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July 7th, 2005 -- by Bacchus

Getting Her Oar In

Sometimes, commentary is superfluous:

vintage bondage and an oar spanking

From Bondage Blog.

 
July 7th, 2005 -- by Aphrodite

Cautionary Tale For Those Who Like To Go Commando

Aphrodite blogs:

Yes, I enjoy a diminished level of clothing. Yes, I enjoy motorcycling. This is nothing more than a caution light on the road of happiness. Something to think about next time you try to combine all of the things you enjoy into one superjoyfest.

It’s probably not what you’re thinking…..but why not find out by reading the entire story over at Now I’m Pissed?

 
July 6th, 2005 -- by Bacchus

Chopsticks, Please….

Twiddly Bits has a long post in which she describes the fun she and her husband got up to with the Twisted Monk. Complete with a bondage photo gallery showing the highest and best use for chopsticks.

 
July 5th, 2005 -- by Aphrodite

The Human Body As Canvas

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I’m fascinated by the beauty of human bodies, and especially by artists who can emphasize it, or add to it in unique ways. Here’s a couple of examples that caught my eye.

Beautiful warm nude embrace

This simple pose is enhanced by the use of light that adds to the warmth of his embrace.

Play of light on nude

This photo is more typical of what I’ve seen in my browsing so far…..a very interesting play of light on a lovely nude body. If you like these, much more awaits your discovery at The Living Canvas, by Pete Guither. If you’re in the Chicago area, you might want to check out a live show.

 
July 3rd, 2005 -- by Aphrodite

Show Us Your Balls!

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It’s great to hear from a man who’s not shy about his special relationship with his balls:

A guy’s balls are so interesting when you really get right down to it. They are firm, delicate, warm, fuzzy, and so precious to him that instinctually he will defend them from danger. I personally still love rubbing them, tugging them, grabbing the sack and pushing down on them.

Yes, they are lovely danglies, and best of all, they usually smell wonderful too, if you enjoy the man’s overall scent. It’s too bad that they’re hidden behind his penis, because they can be just as fun to play with even if they aren’t as obviously happy with the attention.

Thanks, Secretive Slave, for telling us!

 
July 2nd, 2005 -- by Bacchus

Lost In The Gigolo Matrix

Sorry, guys. Still looking for the Gigolo Matrix? It doesn’t exist.

But don’t worry, I’m sure those penis pills still work.

 
July 1st, 2005 -- by Bacchus

Sex And Submission

A new kinky site is out: Sex And Submission!

Sex And Submission banner photo: Holly Stevens gagged and pounded from behind, doggie style

If you like your sex at all kinky, you’ll have noticed that genuinely kinky hard core porn is very hard to find. Bondage and spanking photos are a dime a dozen, but how often do you see a pretty woman in a leather collar with her wrists tied giving a big sloppy enthusiastic blowjob? Or bouncing happily up and down on some male porn star prong with her wrists clipped to the D-rings on her collar?

I’m not saying you can’t find it, but it’s not common and it’s rarely commercial. In the United States, this has something to do (I’m told) with porn-industry-standard “rules of thumb” designed to help porn producers avoid judicial unpleasantry in all the most sexually conservative corners of the country where their porn might get sold.

So imagine my suprise today to discover that one of my favorite porn producers (the folks who, from their bastion of permissive community standards in San Francisco, put out sites like the oddly transgressive Ultimate Surrender girl/girl wrestling site, the justly famous Hogtied bondage site, or the sadly-defunct Real Fucking Couples) has crossed the line in a big way with their new site called Sex and Submission. For the first time that I’ve seen, an American porn company is making real BDSM porn that includes tight bondage, hard spanking, and real unfaked sex.

Let me illustrate by pointing to this Sex And Submission shoot, which opens with an almost stereotypical, even banal, BDSM tableau. Here’s a pretty woman (Lori Alexia) on her knees, on a leash but not otherwise bound, looking hungrily in the direction of some fellow’s presumably masterful erection:

leashed and kneeling and hungry for a blowjob: Loria Alexia at Sex And Submission / Kink Unlimited

Of course, every two-bit BDSM pornographer in the last twenty years has shown you a picture like that, teasing you into hoping that she’ll be naked and tied (or chained, or whatever) in the next picture, and sucking like mad (still tied) in the picture after that. But if you bought the tease, you’d be disappointed. In the bad stuff, the leash is as good as the bondage gets; in the better stuff, her bondage gets more severe, and you might eventually see his penis held near her face, almost-but-not-quite in range of her tongue. And then in the next shot, you’ll looking at a blowjob closeup. And in the shot after that, they are going at it hammer and tongs — and she’s not tied any more. There are endless (and sometimes very creative) variations on the theme, but somehow the bondage and the sex never seem to make it into the same photographic frame.

In sharp contrast to those tired old ruses, Sex and Submission (astonishingly) appears to be delivering on the tease. In the shoot I took that photo from, it’s followed by a spanking photo, a picture of her being tied up tight with real rope, a display shot of her still leashed, but now topless with her hands tied behind, and then (philandering Zeus smite me if I lie!) two photos of her sucking intently on the man’s dick with her hands still tied and his tight grip on the leash “encouraging” her. I saw that and like to dropped my teeth. It’s a thing that (up until now) just wasn’t done.

Nor is it just a fluke. In this shoot, the Sex and Submission people have lovely Jamie all bent over in a short wooden pillory:

Jamie Huxley in the pillory and ready for her blowjob scene Mr DeMille: a Sex and Submission / Kink Unlimited photo

Again, every BDSM pornographer has got one of these pillories, and an endless supply of cute girls to put in it. You can find a hundred thousand versions of the inevitable weary flogging. But have you ever before seen the male talent take the obvious advantage of the situation and get a pillory blowjob? Perhaps I’ve led a sheltered life, because I haven’t. Until now.

When one does actually find this sort of real BDSM porn in odd foreign corners of the net, there’s always the additional worry that the scenes depicted might not be fully consensual. That’s the trouble with bondage sex — the vast majority of it as actually practiced in bedroooms and dungeons throughout the land is relentlessly consensual, but it’s neither easy nor desirable to portray that consent in a still photo. These galleries, made in America by a reputable producer of known fixed address, go a long way toward alleviating those sorts of concerns.

I’ll shut up now. It’s time to play one of my favorite games with The Nymph — the one where I show her pictures on my computer screen and she says “Eek!” (while observing avidly between widely-spaced fingers over her eyes). Y’see, she’s actually the carpenter of the family….

Update: There’s a rather heated comment to this post asking why “only the women are portrayed as submissives” and “will this company be fair and show men who are getting spanked and tied and fucked?” The answer, of course, is not “sexism” as the commenter proposes. In fact, the answer to the latter question is simply “Yes.” The company in question has had such a site for years, called Men in Pain. Here’s a shoot featuring a man in severe bondage being caned, flogged, and penetrated anally and orally by powerful women. Sorry, Michelle, that dog just won’t hunt. Unless the sexism runs the other way? Why has it long been OK to show this sort of explicit submissive bondage sex when the man is the recipient, but not when the woman is?

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