bets on whether the URL watermark on a commercial porn photo will start being treated as “ads for” commercial porn sites? Of course we’ll never know, because these deletions will not be accompanied by specific reasons, fleshed-out policies, or any meaningful human review or appeal.

But yeah. The Google porn raid siren has gone quiet again for now. Come out from under your desk, breathe a sigh of relief that the bombers aren’t coming on March 23rd, and then move your shit somewhere safe before the next time the damned porn raid sirens go off. Or as A.V. Flox puts it rather more eloquently at Slantist:

We tell ourselves “once on the internet, always on the internet,” like maintaining content is a trivial thing. But it isn’t a trivial thing – at any time, the company that you rely on to keep your content for free could change their policies, or get bought out and change their policies, or decide they want to go public and change their policies, or simply go under and take your content with them.

The longevity of data requires more intent than this. My advice is to seriously consider migrating to a self-hosted site if you can. If you can’t, make sure you export your data with some regularity.

Think of this as your 21st century reminder of a duck and cover drill. DEFCON has gone back up, but the Cold War on adult is far from over.

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