Careful, That Adjective Is Loaded
As part of my life-quest to learn more stuff I have recently been reading Why Women Have Sex by UT Austi psychologists Cindy Meston and David Buss. The book is a popularization that grows out of a research program represented by a paper called “Why Humans Have Sex.” (PDF here.) (The transition from “humans” in the academic version to “women” for the larger audience shows that the authors, even if they are professors, understand something about marketing.)
There’s a great deal of interest here, since the authors are able to draw on a massive database of anonymized responses to questionnaires from (mostly) sexually active women. But one thing in particular caught my eye on first reading.
In mid-book there is a discussion of a phenomenon known as the Coolidge effect: male animals of many species will achieve sexual arousal much more rapidly in the presence of a novel female than in that of one with which they have just mated. As Meston and Buss put it:
…if you drop a male rat into a cage with a willing female rat, he engages in enthusiastic copulation. He will mount her repeatedly until he is completely tired out and ready for the rhetorical post-ejaculatory “cigarette and nap.” But if you replace his former sexual mate with another willing female, he becomes randy all over again. In fact, every time you replace the female with a new female, the male show shows renewed vigor and begins copulating afresh. He will keep going and going with new females until he nearly dies of exhaustion.
(The basis for the name “Coolidge effect” is, by the way, a (or perhaps “the only”) charming story about Calvin Coolidge, which I won’t retell here because Bacchus has already blogged about it before.)
Now of course one is inclined to ask whether this intriguing effect applies to human beings. It’s not an obvious leap; men are not rats (usually). Before discussing the matter like the responsible scientists they are, Meston and Buss have this to say:
To test the Coolidge effect in humans, most universities would not allow researchers to run an experiment to see how many times a person can get aroused and have sex with different people…
And of course I had two immediate reactions.
1. Silly universities! Don’t they realize that the advance of science requires committment and sacrifice?
2. Most universities? Doesn’t that imply that there are at least some universities that are willing to have the volunteers lining up outside the door for this sort of critical research? Which ones? O Meston and Buss, please tell us which ones they are! Or at least, please tell the appropriate journalistic authority to incorporate this critical information into their rankings.
We all thank you in advance.
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I’m gonna get the book for sure, but I think on the second note you made the authors probably do not have the answer. In my line of research (quite different from theirs I admit) if there are no universal policies (in my case for search engines looking in dated personal information, that may have in newer publishings be unaccessible) the authors will check a random sample of policies that are readily published and then make a statement of the sort mentioned by these two. The naive statement serves as an insurance against future embarrasement if a counter example to the stated rule exists. In other words, if I were to say “no universities allow this type of research”, then what if one university claimed that they actually may consider it?
It’s simple: males have a natural duty to cover as many females as they can. I’ve felt this, you fuck a girl, then you feel you should be out of there and dealing with another one.
I think most males already know in their “hearts” that this effect applies to humans as well. I’m guessing that if the average guy jacks off to a porn film, he’s not even that likely to want to see it again (for a while at least), if he has access to a new one to watch. My guess is, that if you ran the experiment with mere erotic imagery, the novel depictions are more likely to produce subsequent erections, and orgasms…
If man were satisfied with one erotic image, the porn business would essentially be out of business. We seek novelty by nature. As a teen, after seeing the first nude on the pages of a “girly” magazine, it wasn’t long before I turned the page to see her from another angle, then I flipped to the next girl’s pictorial. After I’d perused the entire publication, I was eager to see the next month’s issue.
A Hollywood ingenue has to be very special to hold our interest for more than several films. Society can’t wait to see the next “flavor-of-the-month” who is younger, prettier, and sexier…