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April 18th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

Plutarch on Divorce

Quoth the learned philosopher:

A Roman divorced from his wife, being highly blamed by his friends, who demanded: “Was she not chaste? Was she not fair? Was she not fruitful?” Holding out his shoe, he asked them whether it was not new and well-made. “Yet,” he added, “none of you can tell me where it pinches me.”

 
April 16th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

Lust And Respect

I’ve described my goal here at ErosBlog as blogging about sex and porn with an unapologetic, unabashed male gaze … while striving not to be a complete dickhead about sex, about women, about porn models, about sex workers. The degree to which I succeed may be debatable, but I’ve never felt a lustful-yet-respectful male gaze was an impossible or unreasonable goal. I’m aware, yes, of a political camp that equates gaze with disrespect, or with objectification that in its own turn is equated with disrespect — but as a political matter, I categorically reject those views, and attempt to refute them, by example, to the best of my ability.

So you’ll appreciate the fascination with which I read this from Miss Maggie Mayhem:

The young man I pass who looks me up and down and gives me a sincere smile and eye contact does not have the same intentions as the car filled with young men matching my pace and shouting at me as I walk down the street. Respect is not indicated by abstaining from a sexual gaze. Respect is recognizing the fact that it might not be mutual and being alright with that and not acting in a way that imposes it on another human being against their own desire and autonomy. To say that you shouldn’t ever look at a stranger across the room and get turned on is to say that you shouldn’t ever fall in love at first sight.

You preach it, sister!

 
April 15th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

Why Rich Men Buy Boats

For reasons that may become more apparent a few days hence, my thoughts are much upon vintage porn right now. So I thought it would be a good time for a nice vintage installment of my ongoing series:

why rich men buy boats

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April 14th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

Getting Him Down

This is why it’s a bad idea to do favors for scarecrows and straw men:

scarecrow with a boner ties the woman who got him down to his stake

Cartoon is by famous internet cartoonist Julius Zimmerman.

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April 13th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

Huge Hippie Hooters

Your vintage porn for the day, just because it made me smile:

hippie girl with huge breasts, a winning smile, and a headband

From Titty Blog.

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April 13th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

More Internet Porn, Less Rape

The research has been out there for awhile, but the suggestive numbers just keep getting stronger: there’s evidence that as access to the internet increases in the US population, rape rates fall. (Dr. Faustus blogged about this, and about a Salon article discussing the same research paper as today’s story, back in 2009, as did I when the research was new, back in 2006.) An attractive theory that might explain this is that access to porn (which as everybody knows, is what the internet is for) reduces the urge to rape — but that, of course, is merely what the data are suggestive of, it’s far from proven.

Today’s link (via Violet Blue) is to a blog by Canadian econ professor Marina Adshade, in which she updates the rape and internet stat numbers and discusses the hoary old research paper in greater detail:

The FBI’s Uniform Crime Report has recently released the preliminary statistics for 2010. The incidence of violent rape in US has declined once again, this time by 6.2% between June 2009 and June 2010. The most recent decline is not an anomaly; rape rates have been falling since their peak in the early 1990’s (see the figure I have included below which uses annual data from the FBI). Over the same period internet access in the US has skyrocketed; in 1997 (the first year that the current population survey collected this information) only 18.6% of American’s had internet access in their homes. Today that number is above 71%.

It may seem like the relationship between internet access and rape is spurious, but evidence suggests that even after controlling for known determinants of rape rates (such as policing, urbanization, poverty and the age distributions), a 10% increase in internet access coincides with a fall in rape rates of 7.3%.

And here’s why it’s worth revisiting this as the journalistic dinosaurs in TV and print media continue to ramp up their anguished bellowing and braying against internet porn:

[N]ot good results for those who have tried for years, largely unsuccessfully, to prove that access to porn increase male violence. There are also some interesting implications for how we think about the motivation for rape. It is difficult, for example, to reconcile a belief that rape has nothing to do with the act of sex itself if the evidence suggests that teenage boys are choosing to masturbate in front of their computers instead of being rapists.

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April 11th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

Expressions of Surprise

I’m not sure exactly what these ladies expected. But this?

This was entirely predictable.

 
 
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