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December 21st, 2014 -- by Bacchus

Alternative Categorization: Not Wrong

A very long time ago — back in the same moral epoch when Dan Savage still thought “tranny” was an acceptably neutral descriptor, to give you an idea just how long — I made some now-regrettable statements on this blog that were conceptually aligned (albeit more primitively expressed) with the following argument:

The argument goes: we are rationalists. Our entire shtick is trying to believe what’s actually true, not on what we wish were true, or what our culture tells us is true, or what it’s popular to say is true. If a man thinks he’s a woman, then we might (empathetically) wish he were a woman, other people might demand we call him a woman, and we might be much more popular if we say he’s a woman. But if we’re going to be rationalists who focus on believing what’s actually true, then we’ve got to call him a man and take the consequences.

Thus Abraham Lincoln’s famous riddle: “If you call a tail a leg, how many legs does a dog have?” And the answer: “Four — because a tail isn’t a leg regardless of what you call it.”

I no longer feel that way, but until recently I couldn’t have told you exactly why. Then I read this article about whales and fish and borders (including odd Turkish enclaves in Syria) and planets and the arbitrary nature of categories-and-borders about which we have (for whatever random reason) achieved temporary consensus.

Yeah, that doesn’t really make a lot of sense when I summarize it that way. But I have a head cold, and the enlightenment you seek is behind that link there in the previous paragraph. Click it. But if you won’t click, there’s a key bit that starts like this:

The project of the transgender movement is to propose a switch from using chromosomes as a tiebreaker to using self-identification as a tiebreaker.

This is not something that can be “true” or “false”. It’s a boundary-redrawing project. It can make for some boundaries that look a little bit weird — like a small percent of men being able to get pregnant — but as far as weird boundaries go that’s probably not as bad as having a tiny exclave of Turkish territory in the middle of a Syrian village.

You draw category boundaries in specific ways to capture tradeoffs you care about. If you care about the sanctity of the tomb of your country’s founder, sometimes it’s worth having a slightly weird-looking boundary in order to protect and honor it.

If I’m willing to accept an unexpected chunk of Turkey deep inside Syrian territory to honor some random dead guy — and I better, or else a platoon of Turkish special forces will want to have a word with me — then I ought to accept an unexpected man or two deep inside the conceptual boundaries of what would normally be considered female if it’ll save someone’s life. There’s no rule of rationality saying that I shouldn’t, and there are plenty of rules of human decency saying that I should.

I elided a bunch of caveats and some nuance, but that’s the gist. Works for me.

 
December 20th, 2014 -- by Bacchus

Somebody’s Getting A Spanking…

From a Tumblr post captioned “Progressive relationship photos”:

happy woman with a heart-cutout spanking paddle and a naked man cuddling her

And speaking of progressive: do you suppose that somewhere out there right now, there’s a couple with a new paddle rolling twenty-sided dice to determine who gets spanked first?

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December 19th, 2014 -- by Bacchus

Ballet Without Panties

This vintage cartoon comes to us from the department of “if it happened more often, ballet would be much more popular”:

ballet-panties

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December 18th, 2014 -- by Bacchus

No Safe Place To Be Adult

Photographer and cinematographer Hywel Phillips is the visual genius behind Restrained Elegance, which I have long considered to be the best and most visually striking of the bondage photography sites that strive to produce pornography and art simultaneously. He, along with his wife and model and business partner Ariel Anderssen aka Amelia Jane Rutherford, are some of the people Spanking Blog calls “porn producer heroes” as they continue to make fetish porn in Britain subsequent to the “latest round of bat-shit crazy UK censorship laws.” In an excellent long-read post yesterday, Hywel cataloged the whole constellation of challenges facing people trying to be adults and to do adult business on the modern internet. He begins:

The internet is no longer a safe place to be an adult. Puritans and authoritarians are closing in from all directions: state censorship, financial censorship and corporate censorship. This sounds like paranoia, but it isn’t. Here’s why.

There’s really no way to summarize the post for you; all I can do is commend it to your attention. Although his post ranges much more wildly, he covers (and shares) many of the concerns I have hash-tagged #Pornocalypse when discussing corporate discrimination against adult materials, adult businesses, and adult-oriented web traffic. He even touches briefly on what I used to call Bacchus’s First Rule of the Internet, or as Hwel puts it:

First, don’t rely on any service where you are not the direct customer. Don’t blog on blogger, get a little bit of web space (ideally hosted in country with protected speech), install WordPress and do it yourself.

I’ve stopped harping on my “rule” because social media have made it… not less essential, but perhaps less sufficient? Despite numerous software efforts and projects (which Hwel discusses in passing) there’s still no good self-hosted way to enjoy the network effects of social media. And that lack makes my notion of pornocalypse all the more chilling, since every big web property and social media silo eventually seems to reach that point in the corporate life cycle where it appears sensible to start banning all the porn. Before the internet, we lived in a world where you could not be heard unless your message was acceptable to corporate sensibilities. The World Wide Web changed all that, but now, corporate social media and squeamish search engines are taking us back to those bad, bland, and puritanical old days.

But now I’m rambling. Hwel does not ramble. Check his post out.

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December 17th, 2014 -- by Bacchus

Sexy Krampus

sex-appeal Krampus

The first line of this vintage German Krampus card reads something like “The Krampus loves also sex appeal” but Google Translate makes an absolute hash of the second line. I trust that someone will volunteer a fuller translation in the comments? Danke sehr in advance!

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December 15th, 2014 -- by Bacchus

Savannah Fox Getting Felt Up

Oh, no, she doesn’t like this at all:

Derrick Pierce with his hand up Savannah Fox's panties making her happy

From Squirting Bondage Sex, with Derrick Pierce putting his hand in Savannah Fox’s panties.

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December 14th, 2014 -- by Bacchus

European Teen Lust

She’s got him right where she wants him: at her feet in her own fancy bedroom.

teen lust and tender femdom

But he doesn’t stay at her feet for long, does he? No, that was never her plan:

teen lust in Europe

From Euro Teen Erotica, part of the DDF network.

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