July 12th, 2025 -- by Bacchus
The View From Up Here Is Amazing!
Photo is from Femjoy. One unreliable source locates it in Crimea, in a more peaceful era than today.
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July 11th, 2025 -- by Bacchus
He Understands The Assignment
Abby captioned this video (backup link) “he brings home the best stuff” but watch his finger motions when he tests the vintage electric massager! It’s not recognizing and bringing home the classic antique sex toy that makes this man a keeper, it’s understanding its full potential that gives him all the brownie points:
It’s a very short video, but you really should watch it, if only to see Abby’s utterly-captivated facial expression at the end.
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July 10th, 2025 -- by Bacchus
Her Year Without Touch
Sex worker Isabelle Fox talks in this video (backup link) about the year she went without sex and how the truly remarkable thing for her wasn’t missing the sex as such but rather the realization that she simply missed physical touch:
I went 12 months without sex, which was a record for me because I’d been a professional for six years. But I went through something really heavy in my personal life and it made interactions with men feel almost impossible.
But what it did do was for the first time I truly understood why so many of my clients used to come and see me. While I did eventually miss the sex, that is not what hit me first around month nine. What I really missed was physical intimacy, like just the feeling of another person’s skin, completely non-sexual.
I was a hermit alone in my apartment for basically that entire time. And the most physical contact I got was in the infrequent sessions I have with the personal trainer where they measure my body.
Now babies who don’t get touch die from lack of it. That’s how essential it is. Then around month 10, I started missing the smell of men. And this was sexual. I was in a gym in New York and this guy was near me and I just thought, oh, that smells good. And from that moment, I started noticing men again. And over the next two months, that feeling just kept growing until it became undeniable and I finally acted on it with a man.
It was enjoyable and honestly incredibly cathartic. Up until then, my compassion for my clients had been mostly intellectual. Like I got intellectually what they were dealing with because they told me about it, but I’ve never really been through it to understand. I had always been in relationships even throughout my entire time as a sex worker. I’d never experienced a total lack of emotional or physical intimacy. And wow, it was hard. We really are made for intimacy.
Meanwhile I’m having a parallel reaction to her “discovery”, as I suspect many other men will too. What’s a revelation to her, is just the normal experience of life for a great many men, as she acknowledges when she talks about hearing about it from her clients. Indeed, the trick might be finding a man who hasn’t had the experience while he’s actually living with a woman he’s committed to.
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July 9th, 2025 -- by Bacchus
Lenny Bruce, Cancelled In 1957
For as long as there have been stand-up comedians, they have been getting cancelled for over-the-top jokes. It’s a lot harder to get them to stay cancelled, however.
According to Rich Shydner in A History Of Standup Comedy, in 1957 Lenny Bruce was doing standup in a series of strip clubs in LA when he very briefly got a gig at the more respectable Slate Brothers nightclub out in West Hollywood. On his very first night he told a joke too foul to be tolerated:
A kid looks up at his father and he says “Dad, what’s a pervert?”
His father says “Shut up and keep sucking!”
As the story goes, Lenny Bruce immediately got fired and the Slate Brothers club went out and hired Don Rickles to replace him. Despite a 1960s obscenity conviction that ended his career and a drug overdose that took his life before his legal complications were resolved, Lenny Bruce is ranked #3 on Rolling Stone’s 2017 list of the 50 best comedians of all time.
The photo is of Lenny Bruce appearing with stripper Windee Gayle at the Orchid Room in Waikiki, Hawaii, sometime in the 1950s.
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July 8th, 2025 -- by Bacchus
She’s Having Cock For Dessert
I believe these 39 frames of an effortless-looking deep throat blowjob envelopment are from one of the infamous dinner parties they used to throw at The Upper Floor back when Kink.com operated out of the Armory in San Francisco:
I don’t recognize the talented lady wearing the feather plumage, but one of you might.
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July 7th, 2025 -- by Bacchus
Sometimes The Little Man Is Hiding
For my whole-ass adult life I’ve heard women complain about bad-in-bed men who couldn’t find their clits. Nor do I have any reason do disbelieve that that the state of sexual education in the USA is deplorable, and that men in general suck at asking for directions. Therefore I’ve taken it aboard as a truth about the universe: there must be a lot of men out there who can’t find a clitoris. But… seriously? My sample size is not enormous, but the clit has always been right there for me, a featured promontory on the map of a woman’s body whenever I reached for it, hard to miss whether I looked with my fingers or my eyes and lips. My unconsidered conclusion has always been that men who didn’t find it are dumbfucks, so paralyzed by sexual shame or blinded by such a complete lack of regard for female pleasure that they just didn’t really try very hard at all.
Along comes Victoria Ventress with an offering of further perspective. I’ve seen a lot of different vulva diversity illustrations and even some pretty specific clitoral hood variation photo arrays, but it never really sank in for me that on some women’s bodies, the clit might just be considerably more unobtrusive than the ones I’ve met. Victoria says:
As a bisexual female, I’m really starting to understand what you guys are talking about. There’s a couple of things here I really want to address, but the first one is I’m so sick and tired of people getting upset, being like “He couldn’t find it. He couldn’t find it! He couldn’t find it, he doesn’t deserve it, he couldn’t find it!
The last five women that I have been with… we have a clit crisis, okay? Clit crisis, baby. Your mama didn’t give you one.
I know where it’s at now. I got lucky, and mine’s big. And I ain’t even gonna lie about it. Mine is big!
Yours don’t exist. I had to actually ask. The last girl I was with, I was like, you know what? We ain’t even doing this anatomy lesson right now. Spread it open. Show me where it’s at.
She showed me where it should be. There is no man in the boat.
The boat is there. The man is missing.
So y’all quit giving these men a hard time, okay?
Because I have the same anatomy, and some of y’all, I’m struggling with, okay?
Spread it open. Show me the bean. Because I don’t see it!
Image credit: The entirely fanciful clitoral variation illustrations in this post are excerpted from a hentai/doujinshi fan art homage to the buff women of the Street Fighter videogame franchise. The artwork is called Street Fucker Pussypedia, by the artist Cosine.
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July 6th, 2025 -- by Bacchus
Porn For Women In 2025
It’s been almost 25 years since I started ErosBlog, and the world of porn has changed immensely over that quarter of a century. So much so, that if you were not already back then a porn-enjoying adult who was paying a lot of attention to your erotic media, it’s very hard now to describe the scope and intensity of all the changes, not only in the porn “industry” but in the diversity and community of people who buy and enjoy porn.
One thing I said pretty early on, in various places and different ways, was that ErosBlog was intended to be a place for unabashed and unapologetic male-gaze porn, without also being a loutish cesspool of misogyny, which unfortunately was the norm for most internet porn sites in 2002 when ErosBlog was new. At that time I had never heard of porn for women, and indeed it was widely believed among mostly-male pornographers that “women aren’t visual creatures” and also that women didn’t like or enjoy watching porn. That last, of course, was the most self-fulfilling prophecy that ever fulfilled itself. If you make visual entertainments in which women are mostly treated like worthless cum-dumpster garbage, what reasonable person would expect them to line up to enjoy your oh-so-pleasant motion picture spectaculars?
Luckily for me, sex blogging has always been an eye-opening and a horizons-broadening experience. This broadening, no pun intended, was facilitated for me in those early days by a female friend and co-blogger known here as Aphrodite, whose early posting about Sssh.com introduced me for the first time to the porn-for-women idea. Although I did not know it yet, Sssh.com’s Angie Rowntree had by then already for some years been making sex-positive cinematic ethically-produced porn movies to scripts inspired by the fantasies of the site’s women members. In the decades since, the work has expanded to include many other award winning directors, and Sssh has helped pioneer the development of ethical porn practices, which “back in the day” were something that directors and producers of goodwill struggled with individually.
Obviously, any porn site with roots going back to 1999 offers extensive photo galleries to supplement its flagship movie products. If you, like me, were at first somewhat slow to realize why the women of the world were so faithfully devoted to their e-book readers, the answer is “smut” and you will correctly deduce that a porn-for-women offering will include a considerable library of erotic stories and novels, too. What you might not realize is that they also offer audio content such as audiobooks and erotic podcasts.
Ms. Rowntree describes her site these days as “your source for ethically produced, sex-positive indie adult cinema.” I’ve never had the pleasure of meeting Angie, but we’ve exchanged friendly emails over the years about mutual porn industry interests and frustrations, such as my obsession with reporting on the pornocalypse and her steps a decade ago to keep porn performers safer on set than the industry norm. In my opinion, she does amazing work!
Image credits: All photos from the current Sssh.com tour.
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