June 4th, 2016 -- by Bacchus
Dr. Marty Klein has been thinking hard about Rule 34 and what it tells us about human sexuality:
Rule 34: If it exists, or you can imagine it, there is porn of it. No exceptions.
Rule 34 summarizes everything about sexuality.
It says that human sexual fantasy is limitless. It says that anything can be eroticized, can be arousing, can be life-affirming. It reminds us that any ideas we have about what’s normal sex are about us, not about sex. I’m always telling patients “don’t blame sex for your ideas about sex.”
Rule 34 reminds us exactly what pornography is: a library of human eroticism. Pornography is a celebration of how humans can stretch their erotic imagination–sometimes in ways that disturb you or me. Nevertheless, pornography celebrates the erotic imagination BEYOND specific content. Like the ability to imagine the future, and the knowledge that we’re going to die, the enormous range of pornography is uniquely human.
Rule 34 also reminds us that people don’t necessarily want to do what they fantasize about. Sex with Kramer, George, & Jerry at the same time? Sex with a dolphin? Sex with someone about to be guillotined for stealing a loaf of bread? Sex with your grandmother at high noon on Times Square? A threesome with Batman & Robin?
Rule 34 also reminds us of the coin’s other side–that none of us can imagine the entire range of human eroticism. That should keep us humble. It’s somewhat like a gourmet travelling to a far-off, isolated country and discovering they eat something there he never considered food–say, fried worms. The issue isn’t so much does the gourmet want to eat fried worms; rather, it’s the idea that there’s “food” that he never considered food. And if that’s true about fried worms, about how many other “foods” might that also be true?
Rule 34 shows us all knit together in an erotic brotherhood (or sisterhood, if you will). If the human project of eroticism is bigger than both you and me, your turn-on and my turn-on that appear so different from each other are really small parts of a much bigger whole. And there are others who are into your turn-on (which I find so exotic), and there are others–perhaps many others–who think my turn-on is so very exotic.
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June 3rd, 2016 -- by Bacchus
He found out too late that the cliche was not just a cliche: Mistress Rowena really did have ways of making him talk:
This artwork is by Bill Schmeling aka “The Hun”.
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June 1st, 2016 -- by Bacchus
I know it’s trendy in some circles to look down on porn performers and to talk smack about them. But I myself believe that professionalism and skill should be honored in all professions. If you were to deny that it takes professionalism and skill for Yhivi to suck down so much of Dee’s very large and long strap-on dildo in this Sexually Broken scene, I would be forced to respectfully suggest that you try it yourself:
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May 31st, 2016 -- by Bacchus
This is awesome! Franklin Veaux writes:
A couple of years ago, I discovered that the number of books I was selling suddenly fell off a cliff. I did some research and found that the same thing was happening to a lot of erotica writers, especially self-published writers. Amazon’s Search function on their Web site was filtering out a lot of erotica, particularly erotica with themes of non-traditional relationships like BDSM.
However, I discovered something interesting a few months back: The Amazon search API, a set of programmer’s tools that allows Web programmers to search Amazon’s book titles, doesn’t filter search results. You can log on to Amazon and do a search for a particular book and see no results, but if you write a Web site that uses Amazon’s API and do a search, ta-da, there it is!
I’m sure you can see where this is going.
On and off for the past few months, I have been working on building a new Web site, called Red Lit Search. This site has a database of erotic books in Amazon’s catalog–so far only about eighteen hundred or so, but the list is growing — and also allows you to do uncensored searches of Amazon.
Way to go Franklin!
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May 29th, 2016 -- by Bacchus
These are the celebratory women of a Danish handball team, who chose to share this carefully-posed shower photo on Instagram after winning a tournament. The joy on their faces is what makes the photo truly special. Of course the usual bluenoses are making noises of concern and the photo’s no longer on Instagram, but, you know, fuck all that:
All of the major news stories featuring this photo identified the women as being from the team Tvis Holstebro of Denmark, saying they had just won their third European Cup trophy in four years. However, this Danish news site says the photo has been universally attributed to the wrong team. In truth, the happy showering women are “handball women from another club in Copenhagen, FIF, who’d won a tournament in Germany prior to the photo being taken.”
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May 28th, 2016 -- by Bacchus
A race car is nothing without a good pit crew, but it’s not the least bit essential that they all wear long shirts:
Silodrome writes:
There’s a lot to be said for the grid girls we had before massive, multi-million dollar sponsors took over the pit lane.
Works for me!
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May 27th, 2016 -- by Bacchus
From Kinky Delight, lipstick in a lovely red shade of death:
A word to the wise: if you have a choice, don’t date her.
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