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June 12th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Eat It Or Wear It: BDSM Feederism Edition

She thought she was delivering a steak to his place of business. He decided to make a dinner date out of it, in his inimitable lord-of-the-dungeon style. One large bowl of oatmeal later, what they had was a big old BDSM feeder/feedee mess!

bondage dinner date

ring gagged naked at the BDSM feeder's table

reluctant feedee being force fed a whole lot of gluey bland oatmeal gruel

more oatmeal than she can eat, but feederism means never having to stop force-feeding her

no thanks, I'm stuffed, I couldn't possibly eat another bite

Now he’s making noise about dessert, and showing her a gallon tub of ice cream. She’s thinking “No thanks, I couldn’t possibly eat another bite!”

From the most recent update at Infernal Restraints. The woman who does not like oatmeal (not on her head, not in a bed) is Kleio Valentien.

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June 10th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Hand Job On A Summer Day

summer-handjob

This summer-day handjob artwork is a detail from “The Tower” card in the Decameron Tarot by Giacinto Gaudenzi and Luciano Spadanuda.

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June 9th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Pulse II Duo Vibrator For Men

Pulse 2 Duo male masturbator

One of the newest sex toys out there is the Pulse II Duo, shown above. This is the first time I’ve seen one of the high-end vibrating sex toys designed for male pleasure as well as couples play, and although I don’t have one to test, it looks rather promising! Features it offers that I’ve never seen before in a vibrating stimulator for penises include:

1) Oscillation tech applied directly to the frenulum, instead of the standard vibrator buzzy-motor;

2) A vibrating area external to the toy intended for partner pleasure;

3) A hands-free wireless remote control controlling the external partner-pleasure vibration;

4) Wings that wrap around the penis allowing for hands-free use;

5) Said to work on a flaccid penis.

To me, the hands-free use and lack of need for a continuous sustained erection implies some scope for BDSM fun, orgasm control, and tease-deny play. If the Pulse II Duo stays on his penis even while his hands are bound out of the way and can bring him erect and/or to orgasm from a flaccid state as advertised, it sounds to me like a low-effort way for a lazy dominant to have a lot of fun playing with his helpless dick…

According to the sales copy:

PULSE is a multi-award winning stimulator for men that features oscillating sensations never before seen in a men’s toy, setting it apart from all other toys that came before it.

The PULSE II DUO can either be used for male solo play or as a hands-free toy for couples. Though both versions feature 5 patterns, each with 9 speeds of intensity, the remote control included with the DUO allows for complete control over 3 speed settings specifically designed to stimulate your partner. One of the great things about this revolutionary sex toy is that it can either be used flaccid or erect, allowing the user to enjoy the sensation of being made hard and ejaculating, while offering some great possibilities for men who suffer from erectile dysfunction (ED).

Its unique design specifically combats sexual dysfunction in people with neurological or physical disabilities, by utilizing a piston-type mechanism that causes the Pulse Plate on the interior of the unit to move up and down against the frenulum (tissue under the glans). This technique, known as “Penile Vibratory Stimulation”, is the first time this patented technology has ever been used in a sex toy and is another reason why we’re so excited to be carrying it.

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June 9th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Boob Selfie With Seductive Intent, 1828

beauty-revealed-detail

According to Wikipedia, American miniaturist Sarah Goodridge painted this self-portrait of her own breasts in 1828, at the age of 40. She called it Beauty Revealed, and gifted it to Daniel Webster following the death of his wife, perhaps in an effort to get him to marry her. (He didn’t.) The painting is a small watercolor on ivory, said to be thin enough for light to penetrate and give the breasts a certain glow.

Thanks to a loyal ErosBlog reader (who sometimes comments here as “a fan of moral erotica”) for sending this in.

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June 8th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

When “Protecting The Children” Does The Opposite

I was struck yesterday by a sort of cruel irony, and an example of the law of unintended consequences in action.

Here’s how it went down. Filling an idle moment with TV punditry, I came upon a United Nations bureaucrat attempting to describe the plight of women and girls captured by ISIS. She told a horrifying tale: whole populations of captured towns stripped of their sexually-desirable women and girls, who are then, she claimed, sorted, ranked by attractiveness, and sold in a state of nakedness in local markets, as sex slaves; excepting only the youngest and most attractive, who are routinely saved for the enjoyment of the ISIS sheik (her word) and his close associates.

It’s horrifying. But, is it true?

She offered no evidence; she didn’t even state where her information came from. She just said that this was the routine sequence of events whenever ISIS captures a town or village. Her credulous interviewer asked her no hard questions of any kind.

And then I got to thinking: what evidence could she possibly offer? What evidence would be universally believed? What evidence would convince me?

Eye-witness accounts, if she had them, are difficult, especially after filtered through barriers of language, culture, and lack of trust. Who saw it? How many people say they saw it? Do we believe them when they say they did? Do we even understand them? If we don’t understand them, do we trust the person who translated their words? Who brought these stories to us? What is their angle? Tales of atrocity are often trotted out by those who want more war somewhere; could that be happening here? I still remember the Maine. (Nor have I forgotten the highly unlikely story of Uday Hussein’s pony girls.)

What’s more, those of us in the sex-positive community have been heavily primed toward skepticism whenever conversations turn to questions of sex slavery and the trafficking of women against their will. There’s currently a huge memetic war underway in which the entire industry of consensual sex work in the US and some other wealthy nations is under siege by the usual blue-noses, and one of their tallest siege engines is a propaganda effort that seeks to conflate consensual sex work with involuntary sex trafficking and sexual slavery. Truth was the first casualty in that memetic war, which is a nice way of saying that the anti-sex-work advocates have been telling routine lies of astonishing scale and breath-taking scope. The result? Nobody who is aware of that propaganda effort believes anything that the gullible or complicit television media has to say right now about sex slaves and sex trafficking. It has become a reflex: hear the word “slave” or “trafficked” on television, think “bullshit!” and change the channel. Cool story, bro. Citation needed. This thread is worthless without pictures.

Which is a tragic reaction — if the story might actually be true. Which one supposes, in this case, it might be. We’re no longer talking talking about invisible imported sex workers at the Super Bowl, nor about trafficked U.S. children in their mythical never-seen millions. Instead we are talking about distant lands ruled by brutal and barbaric warlords who burn people alive and proudly upload the incineration video. (We know that last part is true because the videos are, or were, all over the internet; you could avoid seeing them, but you had to work at not seeing them.)

Wait a minute! Is it likely — is it even possible? — that the aforementioned warlords are proud of their propagandistic murders, but not so proud of providing “wives for the soldiers” or however they might justify their ill-usages of enemy women? Would they upload pictures of the one, but not of the other?

That seems odd. This thread is indeed worthless without pictures. Where are the pictures of the naked women and girls being sold in their thousands in the public markets of ISIS-controlled Syria and Iraq? Where are the furtively-shot seven-second phone-movies? You would think that shit would be all over social media!

Here’s the cruel irony: In the United States, at least, we have a criminal prohibition against the possession and distribution of child pornography. It’s a felony, for the noble purpose of utterly disrupting whatever market for child pornography might exist. It’s a felony, quite literally and without sarcasm, to protect the children.

Thus are we gored by the horns of the dilemma. That United Nations official? She wants a U.S. audience to learn and believe that women and girls are being stripped and sold at public auction by ISIS. Presumably the spread of this knowledge and belief would be useful to the official’s agenda, which (we at least hope) has something to do with helping those poor unfortunates. She, too, wants to protect the children (and their sisters and mothers).

Sadly, her U.S. audience has little reason to trust her story. Her thread is useless without pictures. Her thread is useless without pictures that, if she even has them, she can’t legally possess in the United States (although she may be fine while inside the UN building). She can’t share them with the news media because they too can’t possess them, and she can’t show them via digital means without making felons of everyone in the U.S. who might thus come into possession of those digital files (which is hard to avoid while viewing them). A reader of this post cannot even safely Google to see if such pictures exist, because there’s damned little legal space between that successful Google search and the commission of a felony. I know I didn’t dare do a search to find out if that U.N. official was spewing bullshit. Neither, probably, should you.

The law of unintended consequences. To protect the children, we’ve outlawed the most likely form of credible evidence that might convince anyone.

Would it be possible to craft some sort of journalist’s exemption to the child porn laws? Of course it would be possible, but there’s no political will to vote “in favor of child porn” as it would be described by your opponent in the next election. And what would a journalist’s exception even mean, in a world where everybody with a smartphone is sometimes a journalist for thirty seconds?

Nope, we’re just horned. It turns out that “protecting the children” means giving their abusers, too, an enormous measure of protection from international scrutiny and outrage.

Update: A few months on, careful reporting by the New York Times makes it much clearer which portions of the sexual slavery horror stories were true and which were not. A genuine trade in slave women appears to have been documented, but the “naked slave auctions” part appears to have been breathless exaggeration: Isis Enshrines A Theology Of Rape

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June 8th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Orson Welles Edits A Porno

lesbian shower scene directed by Orson Welles

This isn’t some kind of convoluted joke. Orson Welles, it turns out, really did do the film edits for a lesbian shower scene in the 1975 porn movie and Georgina Spelvin vehicle 3 A.M., directed by Gary Graver. As the story goes, Grave was supposed to be working on film by Welles, but the Welles movie wasn’t funded, Graver wasn’t getting paid, and so Graver was making the porn movie to pay his bills. Supposedly Welles volunteered to edit one of the scenes in 3 A.M. to get that movie done quicker, so that Graver could return to work sooner on the Welles project.

Vulture has the whole story, all the film-geekery details, and a clip of the lesbian shower scene in question.

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June 7th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Funding A Porn Movie On Indiegogo

The Sssh.com house blog Erotic Scribes posted an article last Thursday called The Challenges of Crowd Funding Porn Movies, which is most specifically about Shine Louise Houston’s effort to crowd-fund the making of Snapshot, a “sex-positive, queer porn production”. Erotic Scribes quotes Houston about the challenges of funding of the movie:

“As a smaller company working on the fringe of the adult industry, funding any project is a big concern. It’s a value of the company to produce our projects independently to keep full creative control over our work. But that stance poses some challenges.

That’s why we’ve taken the plunge into crowd funding. We’ve seen other campaigns on Kickstarter get pulled for being associated with the adult industry so we were very wary about heading a campaign of our own. We finally decided to go with Indiegogo and we were very upfront with them about being adult and asked them to review our campaign before it was launched. To our surprise we passed inspection. But two days into it our campaign was pulled, but not for reasons you would assume. Our raffle tickets in our VIP party perk were against their TOS. Who knew. Their explanation was that you can’t give a prize that is entrance into a contest. Fair enough. Since we pulled the raffle tickets it’s been smooth sailing… kind of.

It’s true that Indiegogo has always had the buzz of being slightly less porn-hostile than, say, Kickstarter, which flatly prohibits “pornographic material” in its TOS. But IG’s historical position on pornography projects can best be described as “muddled and squeamish”. Last year their Australian rep flat-out said for publication “We have some restrictions — we don’t allow fund-raising for pornography.” IG’s TOS don’t say anything specifically against porn, but the TOS do prohibit posting “links to sites that contain sexually explicit material.” (If you thought the Snapshot pitch by a maker of queer porn movies was oddly anodyne, sexless, and lacking in links to Houston’s work, that’s why.) One furry site exploring their adult crowdfunding options asked about Indiegogo’s porn policy and received this less-than-ringing endorsement from Indiegogo customer service back in 2013:

We are not completely opposed to adult content, but as our site is visible to minors, we require that all adult-themed campaigns be discrete. We do not allow nudity or other explicit or graphic content.

Now, in 2015, the word again is that Indigogo allows porn projects, as long the would-be producer can put together a funding pitch that doesn’t link to anything sexually explicit, like, say, the producer’s production studio and life’s work.

What about supporting Snapshot itself? In the abstract, I’d love to see the project get funded, because intelligent porn doesn’t get made via traditional funding models; we need functional new ones. But queer porn is way outside my usual line and I’m not at all familiar with Houston’s work. If it helps you decide, Violet Blue at Tiny Nibbles is an enthusiastic supporter of Shine Louise Houston and the Snapshot project; Violet says “I strongly recommend throwing even just $5 in the kitty.” So there you have it!

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