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October 24th, 2016 -- by Bacchus

Pavlovian Sexual Response

Yesterday Girl On The Net wrote about how, because she always takes out her lip ring before giving her partner a blowjob, she’s had the ambition of creating in him a conditioned sexual response to her removing her lip ring — and it seems to be working! So they had a discussion about their next sexual-conditioning trick, and it went predictably where you might think, with Mars and Venus having sharply diverse visions of how they ought to proceed:

I’d literally watched as his dick got hard in his jeans, purely as a result of me taking out my lip ring. According to him, that’s the closest we’ve ever come to achieving the lip-ring-Pavlov’s-blow-job response that we’d talked about so long ago.

Naturally, we high-fived, and were generally pretty pleased with ourselves. But of course once you’ve achieved one Pavlov’s blow job, you can’t help but wonder what the next trick should be. He reckons we should literally copy Pavlov and introduce a bell, but I suspect that’s less to do with sexual experimentation than it is to do with the fact that he wants to have suck jobs on demand at the ring of a bell.

Personally, I’d like him to condition me to get wet at the smell of roast potatoes. Not only will I get loads of hand-jobs, in order for the response to work he’ll have to cook me roast dinners a minimum of once each week.

I suppose it’s no surprise that this is not the very first time I’ve encountered the notion of conditioned sexual responses. Thinking back over the last 14 years of sex blogging and reading sex blogs, I seem to remember a fad on the BDSM blogs for awhile for domly doms to claim they had “trained” their subly subs to orgasm on demand in response to voice commands or visual cues, using various forms of conditioning. It’s a potentially-hot fantasy and I get why people liked to play with it, but it’s also a tough claim to verify in actual cases without some sort of biophysical monitoring.

The other context where I have encountered similar ideas is in the unsavory world of pickup artists (PUA). A long time ago when there were only one or two notorious PUAs out there already selling their skeevy “seduction” tips and audio-cassette seminars to trembling chumps, there was still a sort of non-commercial side of that world on Usenet in various groups, and they would sometimes discuss the use of neurolinguistic programming (NLP), which at the time had not yet been so comprehensively debunked as it currently has been. A few PUA optimists were claiming that what came to be called “patterning” could be used to establish conditioned sexual responses in conversational partners (who would thereby soon want to become sexual partners, or so went the hopeful theory.) Say the right words in the right way, repeat with variations, and you could (supposedly) condition your conversational partner to become sexually aroused in response to certain innocuous trigger phrases, all without them ever noticing what was going on. Bullshit you say? Well, rather! But latterly it sold a lot of audiotapes and CDROMs and DVDs, so it must have mapped fairly accurately into the fantasy spaces of many hopeful men.

I think the idea of conditioned sexual response is interesting precisely because of the way it interacts with notions of consent. In different scenarios, the conditioned person could potentially consent to the acts of conditioning without being aware that conditioning was a goal or a potential outcome, or alternatively they might be a full, knowing, and enthusiastic partner in the conditioning enterprise. But even in that latter case, how does conditioning work with consent? If I enthusiastically consent to be conditioned to get hard every time my partner eats a strawberry, should she ask me before she eats one? There’s potential to wind up in a situation where acts that do not normally require consent may have consequences that normally do require consent to achieve. It’s complicated, it’s interesting, and it offers a lot of fantasy fodder, even if the practical difficulties mean that conditioned sexual responses aren’t of enormous consequence in most people’s sex lives.

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October 23rd, 2016 -- by Bacchus

“Grab My Pussy Again, I Dare You!”

He finally encountered a woman who wouldn’t put up with his grab-assing bullshit. It’s going to take him some time to heal:

outraged woman with a bullwhip and a grudge

Artwork is from a cover of the Italian pulp magazine Isabella.

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October 22nd, 2016 -- by Bacchus

An Attentive Handjob

She’s being careful and precise, giving the work her full attention:


Artist not known.

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October 21st, 2016 -- by Bacchus

Creepy Clown Gangbang

a cage full of creepy clowns and one hot jailer with a clown fetish

Now this-here is a guaranteed recipe for shenanigans:

(1) pretty sheriff’s deputy pulling unsupervised jailer duty at the drunk tank;
(1) drunk tank full of creepy clowns; and
(1) heavy-duty clown fetish.

Pro tip: no matter how much you love the fantasy of getting fucked by clowns, it might not be a good idea to go into the drunk tank with them when there’s nobody around to back you up. Fortunately, it seems our intrepid deputy Holly Hendrix really enjoys her some crazy clown cock, because (after some apprehensive looks right at the beginning when they’re stripping her) her lust-crazed smile never seems to falter:

stripped and fucked by a bunch of drunk clowns

assault of the clowns

ravished by creepy clowns

desktop clown gangbang

This is from the When Clowns Attack movie on the Hardcore Gangbang channel, which used to be its own website and is now available separately or as an included offering in the Kink Unlimited porn-smorgasbord.

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October 20th, 2016 -- by Bacchus

Blowjob In A Cellar Room

October 19th, 2016 -- by Bacchus

Friendly Little Elephant, Ain’t He?

It’s just a friendly little upskirt-elephant. There’s a current political metaphor in there somewhere, but I guess this is not the place:

1960s photo of a baby elephant putting his trunk up a lady's skirt

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October 17th, 2016 -- by Bacchus

Anal Beads Bargain

halloween sale

It’s that time of year again: The Stockroom is once again running its all-through-October Halloween Sale. And though the sale has the usual rich assortment of discounted kinky gear that you should look at for doing double duty at your sexy Halloween costume parties, there’s also plenty of good old-fashioned bargains on good old-fashioned sex toys that everybody probably needs more of, at times like this when the price is right.

For instance, who among us doesn’t need more anal beads these days? Anal beads have come a long way since the first time I walked into a sex shop. Back then, when dinosaurs roamed the earth and people thought Pong was a cool computer game, anal beads were literally beads: cheap spheres of acrylic plastic (usually with sharp seams you’d be wise to carve away with a pen knive) strung on porous cotton string. If the beads didn’t scratch you and the string didn’t break (leaving you with an extrication problem), you were still stuck with a single-use toy, because there was no way to clean and sanitize that cotton string. And let’s not even think about all the little tiny holes through the beads…

But now? Technology has advanced, boys and girls. Now we’re talking graduated bumps in a soft but firm-enough stack, offering more pleasure and much less hassle with a toy you have a hope of cleaning for repeat fun. Behold the Kinklab Innuendo Anal Beads, sale priced at just $8.93 (model not included):

anal beads sitting on her bottom

From the product description:

KinkLab’s Innuendo Anal Beads are a safe, pleasurable addition to the repertoire of every aficionado of anal play, no matter what level of experience. This silicone-blend toy features seven beads of graduated sizes that can be easily inserted, starting with the smallest and working your way up to the larger ones as your comfort and confidence increases. Just add your favorite water-based lube and insert slowly.

Unlike strands of beads, this toy is a single solid piece, and equipped with a handle that makes removal safe, comfortable, and easy. Because of the high-quality silicone materials, it’s easy to keep the Innuendo clean — just hand wash with mild soap or a commercial cleaner and allow to air-dry before playing again.

displaying her anal beads

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